Adopted Son: Washington, Lafayette, and the Friendship that Saved the Revolution

Adopted Son: Washington, Lafayette, and the Friendship that Saved the Revolution

by David A. Clary




They were unlikely comrades-in-arms. One was a self-taught, middle-aged Virginia planter in charge of a ragtag army of revolutionaries, the other a rich, glory-seeking teenage French aristocrat. But the childless Washington and the orphaned Lafayette forged a bond between them as strong as any between father and son. It was an unbreakable trust that saw them through betrayals, shifting political alliances, and the trials of war.

Lafayette came to America a rebellious youth whose defiance of his king made him a celebrity in France. His money and connections attracted the favor of the Continental Congress, which advised Washington to keep the exuberant Marquis from getting himself killed. But when the boy-general was wounded in his first battle, he became a hero of two countries. As the war ground on, Washington found in his young charge the makings of a courageous and talented commander whose loyalty, generosity, and eagerness to please his Commander in Chief made him one of the war’s most effective and inspired generals. Lafayette’s hounding of Cornwallis’s army was the perfect demonstration of Washington’s unconventional “bush-fighting” tactics, and led to the British surrender at Yorktown.

Their friendship continued throughout their lives. Lafayette inspired widespread French support for a struggling young America and personally influenced Washington’s antislavery views. Washington’s enduring example as general and statesman guided Lafayette during France’s own revolution years later.

Using personal letters and other key historical documents, Adopted Son offers a rare glimpse of the American Revolution through the friendship between Washington and Lafayette. It offers dramatic accounts of battles and intimate portraits of such major figures as Alexander Hamilton, Benedict Arnold, and Benjamin Franklin. The result is a remarkable, little-known epic of friendship, revolution, and the birth of a nation.

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ISBN-13: 9780553383454
Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
Publication date: 01/29/2008
Edition description: Reprint
Pages: 592
Product dimensions: 5.21(w) x 8.16(h) x 1.11(d)

About the Author

David A. Clary, former chief historian of the U.S. Forest Service, is the author of numerous books and other publications on military and scientific history. He has been a consultant to several government agencies and has taught history at the university level. He lives in New Mexico with his wife, Beatriz.

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Adopted Son

Washington, Lafayette, and the Friendship that Saved the Revolution
By David A. Clary


Copyright © 2007 David A. Clary
All right reserved.

ISBN: 0553804359

Chapter One

I Was All on Fire
to Have a Uniform

Of all the animals in the world,
the most unmanageable is the boy.


Auvergne was a region of ancient lava flows and eroded volcanic necks, an eerie landscape, rugged and heavily forested, where ghosts and monsters and strange beasts lurked. In its level spaces it supported farming on its rich volcanic soil. Sheep grazed on the gentler slopes surrounding the fields, and hogs rooted on the edges of the woodlands. Around them, the tortured, wooded mountains inspired fears. It was a land of ignorance, superstition, hard labor, and poverty.

A journey to Paris, about 200 miles north, took more than two weeks in 1757. The area had always been isolated, owing to the rugged landscape and bad roads. Those same qualities had given the province a tragic place in history. In 52 bc, the town of Alesia in Auvergne was the last stronghold of the Celtic Gauls (called the Avernii by the Romans). Under Vercingetorix, they had fought the conquering Roman armies through years of brutal combat. The mighty power of the Roman Empire told on the Gauls, however, until the last resisters, about 80,000 of them, were surrounded by Julius Caesar's troops and earthworks.

An army of Belgii, another Celtic nation,marched to their relief, but the Romans slaughtered them to the last man. Vercingetorix offered to surrender Alesia and offer himself as a hostage to spare the lives of his people. Caesar accepted, then ordered his troops to massacre the Gaulish soldiers and sold the people into slavery, scattering them across the Empire. He sent Vercingetorix to Rome, where he was beheaded as an insurgentus.

Gaul ceased to exist except as a province of the Roman Empire. Celtic was no longer spoken and was replaced by the Low Latin of the Roman soldiers. Over the centuries, that Latin became French, and what once was Gaul became France.


Lafayette was born on September 6, 1757, in the same room of the Château de Chavaniac as his father before him, the top-floor chamber of one of the building's corner towers. The house–built in the pseudo-castle "Château style" on the foundations of a real castle that had burned down in the 1690s–was a Normanesque pile of stone with twenty large rooms and a slate roof. It was as cold as a barn in the winter despite its many large fireplaces. The Château was separated from the neighboring village of Chavaniac by a moat, just as its neighborhood was separated from the rest of France by the forbidding landscape of Auvergne.

The hereditary title of marquis, for a nobleman of middling rank, had been in the family for three generations, a reward for military service to the king. The clan could be traced back as far as the year 1000, and members had served in France's wars ever since. But Lafayette was descended from a line of younger sons (eldest sons inherited properties and titles), most of them Champetières who traced back to the thirteenth century. The history of Lafayette's forebears was a litany of younger sons who started out in poverty, married well, sired offspring, and went off to war to die young. They were close enough to Paris and Versailles to answer the call to arms but not near enough to be influential at court. They were provincial nobility, country bumpkins compared to the courtiers, glittering peacocks who surrounded the throne.

Nearly all Lafayette's ancestors had been warriors of greater or lesser repute. His great-grandfather Charles, a veteran soldier with a sterling reputation, began the family's rise out of recurrent poverty, founding its permanent fortune and receiving the title marquis de La Fayette. Charles' son Edouard married very well, acquiring Chavaniac along with his bride, and expanded his land holdings. His most notable military accomplishment was to fall off his horse and crack his head in front of the king. He survived long enough to produce two sons, Jacques-Roch and Gilbert, Lafayette's father. He left behind a domain that stretched thirty-five miles across Auvergne and seventy-five miles north to south, which Jacques-Roch would inherit.

However, Jacques-Roch died in a fierce battle with the Austrians when Lafayette's father was two. That left Gilbert holding in his little hands the family name and estates. He married Marie-Louise-Julie de La Rivière, daughter of an ancient line of wealthy nobles. Her dowry extended his real estate into Brittany and gave him, for the first time in the family's history, connections to the inner circle around the king. Her grandfather, the comte de La Rivière, commanded the Mousquetaires du Roi (King's Musketeers, later made famous by Alexandre Dumas' novel The Three Musketeers). Known as the Black and Gray Musketeers, the outfit was the king's personal horse guard.

It was a Catholic country, and infant mortality rates were high in 1757, so the newest Lafayette's prompt baptism was imperative, lest his baby soul end up in Limbo. It took place at the nearby parish church a few days after his birth, delayed to give his mother a chance to recover enough to attend. She did not make it. Neither did his father, who was away at war. His maternal grandfather, the marquis de La Rivière, had been expected, but the journey from Paris took too long. Lafayette's paternal grandmother, Marie-Catherine de Chavaniac, served as godmother, while his cousin the Abbé de Murat presided. He was baptized "the very high and very mighty lord Monseigneur Marie-Joseph-Paul-Yves-Roch-Gilbert du Motier de La Fayette, legitimate son of the very high and very mighty lord Monseigneur Michel-Louis-Christophe-Roch-Gilbert du Motier, marquis de La Fayette, baron de Vissac, lord of Saint-Romain and other places, and of the very high and very mighty lady Madame Marie-Louise-Julie de La Rivière."

As this considerable mouthful of a name reflected, Lafayette's mother was a devoted Catholic, a habit that did not rub off on him. "I was baptized like a Spaniard," he said later, "and with no intention to deny myself the protection of Marie, Paul, Joseph, Roch, and Yves, I have most often called upon St. Gilbert," a wry reference not to the saint but to himself. His name, he told a correspondent, included that of every saint who might protect him in battle. So many Lafayettes had died fighting for France that "the family's misfortunes in war became a kind of proverb throughout the province."

Lafayette descended from a long line of orphans, whose sires achieved fatherhood a few jumps ahead of the Fatal Bullet. He joined their ranks before he was two years old, when his father was killed on August 1, 1759, at the Battle of Minden in Germany, while serving as a colonel of grenadiers in the French army. In one of the biggest battles of the Seven Years' War, the French lost about 5,000 men killed and wounded and several thousand more captured.

The elder Lafayette's commander had been ordered to keep his men below the skyline but rashly exposed them. When his immediate superior was killed, Lafayette stepped up to replace him, and as his son described it a half century later, he "was at once carried off by a ball from an English battery, commanded by a certain General Phillips."

William Phillips was at the time a twenty-eight-year-old captain in the British Royal Artillery, mentioned in dispatches for his "superlative practice" at Minden. In his next battle he became the first artillerist in history to bring his guns into action at a gallop. Lafayette would run across him later. "By a strange coincidence," he said, twenty-two years later two of his cannons opened fire on the English headquarters at Petersburg, Virginia. He claimed that one shot went through a house where Phillips was, killing him outright. This comment says much about Lafayette's accuracy as a chronicler of his own career, as Phillips died of disease, although the marquis did lob a cannonball his way.


Lafayette's father died, cut in two by English iron, before he had prepared a will. Young Gilbert succeeded to his feudal titles, while his widow reclaimed her dowry. Lafayette's grandmother appealed to the king for an allowance to raise him, and he granted a pension of 600 livres. Lafayette was not poor, however, because when his mother and grandmother died he could expect to receive an income of 25,000 livres. By the time he was four, an uncle died and he became future heir to the La Rivière fortune, with an annual income of 120,000 livres.

The boy marquis would not starve; a board of financial guardians would see to that. His family support was another matter. News of his father's death shattered his mother, who, consumed by her grief, abandoned him at Chavaniac and left for her family's home, the Luxembourg Palace in Paris. On April 5, 1760, barely eight months after the Battle of Minden, she gave birth to Lafayette's sister, who died less than three months later. Lafayette, growing up at Chavaniac, seldom saw his mother over the next several years.

Children often respond to the death of a parent with feelings of betrayal or abandonment and sometimes the fear that they are somehow to blame. Lafayette was too young to react that way toward his father's death, but having no fatherly presence left an empty space in his life. How he viewed his mother's absence–she off amid the splendor of Paris and Versailles, either enjoying social life or indulging in religious observance–will never be known. However much it must have affected him, in later years he was charitable rather than bitter toward her. "My mother," he said in one of his few references to her, "was a woman of lively temperament who had once had a liking for the frivolous, but after her husband's death had plunged into religion with all the strength of her character. Though she loved me devotedly it would never have occurred to her to take me away from my La Fayette grandmother, for whom she had a deep reverence."

European nobles were notorious for the hands-off way they raised their children. Their marriages were arranged and often loveless, dynastic contracts between rich families to produce offspring and legitimize the transfer of titles and property between generations. The children grew up under the guidance of tutors and nurses until it became time for them to marry and for the boys to become military cadets. Lafayette was fortunate among his generation in that he was closely raised and loved by blood relations.

His grand-mère paternelle, Edouard's widow, had brought Chavaniac into the family as part of her dowry. She had lived in the house since 1701. Madame de Chavaniac was an unusually enlightened mistress over the family's estates, allowing the peasants to hunt and garden on her lands and to take firewood from her forests. When times were hard she made sure nobody went hungry. Moreover, she was a canny businesswoman who expanded the family's properties. She also bought out all supervising feudal rights over Lafayette, so he owed allegiance to no lord but the king.

With her at Chavaniac was her spinster daughter, Madeleine, mademoiselle du Motier. When Lafayette was five, the household was joined by Madeleine's widowed sister, Charlotte Guèrin, baronne de Chavaniac, and her six-year-old daughter, Marie de Guèrin, who became like a sister to him. Lafayette, an unusually beautiful, cherubic little boy, grew up among–not under the supervision of–three generations of females, who doted on him.

In fact, they let him run wild. He roamed over the estate playing games, especially war games, and dragooned peasant boys into following him in mock battles and parades. "From the time I was eight," he recalled years later, "I longed for glory." A cousin visited Chavaniac in 1768, when Gilbert was ten, and reported that he saw in the boy the "seed of self-esteem and even of ambition." The seed thus planted was of what Thomas Jefferson later described as Lafayette's "canine appetite for popularity and fame."

At the age of eight, Lafayette recalled when he was twenty-two, his heart pounded when he heard of a hyena that was wreaking havoc in the neighborhood. What he referred to was the "Hyena of the Gévaudan," which showed up in the area in 1765. It killed livestock, terrorizing the region enough that the king sent royal gamekeepers to bag it. When a newspaper said that somebody named Lafayette had met the beast and run from it, he wrote a vicious letter to the editor, which his aunt intercepted.

The monster continued to roam the territory until 1787, when a hunter killed it. If it was the same animal that had appeared two decades earlier, it turned out to be either a big lynx or a wolf (accounts differ) with an inflated reputation. That was not enough for Lafayette about twenty years further on. Typically revising his early life in his memoirs, he described the "Beast of the Gévaudan" as the killer of 120 women and children along with its usual diet of sheep. He claimed that he grabbed his father's musket from the wall and headed into the forest when the monster first appeared, but his tutor and aunts made him come home.

Lafayette's glorious obsessions were fueled by his education at Chavaniac. His grandmother hired his first tutor when he was five. Two years later an itinerant pedagogue, the Abbé Fayon, entered the household, and stayed to teach the young marquis and his cousin. Daily instruction emphasized reading, writing, and arithmetic, along with such broader learning as children their age could take.

This generation of young Frenchmen was saturated with the virtues of the Roman Republic, especially through the writings of Plutarch, Livy, and Tacitus. Lafayette first encountered Julius Caesar's Commentaries under Fayon's guidance. He gained a valuable insight from the Roman's work: a writer can brag about himself shamelessly and get away with it if he writes in the third person. The various reminiscences and memoirs that began pouring out of him in the late 1770s were often written that way.

"But a child's real education," Lafayette said, "comes from the feelings and the attitude of the family in which he grows up. . . . It was but natural that I should hear much talk of war and glory among close relatives whose minds were ever filled with memories and regrets and a profound veneration for my father's memory." What he received was a combination of history from Fayon and family yarns from his grand-maman. Since his was a military family, it was military glory that he absorbed most.

The line of soldiers whose portraits in shining armor decorated the walls of Chavaniac extended back 700 years. In 1250 Lafayettes rode in the Sixth Crusade and, according to family lore, captured the Crown of Thorns from the Saracens. In the next century Gilbert de Lafayette II fought England's Black Prince Edward at Poitiers, one of the great battles of the Hundred Years' War. In 1428, Gilbert III, marechal de France, was Joan of Arc's general at Orléans, smashing the beef-eating Anglais and saving French independence. There was Lafayette blood shed aplenty, up to his grandfather's three wounds and his father's ghastly death.


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Table of Contents

List of Illustrations     xvii
List of Maps     xix
A Note About the Letters     xxi
Cast of Characters     xxiii
Prologue: An Inexplicable Charm (June 28, 1778)     1
I Was All on Fire to Have a Uniform (September 1757-December 1775)     5
The Family's Misfortunes in War Became a Kind of Proverb     7
From the Time I Was Eight, I Longed for Glory     10
I Would Much Rather Have Been Vercingetorix     14
I did not Hesitate to be Disagreeable     20
The Destinies of France and Her Rival Were Both to Be Decided     25
So Young and Inexperienced a Person (February 1732-June 1775)     30
Keep to the Fashion of Your Equals     31
A Youth of Great Sobriety, Diligence, and Fidelity     36
I wish Earnestly to Attain Some Knowledge of the Military Profession     41
The Conscience of a Soldier Has so Little Share     47
I am Now Embarked on a Tempestuous Ocean     53
This Great Military Arrangement (July 1775-June 1777)     59
The Were Bribed into the Preservation of Their Liberties     60
I Think the Game is Pretty Near Up     67
I Have Found a Unique Opportunity to Distinguish Myself     73
A Generous Reception Will do usInfinite Service     84
The Confusion Became Extreme (June-September 1777)     86
He Required no Pension no Special Command     88
I Have Come Here to Learn     95
La Fayette is the Sole Exception     101
We Don't Care How Soon He Begins the Frolick     109
The American Fire Was Murderous     111
I Am Now Fixed to Your Fate (September 1777-January 1778)     118
Advise Me, Dear General, for what I am to do     120
The Marquis is Determined to Be in the Way of Danger     128
He Likes to Consult Me About the Most Important Matters     133
I Entertain Sentiments of the Purest Affection     138
Oh American Freedom What Schall Become of You! (January-April 1778)     149
I Do Not Entertain Myself any Idea of Leaving Your Army     152
The World Has Theyr Eyes Fixed Upon Me     155
Kayeheanla     162
The Properest Man We Could Choose     165
They Will Not Be Fond of Fighting Us (April-July 1778)     172
Suffer Him to Return to His Employers     173
The General Well Knew What He Was About     179
His Countrymen Soon Find Access to His Heart     185
Fight, Sir     187
The General and He Slept on the Same Cloak     199
I Hope Your French Friend Will Ever Be Dear to You (July 1778-January 1779)     202
At Least We Shall Get a Good Dinner     203
People Censure the Admiral With Great Freedom     210
I Think Myself Happy in Being Linked to You in Bonds of Strictest Friendship     215
I Flatter Myself That General Washington Will Not Disapprove of This Proposal     221
Do'nt Forget an Absent Friend     224
I Love Him as My Own Son (January 1779-March 1780)     229
I Would Willingly Have Sold Off the Furniture of Versailles     230
Don't Forget Me, My Dear General     238
We Will Talk of This Matter & Fix Our Plans     244
I Shall Tell You Frankly That We are Wasting Precious Time     250
I Am Considered Too American (March-December 1780)     258
I Eat Several Meals of Dogg, and it Rellish'd Very Well     259
What M. De Lafayette Has Written You is Purely a Result of His Zeal     265
Whom Can We Trust Now?     275
He Made it a Rule to Follow General Washington in Everything     282
The Boy Cannot Escape Me! (January-July 1781)     287
You Will Remember That Your Corps is a Part of This Army     289
It is Probable I Will Be in the Southern Wilderness Untill the End      297
It is Not My Tongue These Gentlemen Will Cut Off     301
They Retarded as Much as Possible the Enemy Progress     305
God Grant That the Public Does Not Pay for My Lessons     308
The Fifth Act Has Just Ended (July-December 1781)     314
You Will Therefore Not Regret Your Stay in Virginia     315
I Heartly Thank You for Having Ordered Me to Remain in Virginia     320
May That Great Felicity Be Reserved for You!     327
The Engineers Troll About Like Sorcerers Making Circles     330
I Pity Lord Cornwallis     338
Do Often Remember Your Adopted Son (January 1782-December 1784)     344
In Every Thing I do I First Consider What Your Opinion Would Be     345
Let Us Unite in Purchasing a Small Estate     352
He Has Gained More Applause Than Human Nature at 25 Can Bear     357
You Will Be My Compass, My Dear General     361
These Things Darkened the Shades & Gave a Gloom to the Picture     364
Vive La Fayette! (January 1785-December 1791)     373
The Hero of America Has Become My Hero     374
Kings are Good for Nothing But to Spoil the Sport     378
He is Sensible His Party are Mad     384
The Scene of the One Action Was in Heaven, the Other in Hell      393
The Lament of Washington (January 1792-December 1799)     403
His Circle is Completed     404
I Have Associated You With Stormy Destinies     410
Courage, Child of Washington!     417
This Affair Has Made Me Very Unhappy     425
I Hoped This Would Not Have Happened     427
ENVOI: Le Vashington Francais (January 1800-May 1834)     433
The Soul Has Disappeared from La Grange     434
He Has not Retreated an Inch     439
Afterword: Greatness of Name in the Father Oft-Times Overwhelms the Son     450
Notes     453
Chronology of Washington and Lafayette     518
Acknowledgments     529
Bibliography     532
Index     551

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