Bitching

Bitching

by Marion Meade
Bitching

Bitching

by Marion Meade

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Overview

In the early 1970s, the national conversation regarding feminism was very different. Public discussions of womanhood—single life, marriage, workplace harassment, rights, gripes—were often channeled through movement spokeswomen and always refracted through the lens of talking to men about men. Little was shared about the chats happening behind closed doors where everyday women talked to women without the threat of men listening in. But, all that changed with the book Bitching.

Originally published in 1973, Bitching is journalist and author Marion Meade’s deep and insightful investigation into the real dialogue happening inside coffee klatches, consciousness‑raising groups, and therapist’s sessions. Using excerpts from real taped conversations, Meade presents the frustration, anger, resigned acceptance, and scathing humor that make up the female experience from birth to grave.

For the first time, male chauvinist behavior goes fully examined and unexcused, and the roles men force upon women get broken down to their sometimes ridiculous component parts. A snapshot into a key time in the feminist movement, this book is a must‑read for anyone interested in how far we have come . . . or how much we have stayed the same.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781497638976
Publisher: Open Road Integrated Media, Inc.
Publication date: 09/02/2014
Pages: 250
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.40(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

About The Author
Marion Meade studied at Northwestern University in Illinois and later received a master’s from Columbia Graduate School of Journalism. She worked as a freelance writer and her articles have appeared in leading magazines and newspapers, including the New York Times, McCall’s, the Village Voice, Ms. Magazine, and Cosmopolitan. Meade has written novels, biographies, and nonfiction books. Bitching was a significant contribution to the second phase of development in the feminist movement. She has written biographies of Victoria Woodhull (Free Woman), Eleanor of Aquitaine, Madame Blavatsky, Buster Keaton (Cut to the Chase), Woody Allen (The Unruly Life of Woody Allen), and Dorothy Parker (What Fresh Hell Is This?). She has published two historical novels: Sybille, which narrates the life of a woman troubadour in thirteenth century southern France, during Europe’s first great holocaust, the Albigensian crusade; and Stealing Heaven, The Love Story of Heloise and Abelard. She lives in New York City.

Table of Contents

To Mankind, With Lovev
1Her Heart Belongs to Daddy1
I.Playpen Games4
The Fine Art of Faking Out Father4
Family Fascism5
Sieg Heil, Daddy8
I Remember Mama10
II.Flower Child Games13
Little Princess Power13
Sex and the Single Six-Year-Old15
Miss Muffet's Fantasies18
III.Puberty Games19
The Making of a Girl19
The Wisdom of Keeping One's Legs Crossed and Mouth Shut21
2If she's so Smart, Why isn't she Married?23
I.IQ Games25
Brains: Female vs Male25
The Pros and Cons of Playing Dumb27
II.High School Games29
The Boyfriend29
Sex32
Confessions of Ex-Wallflowers34
Extracurricular Activities35
How to Select a Profession in One Easy Lesson38
III.Collegiate Games39
The College of One's Choice39
The Shopworn Virgin40
The Illegitimate Student43
3Paychecks are a Girl's Best Friend47
I.Hiring Games50
Help Wanted50
Interview Rituals52
II.Office Games54
The Boss54
The Company Man58
The Ovary People61
III.Executive Games62
Some of My Best Friends Are Men62
The Double Life of a Female Executive64
IV.Fringe Benefit Games66
The Free Lunch66
Office Affairs69
The Corporate Pervert71
4I Guess You Could Say She's That Cosmopolitan Girl73
I.Sex Object Games78
The Education of a Sex Object78
Feminine and Masculine Hygiene80
Penises We Have Known81
II.Street Games85
Ogling85
Pickups87
III.Sex Games88
The Market Value of Virginity88
O Seduction91
Masturbation93
Gothic Abortion Tales94
Rape Me97
What's a Nice Girl Like Me ...?99
IV.Dating Games100
The Man Problem100
The Playgirl Philosophers105
The Goldilocks Papers107
V.Love Games109
Meaningful Relationships109
Wedding113
5Everybody Ought to Have a Wife (Women Included)113
I.Newlywed Games117
The First Hundred Days117
The Wife's Pledge of Allegiance121
II.Parlor Games122
Civil War122
The Wife-Beating Tapes126
The Real Meaning of Nagging128
III.Housekeeping Games127
The Real Meaning of Taking Out the Garbage129
IV.Money Games132
Butter Bread132
Pocket Money135
Just Helping Out, Thank You136
V.Bedtime Games138
How Marriage Ruined My Sex Life138
How to Drive a Husband to Infidelity Without His Ever Suspecting143
The Double Standard Revisited145
VI.Baby Games148
Glorious Motherhood148
The Case of the Missing Daddy152
6Truth and Consequences157
I.Breakup Games159
Leveling At Last159
Eleventh-Hour Rescues164
Move166
II.Legal Games168
Our Money168
Our Children171
Male Chauvinist Pig Attorneys174
III.Therapy Games177
Character Assassination177
Nora's Diary181
Reflections on One's Future181
7You've Come a Long Way, Baby187
I.Geriatric Games189
Leftover Objects189
Old Massa192
Last Rites196
II.Liberation198
Elegies to His Memory198
If I Had My Life to Live Over201
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