Table of Contents
Why This Book? . . . ix
Part I: Who Am I Really? . . . 1
1 What Is Spirituality? . . . 3
2 Our Resistances to Spirituality . . . 15
3 The Ordinary Self and the Real Self . . . 25
4 A Spiritual View of Human Development . . . 39
5 Diagnosis or Dharma? . . . 53
6 Beginning Spiritual Psychotherapy . . . 59
7 Ghosts in the Room and the Gift of Transference . . . 67
8 A Spiritual View of Resistance . . . 75
Part II: What Really Heals in Psychotherapy . . . 81
9 Disidentifying from the Ordinary Self . . . 83
10 Awareness . . . 91
11 Analysis . . . 99
12 Acceptance . . . 107
13 Allowing . . . 115
14 Action and Will . . . 127
15 Connecting with the Real Self: Communion . . . 135
Part III: Techniques of Spiritual Psychotherapy . . . 145
16 The No-Technique of Spiritual Psychotherapy . . . 147
17 Presence . . . 153
18 Don’t-Know Mind and Spiritual Guidance . . . 157
19 Non-doing . . . 165
20 Love, Hope, and Joy . . . 171
21 The Levels of the Soul and Working with the Body . . . 183
22 Working with the Super-ego . . . 191
23 The Necessity of Hatred . . . 201
24 The Role of Forgiveness . . . 207
25 Using Meditation and Other Spiritual Techniques . . . 215
26 Making Mistakes . . . 221
Part IV: The Frontiers of Spiritual Psychotherapy . . . 231
27 The Healing Crucible of Spiritual Couple Psychotherapy . . . 233
28 The Underworld Journey of Depression as a Spiritual Teacher . . . 249
29 Spiritual Emergency, Psychosis, and Transcendence . . . 265
30 Kundalini . . . 281
Part V: Coming to an End . . . 289
31 The History of Spiritual Psychotherapy . . . 291
32 Endings, Losses, Death . . . 297
33 Psychotherapy as a Spiritual Practice . . . 305
Acknowledgments . . . 311
Bibliography . . . 315
About the Author . . . .319