You Have What It Takes: What Every Father Needs to Know

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You have what it takes, Dad.

Every boy wants to be a hero. He wants to be powerful, dangerous. He wants to know . . . Do I have what it takes?

Every girl wants to believe that she is captivating, worth fighting for. She wants to know . . . Am I lovely?

Only you, Dad, can help your children find the answer to those questions. That makes you the most powerful man in your ...

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Overview

You have what it takes, Dad.

Every boy wants to be a hero. He wants to be powerful, dangerous. He wants to know . . . Do I have what it takes?

Every girl wants to believe that she is captivating, worth fighting for. She wants to know . . . Am I lovely?

Only you, Dad, can help your children find the answer to those questions. That makes you the most powerful man in your child's life. And as you will learn in this inspiring book, You Have What It Takes.

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780785288763
  • Publisher: Nelson, Thomas, Inc.
  • Publication date: 3/6/2007
  • Pages: 64
  • Sales rank: 333,316
  • Product dimensions: 4.00 (w) x 6.80 (h) x 0.30 (d)

Meet the Author

John Eldredge is a counselor, teacher, and the author of numerous bestselling books includingWild at Heart,Epic,andBeautiful Outlaw. He is the director of Ransomed Heart, a ministry restoring masculinity to millions of men worldwide. John loves fly fishing, bow hunting, and great books. He lives in Colorado with his wife, Stasi.

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YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES

What Every Father Needs to Know
By JOHN ELDREDGE

Nelson Books

Copyright © 2007 John Eldredge
All right reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-7852-8876-3


Chapter One

THE SECRET TO BOYS

Every little boy is asking one basic question.

You notice it in nearly everything he does.

Little boys love adventure. Just the other day my wife was having a cup of coffee in the kitchen when she saw-out of the corner of her eye-something fly out the second-story window. She investigated and found a rope, made of bedsheets, hanging from the boys' bedroom window. They had stripped their beds, knotted the sheets together, anchored the "rope" to their bunk beds, and were rappelling down the side of the house, Batman style. Just a typical Saturday morning in a house of boys.

Give a little guy a bicycle. Is it enough that he learns to ride it? Of course not. As soon as those training wheels are off (no, sooner), he's seeing how fast it can go, riding with no hands, jumping it off the curb, making skid marks on the sidewalk, racing against all comers. Noises go with it, too, noises that no one needs to teach a boy-he just knows how to make them. Loud engine noises and speedy, whooshing noises and screeching, crashing noises and a soundtrack to go with it all. That is no mere bike he's riding, and he is no mere boy. He's a motorcycle racer, a fighter pilot, a starship captain.

Look at the stories boys love, the games they play. They are full of battle and adventure and danger. They love to build things ... and then blow 'em up. They love to jump off stuff. What does a boy wear if you let him wear what he wants to wear? Let him out of his school clothes and his Sunday school togs, and in a moment he'll be decked out in camouflage, army style, or dressed up as a cowboy, a fireman, a superhero, a Jedi knight with a bath towel wrapped around him and a stern look in his eye. Every boy wants to be a hero. Every boy wants to be powerful, he wants to be dangerous, and he wants to know: Do I have what it takes?

That's the question every boy is asking: "Do I have what it takes?"

And when he grows a bit older, it turns to fast cars (the louder, the better), computer games of battle and adventure, and making the sports team. He wants to hit the home run in the bottom of the ninth. He wants to make a slam dunk just before the buzzer sounds. If he's more academically inclined, well, then, he wants to win at chess; he wants to ace the test; he wants to come out on top. He wants to prove himself. And all through those years, when he's riding his bike with no hands or trying to look cool and doing all those other things that boys do, he is looking to impress you.

Because every boy shares the same basic question: "Do I have what it takes?"

And every boy looks to his dad to answer it.

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Excerpted from YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES by JOHN ELDREDGE Copyright © 2007 by John Eldredge. Excerpted by permission.
All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
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Table of Contents

Contents

The Secret to Boys....................1
The Secret to Girls....................5
What a Father Needs to Do....................9
The Most Powerful Man in the World....................11
The Voice of a Father....................17
The Answer to Your Question....................25
Healing the Wounds....................31
It's Never Too Late....................41
The Power of Love....................47
If You Want More....................51
About the Author....................53
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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 27, 2012

    Great- Easy Read and applicable to every man

    If any man who has influence over children were to pick up any one book to read on how to leave a positive influence it would be this one!
    I picked up this book for my husband for Christmas- and we both read it and talked for hours about the things he points out in the book.

    Very easy read- took about 30 minutes or less. It is a simple but profound concept he talks about. A great book to put in the hands of new fathers.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 11, 2011

    A definite must-have for every father (mothers get it for your fathers in your family).

    A godly father needs to have these principles.

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