The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations for Codependents

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by Melody Beattie



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ISBN-13: 9780062553898
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
Publication date: 07/01/1990
Series: Meditation Series
Edition description: 1st HarperCollins cloth ed
Pages: 393
Product dimensions: 6.00(w) x 1.25(h) x 9.00(d)

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Language of Letting Go 4.4 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 105 reviews.
rfm More than 1 year ago
This is a book of daily affirmations, but I found it to be much more helpful than the typical Stuart Smalley "You're good enough, you're smart enough..." tripe. It is aimed at people in codependent relationships but speaks profoundly to anyone with low self-esteem. There have been days when I thought the author was speaking directly to me -- that's how meaningful I have found it to be. You can open it anywhere and find something relevant. Since it is always in the bargain bin, I buy it over and over and give it to people I love who are struggling to be happier. Do yourself a favor and buy it.
dward13 More than 1 year ago
i was intorduced to this book a few years ago , i have passed it along to so many people i meet once again i find myself without a copy . for thanksgiving this year i bought the book for all of my family members , there is something for everyone !
Faith2Day More than 1 year ago
This book was recommended to me by an aquaintance. I originally purchased this book for a friend though I didn't give it to her because she purchased her own. I am about to give it to someone else. I feel people who find themselves feeling weak or unable to control their own destiny's should sit with this book to give them strength to move forward. It helped me to give this to someone who was in need of just that. Never rain on your own parade stand up and take control and release the people or things in your life that are pulling you down. If they are a very heavy weight why should they be your anchor? I call these people or things psychological and emotional vampires. They drain you of your own strength for their needs. In the words of a great lady named Ann Landers "No one can take advantage of you without your permission." I believe this to the truth and have lived by those words for many years. Gain strength starting with this book and others she has written. Melody Beattie was there and she speaks for many that are now in the same position. Melody offers a great deal of knowledge. Let her help you to grow stronger. Good Luck and Best Wishes to you.
bjm18 More than 1 year ago
This book was very highly recommended to me by a dear friend. It is absolutely an inspiration to me......I have even given this book as a gift to family and friends because it is so good. I use this book as sort of a "Good morning God" book and it helps me to be inspired throughout the day.......very specific........easy read......but full of wisdom!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I was handed this book my first day of sobriety from Alcohol and Drugs. I have read it everyday since for the past 8.5 years. I now own a sober living home for women and we read this book every morning at our Daily Meeting. This book and the tools it offers have literally saved my sanity!! I have learned to be direct, to not take ownership of other peoples "stuff", to take care of me...the list goes on and on and on!!! This is a fantastic absolute MUST...if you suffer from co-dependency, low self esteem, or the inability to know or speak your truth! Get it, Read it, practice the tools...everyday...your life and relationships will change!!
lblackst More than 1 year ago
An amazing book that walks you through the healing process. You can read it daily because it is set up for each day in every month or you can look up topics in the back.
Yaneth Rignack More than 1 year ago
This book helped me so much through a difficult marriage and divorce. It helped me think about myself and realize that i did indeed have a right to be happy on my own. Gave me the strength to stand up for myself and enjoy life! I bught a copy for my friend.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book is one of those books that everyone who is having a hard time of letting go and moving on with their lives. It is one of those books that you read and you can actually agree with. For anyone who feels bound by their anger, guilt, hurt or pain, I also recommend "When God Stopped Keeping Score." I thought that the book was just about forgiveness, I soon learned, it was about so much more than that. I was about how you should deal with friends, family and yourself and more importantly, how to keep these relationships strong when things go wrong. Having read it, I feel like a better person. Maybe because this book spoke to me and not down to me. I have read a lot of books that was written like I didn't know anything. What the author of "When God Stopped Keeping Score" does is talk to you like a friend. I needed that. You will understand why when you read it.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Melogy Beattie describes the problem of codependacy so accurate word for word of what it's like to have this issue. I would highly recommend this daily book of meditations to help you on your recovery from Codependency, its a day by day journey toward freedom. I thank her for all her books. She is truly an expert on this topic.
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whiteknight50 on LibraryThing 10 months ago
This book changed my life. I highly recommend it to anyone who struggles with self worth, fear, addictions. It helped to change my outlook on life, and I am much better for it. Go get it!
aannttiiiittnnaa on LibraryThing 10 months ago
Offers a daily helping of support to those on the recovery journey, can calm a busy mind with a worthwhile reflection.
lsknightsr1 on LibraryThing 10 months ago
Another brillant book by Melody Beattie! If you are an Adult Child of an Alcoholic, or what many term "codependant" , then this book will be your rock in a stormy sea. I especially enjoyed the fact that it was a daily reminder to keep working on issues that are holding you back. Once again Beattie nails home the hard truths of codependancy, yet is still able to help the reader find ways to battle this demon all adult children of alcoholics carry with them. This book got me through many rough days and has helped me grow and become a better person for the reading of it.
MonicaLynn on LibraryThing 10 months ago
Helpful daily meditation. Enjoyed all of the messages and the time to take to read it. Daily was helpful!!!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Read it daily
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LizzleVestrizle More than 1 year ago
This book can really help in all aspects of life, not just codependency or addiction. Everything time I read it I feel empowered, at peace or leading down the path to peace, and reminded that  I control my own outcome. That happiness lies within me and not others. That it is okay to "be human" and feel things and to face things and just deal with them. VERY DIRECT, NOT CHEESY AND JUST SPEAKS TO YOU ON ALL LEVELS. ( a big kick in the butt I LOVE IT) 
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Even though I am an atheist, I am aware of the notion of cause and effect, and of the fact that, in general, if you always try to do good in your life, then you will always like yourself. You will have integrity. At the time I read this book I was a religious person, but even now that I am not, I would still recommend it because of its insistence on self-love and self-respect. This book emphasizes the notion that people are not to allow themselves to be used because both the victim and the user are degraded by the experience.
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This is a must read every day...insight into all our thoughts, feelings & expectations and how to deal with them and those people who test us.
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Excellent short daily readings on ways in improve your attitude towards life. Not pedantic.