Becoming MomStrong: How to Fight with All That's in You for Your Family and Your Faith

Becoming MomStrong: How to Fight with All That's in You for Your Family and Your Faith

by Heidi St. John

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Becoming MomStrong: How to Fight with All That's in You for Your Family and Your Faith by Heidi St. John

Have you ever looked into the faces of the people who call you “mom” and wondered what in the world you got yourself into?
If you’re like many Christian moms today, you’ve been reading the headlines and watching the rapid-fire changes in our culture with frustration and fear. Let’s face it: Moms today are facing questions that previous generations didn’t even see coming, and even our right to determine what is best for our own children is under fire. Popular speaker and blogger Heidi St. John (The Busy Mom) believes that today’s mothers need a special kind of strength. We need to be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. We dare not rely on human strength for the battles we’re facing right now. In Becoming MomStrong, Heidi has a powerful message just for you—the mom in the midst of it all. Through encouragement, practical prayer points, and authentic “me-too” moments, Heidi equips you for a job that only you can do: to train your children to hear God’s voice and to walk in truth no matter where our culture is heading. God wants to use this generation of mothers to do something extraordinary:

  • To be strong in the Lord
  • To know who you are in Christ, and
  • To impart that strength to your kids.
In other words, He wants you to be MomStrong! So if you’re feeling tired or inadequate today, get ready to find new strength as you join Heidi St. John in Becoming MomStrong.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781496412669
Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers
Publication date: 09/19/2017
Pages: 288
Sales rank: 63,786
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.20(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

Heidi St. John is a popular conference speaker, author, and blogger at the Busy Mom. Heidi speaks all over the country, bringing hope and encouragement from God's Word to women. She and her husband, Jay, are the founders and executive directors of Firmly Planted Family, an organization focused on family discipleship. The St Johns live in Washington State, where they enjoy life with their seven children and their grandchildren.

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CHAPTER 1

GOOD NEWS — YOUR KIDS CAME WITH A MANUAL!

I like manuals. Luckily for me, most things come with one. Your car came with a manual. So did your TV and your Crock-Pot. Last week, I actually bought an eyeliner manual. You know, because, really, I'm just making that up as I go too.

When it comes to parenting, there are a lot of great books out there. But MomStrong moms are looking for more than advice — we're looking for wisdom. And God tells us that the beginning of wisdom is found in knowing the Lord (see Psalm 111:10). The way we find out what God's character is like is by reading His Word. Every other book out there (including this one) pales in comparison to that singular literary masterpiece. It's the only book you need.

I learned this lesson from an older couple when my now-grown kids were still very young. In fact, it's etched in my memory forever.

One Saturday afternoon when my husband, Jay, and I were rookie parents, a couple from church stopped by. Jay had been a pastor for just five years or so, and I was doing my best to juggle the roles of pastor's wife and mom to three kids under the age of six. Garry and Carol had been running errands, and they felt like the Lord told them to drop by on their way home to see how we were doing. In fact, I'm sure it was the Lord's prompting, because Jay and I were fighting, and there's no way we would have invited them over to see that.

Now you need to know me and my sweet man to truly grasp the nature of our "fights." We're not screamers, though once in a blue moon we will raise our voices. We don't throw things either. (We made this rule after I accidentally gave my husband a black eye during a heated argument just after our first anniversary, when I kicked my shoe off at him and it hit him squarely in the eye. It was totally an accident, but he's still getting marriage mileage from it!)

It's embarrassing to admit, but that day we were pretty up in arms over a parenting issue with one of our delightful little angels. I can't remember what it was about — when you have seven kids, those details can get a bit fuzzy — but I'll never forget the humbling experience of looking at our screen door and seeing Garry and Carol standing there staring at us ... and looking rather amused. After all, it's not every day you happen to walk in on your pastor and his wife acting like three-year-olds in a sandbox.

"Is this a bad time?" Carol asked, sheepishly holding out a box of doughnuts.

Jay and I looked at each other. I felt my face getting hot. "Of course not," we lied. "Come on in."

Garry and Carol sat on the couch, but the awkwardness of the moment persisted. Finally, I looked at Jay and then back at our friends. There was no point in pretending that now was a "good time." We were clearly not having a great day.

"To be honest," I started, "we're having a disagreement. Do you mind if we get your perspective on it?"

It's worth noting here that Garry and Carol weren't a couple of newlyweds. They were the parents of five wonderful daughters, and we had a tremendous amount of respect for them. We were still very much in the "experimental" part of our parenting, and we clearly needed some advice and godly counsel.

Carol and Garry spent quite a while listening to us talk about our problems and a particularly long time patiently sitting by as I unpacked a load of my insecurities about motherhood. That's when Carol noticed something.

"Heidi, I see you've been reading a lot about parenting," she said. She was right. On the coffee table in front of them sat a plethora of books. Carol picked up one of my favorites and thumbed through it. "This is a pretty good one," she said as she put it back on the table, "but I can't help noticing the absence of the book you really need to be reading."

I raised an eyebrow. Good! I thought. She was going to lead me to the holy grail of parenting books! I reached for a pen and paper.

"I don't see a Bible anywhere on this table."

(Insert painful silence here.)

I'm not gonna lie: that was awkward. Here I was, a pastor's wife, caught in a full-on argument with my husband, surrounded by every self-help book on the shelf ... except the Bible.

Great.

Now Carol wasn't being rude; her tone wasn't the least bit condescending. I knew she loved me. I also knew she was right.

"Heidi," she continued, "if you commit to spending more time in your Bible, you will soon discover that you won't need to rely on these other books. The Bible and the Holy Spirit are all you really need. Wisdom starts in the Word. God will give you whatever else you are lacking. And if that includes finding encouragement from these other books, you'll know that, too."

It's been nearly twenty years since then, but I've never forgotten Carol's exhortation to me. It was the first time that I realized I was depending on human voices and that those voices were taking priority over the voice of my heavenly Father.

To be MomStrong is to understand what comes first. Our priority must be hearing from the Lord in every aspect of our lives. If we're not listening for the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit, we're more likely to fall victim to the latest and greatest parenting fad or to get sucked into the trap of believing we can do it without the Lord — and that's exactly what the enemy wants.

THE TROUBLE WITH COOKIE-CUTTER PARENTING

Garry and Carol's visit marked the beginning of when Jay and I turned away from cookie-cutter parenting advice and started learning to listen more carefully for God's wisdom. Good teachers and pastors are wonderful, but they're no substitute for time alone with the Lord. We need to hear from God more than we hear from people.

In the nineties, Jay and I participated in a popular parenting class at our church with several other young couples. Those were formative years for all of us, and we wanted to get it right. All the parents who took the class with us were well meaning, and I'm sure the author of the course was well meaning too. But the results (i.e., how the theory worked in real life) ranged from disappointing to devastating. The problem? Too many of us accepted this cookie-cutter approach to parenting as the inspired Word of God rather than directly seeking the Lord.

We all did our best to follow the advice laid out in the book we were studying. It touched on virtually every aspect of parenting: there was a right way and a wrong way to feed babies, and there was a right way and a wrong way to do naptime and bedtime. It really was a formula for parenting. The trouble is, formulaic approaches to parenting don't usually work, because each child is different. We learned very quickly that what worked for one child didn't necessarily work for the next one, and so on.

Many of the lessons we learned in the class were excellent, but the hard-and-fast rules of the program set the stage for what turned into legalistic, performance-based parenting. It was as if there were a competition between the families in the class. Whose kids were the most polite? Which ones came running as soon as they heard their names?

One morning in church, I noticed that my kids were arguing over something. Normally I would have just corrected the situation, but in this parenting competition I'd placed myself into, the stakes seemed higher. I felt like I had to crack down hard on the infraction. Suddenly I felt like everyone was watching my children. It didn't help that I was a pastor's wife either. Every time the kids disobeyed me in church, I was deeply embarrassed for others to view my apparent lack of parenting know-how.

The comparison trap was stealing the joy from parenting — but worse than that, it had us all focused on achieving temporary obedience rather than gaining insight into our individual children. That pride and embarrassment put the focus solely on my children's actions rather than on their hearts.

This is the real danger of formulaic parenting. Formulas tend to make parents believe that correct actions always indicate a contrite heart. Of course, that's simply not true. A child can be made to sit down on the outside and still be standing on the inside. In the past twenty years, I've never met a mom who merely wanted her children to act like good kids. We want more than that for our kids — we want them to be good kids. Unfortunately, performance-based parenting often encourages just that — a performance.

Of course, reading advice from other godly people isn't bad; we can glean much wisdom from believers who have walked the journey before us. But when we do all our learning from others and forget to spend time with the Lord, we're in danger of winning the battle and losing the war.

The battles come in the form of everyday issues like getting your kids to put away their toys, sit still at the dinner table, and brush their teeth. These are largely just prewar warmups, and we all approach these situations differently. But war is different: the stakes are higher. We're talking about the hearts and minds of our children here — their character, their compassion, their moral foundation, and their capacity to love. Matters of preference are inconsequential; matters of the heart and soul are eternal. MomStrong moms understand the difference, and while they don't ignore the battles, they know that their primary focus must be on winning the war.

WHEN FATHER DOESN'T KNOW BEST

I want to go a little deeper with this "battle vs. war" idea because I know firsthand how easy it is to lose sight of the larger goal of capturing the hearts of our children. It's possible to win battles with our kids over lesser things but lose their hearts in the process. To that end, MomStrong moms are always asking, "What's the bigger issue?" It's easy to look back and agree that having a kid who isn't potty trained by the time the books say he should be pales in comparison to making sure the hearts of our children are tuned to hear that still, small voice of the Lord. The hearts of our children are what we want to guard above all else, and perhaps no one learned this lesson the hard way as much as King David did.

In 1 Kings 1:1-14, we read the story of King David and two of his sons, Adonijah and Solomon. Both his sons knew their father was dying, and both wanted to be king in his place. As we read the story, we see that Adonijah was absolutely set on taking his dad's place, despite the fact that the throne had already been promised to Solomon. Adonijah began boasting, "I will make myself king!" He then got together a bunch of chariots and charioteers and recruited fifty men to run in front of him (see 1 Kings 1:5). According to Scripture, King David had never disciplined his son at any time, even by asking, "Why are you doing that?" (see 1 Kings 1:6).

Seriously? Never? Listen, I wasn't there (I know — shocker), but my guess is that King David's children were not all that unlike my own kids. I bet they pushed their parents to the absolute limit dozens of times. In fact, I'm sure they gave their father dozens of reasons to discipline them, but even so, the Bible says King David didn't take advantage of any of these opportunities. David gave Adonijah autonomy, position, and everything money could buy, yet he neglected to give him the one thing he needed most: fear and respect for the Lord.

So how'd that work out? Well, to make a long story short, while Adonijah was running around partying with his friends and anointing himself king, David followed through on his promise to his wife Bathsheba and anointed their son, Solomon, king instead. When Adonijah tried to overtake his brother's throne, Solomon had him killed. And there you have it: a serious case of winning a battle and losing a war. David's failure to hold his sons accountable for their actions cost both him and his family dearly.

There is a huge part of me that totally gets what David was going through. Like most parents, I imagine that David probably got tired of listening to complaints from and about his children. After all, King David had many wives — there are eight named in the Bible. The man had his hands full, with nineteen sons and at least one daughter. He had a full-time job just managing the people of Israel, let alone all his wives and children.

It would be easy to make excuses for David's lousy track record, but instead I hope we can learn from it. First lesson: just say no to multiple wives. And on a more practical level, even when we feel overwhelmed by the job of correcting our children — when we think we can't do it for one more second — our kids need us to stay engaged. David's decision to disengage from the hard work of parenting left his family tree in chaos.

The way I see it, David's troubles aren't that different from our own. (Well, with the exception of the multiple wives. Even I can see that's a bad idea.) Regardless, our culture today is quick to excuse parents from the tough job of parenting.

In February 2013, police officers pulled over fifteen-year-old Ethan Couch in the family pickup truck. In addition to having no driver's license, the underage Texan boy was drunk on vodka, an open bottle tossed in the back of the truck. A passed-out girl slumped next to Ethan in the passenger seat. It was widely reported that the young man was disrespectful to the police officer, who tried to warn him about the dangers of drinking and driving.

When Couch left later with his mother, Tonya, he had received two citations for his crimes. This wasn't new territory for the Couch family, as they already had a history of defying the law and then using their wealth to avoid prosecution.

Four months later on June 15, Ethan, drunk once again, plowed through a group of people helping at the scene of a minor accident. Four people were killed. In the court case that followed, Couch was charged with four counts of intoxication manslaughter and two counts of intoxication assault. Tarrant County prosecutors were seeking a maximum sentence of twenty years of imprisonment for Couch, but in December 2013, Judge Jean Hudson Boyd sentenced Couch to ten years of probation after his attorneys successfully argued that the teen needed rehabilitation instead of prison.

While the story of Ethan Couch is tragic, it was his defense strategy that made his case famous. According to psychologist G. Dick Miller, who testified in court, Ethan was a product of "affluenza" and was unable to link his actions with their consequences because his parents had taught him that wealth buys privilege.

Does that sound like anyone else you know? If King David were alive today, I imagine his attorneys might have used a similar defense for his son. Blame belongs to the rich dad, overwhelmed with his own life, who by design or accident taught his kids that they didn't have to be responsible for their actions.

It's easy to think we are loving our children when we let them get away with wrong, but the opposite is true. Oh, how the outcomes for both of these families would have changed had they known, taught, and applied God's Word in their parenting decisions! Is it a guarantee of success? No. I know many wonderful parents whose children have chosen to walk away from their parents' godly instruction. But we aren't responsible for the outcome. As parents, we're accountable for training our children in righteousness. The results are up to God.

Parenting is a tough job, but thank God, we don't have to rely on our own wisdom. God has already given us the best parenting manual in the world — His Word. The more we teach our children to follow in the ways of the Lord, the better equipped they will be to face the challenges ahead and "be successful in all [they] do and wherever [they] go" (1 Kings 2:3).

I'M NOT GONNA LIE ...

Let's be honest here. We can't give our children what we don't have ourselves. We can't train them in discipline and biblical values if we aren't living out those values in our own lives. And the truth is, our kids aren't the only ones who need help navigating the treacherous currents of modern society; we as parents are surrounded by lies too. We're being told that unborn babies have no right to life. We're being told that marriage between a man and a man or between a woman and a woman is not only okay, it's to be celebrated. Deception and unbiblical thinking have become so commonplace that we're afraid to even speak the truth for fear of being discriminated against or being labeled "intolerant."

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Table of Contents

Introduction Welcome to the Battle of Your Life xi

Chapter 1 Good News-Your Kids Came with a Manual! 1

Chapter 2 History in the Making 17

Chapter 3 Facing Your Giants 31

Chapter 4 Nothing Worthwhile Is Easy 49

Chapter 5 Your Kids Don't Need You to Do It All 69

Chapter 6 When Your Plans Get Turned Upside Down 85

Chapter 7 Don't Give Up! 103

Chapter 8 Into the Light 119

Chapter 9 No-Drama Mama 137

Chapter 10 Big Girls Do Cry 153

Chapter 11 Relax-God's Got This! 171

Chapter 12 The New Normal 185

Chapter 13 Sex, Lies, and Motherboard 201

Chapter 14 It Takes a Village 217

Chapter 15 Unshakable 237

Epilogue No Greater Joy 257

Acknowledgments 261

Notes 265

About the Author 267

What People are Saying About This

Zan Tyler

When I read books on motherhood, I expect to learn and be challenged. But I don’t expect to find a riveting page-turner that I can’t put down. Heidi had me at the subtitle: How to Fight with All That’s in You for Your Family and Your Faith. Our culture at times seems set on obliterating Christ and His Word from the lives and hearts of our children. Heidi exhorts us that we can’t give up in the quest to raise sons and daughters who love Jesus and know His Word. The stakes are too high for our children and our culture. Motherhood is a noble, holy, and difficult calling—and not for the faint of heart. But Heidi also acknowledges that every mother is at times “beautifully broken,” weak and weary, or just ready to quit. She gently and powerfully encourages us to bring all of who we are to the foot of the Cross—where Jesus replaces ashes with beauty, mourning with laughter, and weakness with strength. Motherhood is a high-stakes calling, but the journey leads us to places of redemption, restoration, and power in Christ that are life altering and gloriously redemptive. After you read this book, make sure you pass it on. This is a message every Christian mother needs to hear.

Angela O'Dell

Heidi’s engaging writing style and encouraging words dig in and draw a line in the sand of our modern culture. She is a modern-day Joshua, calling on Christian moms to choose to stand and be counted while she simultaneously reminds us to focus on the trustworthiness and strength of the One we serve. Becoming MomStrong is a gift to all Kingdom women for such a time as this.

Erin Odom

Encouragement, wisdom, and relief for those looking for a better way than the world’s definition of motherhood. I wish I could have read this when I first became a mother.

Wendy Speake

How can we raise children with a strong moral compass if we’ve lost sight of true north ourselves? Never before has a generation of kids had greater need for their moms to “be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power” (Ephesians 6:10, NIV). Without apology, Heidi gracefully tackles some of the most strength-zapping dilemmas we (and our loved ones) are facing today—hard things that no previous generation has walked through before. With my oldest now in junior high, this literary conversa-tion is perfectly timed. I want to do more than have quiet biblical convictions: Heidi is teaching me to stand strong in the direction of true north and to invite my children to boldly join me there.

Sarah Mae

Heidi’s book Becoming MomStrong is exactly what we moms need right now. With each passing day it gets easier and easier to just let things slide and let our kids raise themselves. The reality is that we only have “such a time as this” to impart wisdom and truth and good and beautiful things into our kids. This is our time, this is our call, and MomStrong is the rallying cry and strategic message we need.

Arlene Pellicane

Can you imagine having a toddler in your home for twenty-two years in a row? If that doesn’t qualify you to write a book entitled Becoming MomStrong, I don’t know what does. A mother of seven, Heidi St. John gets the weariness and realities of motherhood. But more importantly, she understands parenting in the strength of Almighty God. This book is a call to stop cowering in a corner and to start rising up in faith. This is a much-needed message for this generation of moms.

Rachael Carman

Becoming MomStrong is Heidi’s rallying call to moms everywhere to fight for their faith and their families. It’s her call to arms, her battle cry for a generation. Heidi shares her story for the benefit of all her readers. Her story is every mom’s story—filled with failures, embarrassments, and brokenness. It often seems like a dead end. But like her own journey, that’s not where ours ends. Our redeeming Savior uses it all for His glory. He invites us to stand strong in our weaknesses and to trust Him with all our mess. I want to thank Heidi for encouraging moms to be MomStrong and to raise a generation that knows and praises Him.

Jen Schmidt

Heidi’s words are a gift to moms everywhere. She ignites our passion to stand strong, stay rooted in the only truth that will not falter, and declare the battle cry for the hearts of our children. Becoming MomStrong is our invitation to link arms with other moms who understand that raising children who chase after Jesus isn’t for the faint of heart. Her simple yet poignant encouragement spurs us on even on those most difficult days.

Debbie Lindell

Heidi’s biblical perspective on the joys and challenges of motherhood will encourage you and build up your faith. Her down-to-earth way of communicating makes you feel like you are sitting across the table from a friend. Whether you are a soon-to-be-mom, in the middle of raising little ones, or you are sup-porting a mommy in need, Becoming MomStrong is a must read for you!

Heather Haupt

Motherhood in a rapidly changing culture that is vying for the hearts and souls of our children is not for the faint of heart. With refreshing honesty about the struggles we face as mothers, Heidi reminds us that the secret to becoming MomStrong has very little to do with us and everything to do with God. She is-sues the passionate call to not give up, but instead to run in His strength as we raise up this next generation!

Kristen Welch

Motherhood isn’t for wimps. One minute it can bring you joy and the next it can leave you weak in the knees. I love Becoming MomStrong because it points mothers to who they are in Jesus and who He is in them. It offers practical, spiritual guidance for the journey. Moms will be stronger with this book!

Jennifer Dukes Lee

This book is more than a book. It’s boot camp for a mom’s soul. Meet your coach: Heidi St. John. She’s also your cheerleader. Heidi will help you discover a strength that you didn’t even know you had. With authenticity, urgency, and a great sense of humor, Heidi brings you into her spiritual gym and reveals what it truly means to be MomStrong.

Ruth Schwenk

Refreshingly real and loaded with wisdom, Becoming MomStrong has a much-needed message of hope for moms everywhere!

Kelli Stuart

Becoming MomStrong came across my desk at just the right time. As the tide of an ever-challenging world left me reeling in fear and doubt, Heidi St. John’s gracious sharing of deep truths was exactly what was needed to give me the courage to walk forward. We all need someone to come alongside and remind us that we weren’t meant to mother in fear, but rather we are to be courageous in the face of the many great challenges that present themselves throughout our parenting journeys. Becoming MomStrong is the sounding cry that moms everywhere are looking for. This is a book that extends a hand and reminds us we aren’t alone and that together we are strong.

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Becoming MomStrong: How to Fight with All That's in You for Your Family and Your Faith 4.9 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 19 reviews.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This latest book from Heidi St. John is a new favorite in my "library of mom books". Heidi typically writes to encourage homeschool moms, but this book is applicable to ALL moms in ALL stages of motherhood! I cannot express how encouraged I have been reading this book. Along with her stories of personal struggle and success, Heidi encourages tired and worn out moms to focus on the one and only true guide to parenting; the Bible. I know this is a book that I will revisit time and time again.
JenniferFlanders More than 1 year ago
I love Heidi's heart for God, for strengthening families, and for encouraging mothers of every age. That passion shows in every page of her new book. I devoured it in two days, then immediately ordered three more copies to give to friends. BECOMING MOM STRONG inspires me to make the most of the time I still have with my children at home. Half of them are already grown and gone -- several with spouses and children of their own -- and I don't want to grow weary as I teach and train the rest of them. Heidi does a terrific job of reminding us what our highest priorities as mothers should be. I'm excited to be a part of the MOM STRONG movement!
S-Hudson More than 1 year ago
Heidi St John has launched a challenge to all moms to get back to the basics of the Bible and find strength and courage in God's word to face the day to day. We are called to be taking in God's word for ourselves. We are called to love and honor our spouse. We are called to equip and strengthen our children for the cultural challenges they will face in the future. If you need direction and encouragement in what it means to be a STRONG and BIBLICAL mom today, you need this book!
Beth Yenca More than 1 year ago
I've known about Heidi St. John for many years. She's been really popular among homeschool circles for quite a while. Since we homeschool, I thought it would be great to follow another homeschool mom. I saw the opportunity to be part of the Becoming MomStrong Launch team and jumped in. I didn't know what to expect from the book, but I am so thankful to have been able to be part of the group. The book is such a great resource! Heidi chooses to be transparent about her past and her struggles. She shares these in hopes that we know we are not alone in this journey. As she shares, she weaves in the beautiful Word of God. Each verse she shares shows us God's grace and mercy. It leaves us encouraged and empowered as we face the challenges of motherhood today. I highly recommend this book to all moms.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
We are at war. War against Satan for the hearts and minds of our children. Satan knows that if he can get at our kids, he will be able to continue to tear Christianity apart. In her book, Heidi St. John calls moms to action and declares that we need to be in the Word daily so that we can fight - and win - this battle. Her book is relevant, raw, and real. As you read it, you will meet a woman who has fought battles her whole life and has had victory only through Jesus. Along with encouraging us in our own daily lives, she gives practical advice and instruction on how we can best fight this battle and become victorious through Christ. This book is a must-read for Christian moms who want to raise godly children without fear of what our cultures say. You will be encouraged and emboldened to stand as a warrior, and your parenting and faith will be changed.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Heidi St. John is the real deal. Her genuine heart to encourage and inspire mothers is transparent in every word she writes. You will find in Heidi, a fellow comrade who shares real encouragement from her own personal struggles and stories, but more importantly, always points you back to the Lord. After devouring this book, I felt both empowered and convicted... Empowered by the reminder that my role as a mother has extreme importance in His kingdom, and convicted that I cannot just sit by and simply endure the day-in and day-out of motherhood. I cannot waste this time. Though I've been a mama for nearly 20 years, Heidi encouraged me to step-up my game as a mom! I've been challenged to deepen my walk with my Savior, while at the same time rest in His grace. Heidi points weary mamas to the tools they need to go the distance. Within every chapter are relatable stories, powerful prayer points, and scripture passages that are a soothing balm for real struggles every mom faces. Heidi’s words have also convicted me not to undervalue my daily motherhood moments but to be intentional in modeling for my children what a real life, day-in and day-out walk with the Lord looks like. A strong thread throughout this book is the importance of arming our own children with Truth as they go out to impact the world. Heidi’s book also issues a rallying cry for mothers not to walk alone. I have been challenged to seek out other mamas and build genuine relationships where we can point to Christ's sufficiency and hold one another accountable in our gearing up and reliance upon the Lord. Heidi’s book will lovingly refresh and inspire you to know who you are in Christ, to be strong in the Lord, and to let your children see Him in and through you.
Erin_Odom More than 1 year ago
How can we disciple our children without a strong relationship with the Lord ourselves? Speaker, author, blogger, homeschool advocate, and, most importantly, seasoned wife and mama (and grandmama!) Heidi St. John shows us how to become strong moms together--out of the overflow of our relationship with Christ. This is my 10th year of motherhood. I wish I had had this book from the get-go. Every mom and mom to be needs to read this book. I can't wait to check out the accompanying Bible study and journal!
BlueBelle More than 1 year ago
What does it mean to become MomStrong? It means having the strength that only comes from knowing the truth of who God is, the truth of who we are in Christ, and then teaching these truths to our kids! In the current cultural climate of relativism, having a solid understanding of what is truth is paramount. Heidi St. John's newest book, "Becoming MomStrong: How to Fight with All That's in You for Your Family and Your Faith", is a rally call to all moms, regardless of where we are in our mothering, to equip ourselves with God's truth for the battle for the souls of our children (and grandchildren!). I have been challenged, convicted, encouraged, and spurred on by what Heidi shares in her book, and I know that my life will be forever changed from having read it. If you feel like your faith and family is being attacked by the culture, and you just don't know how to respond, I highly encourage you to pick up a copy of this book; you won't be disappointed! ***I was privileged to receive a pre-release ebook copy of "Becoming MomStrong". This is my honest review of the book.***
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Omw!!!! This is a must have in your library!!! I have been listening to Heidi on her podcast for the past 2-3 years, and her words have had such a great impact on my personal and homeschooling life. Reading Becoming MomStrong has been such an eye opener for me as an individual, wife and mom!! If you want to know you're not alone in this journey called motherhood or grandmotherhood, this book is for you. I have cried and laughed through different chapters and often times have felt like someone was writing my life stories and experiences. It was a privilege to preview this book as part of the book launch team and I can't wait to see how it will bless others.
Anna_Hudson More than 1 year ago
Heidi challenges Christian moms to live a life that honors God. Her focus on the process of becoming the mom God called us to be is empowering. Real stories from Heidi's life mix with scripture to form an encouraging call to model a life of love and forgiveness. I highly recommend this book to moms in all stages of life.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This is one of the best books I have ever read. It changed the way I see motherhood and strengthened my heart towards God. Heidi desires to start a movement and that is exactly what God is doing through her book. He used this book to draw me closer to Himself and to strengthen me as a mom. I would highly recommend this book to any mother!!!
Cindy_T3 More than 1 year ago
A MUST READ for any mom who struggles with that voice of condemnation! (You’re not a good enough mom. Someone else could do a better job raising your kids.) After reading Becoming MomStrong and spending more time in God’s word (which is strongly encouraged throughout this book)—you will learn to listen to God’s voice of conviction and gain a renewed sense of who God says you are rather than listen to the enemy’s voice of condemnation. The author, Heidi St. John, gives you a front row view into her life of raising 7 children in today’s world. She shares with you life’s ups and downs and all the messy in-betweens while she takes you on her journey to becoming MomStrong. MomStrong moms are reminded that the Bible contains everything we need to lead our children, raising them according to God’s standards NOT the worldly standards. This will not only impact your children but generations to come. Becoming MomStrong is NOT the latest self-help book or fad but rather it is a movement for not only moms but, all women in roles of raising up the next generation, to come back to the word of God, the source of our true strength. I cannot wait to read this book again!
Katie Hornor More than 1 year ago
Strength comes from within, from a spirit fed by and led by the Holy Spirit. There is no way in the world to raise the next generation for the Lord without know Him and the power of His might. Heidi reminds me as a mother, that I don't have to do it all, do it alone, or do it in my own strength. The Lord has promised to do it through me, with me and by His strength. But I must KNOW Him to take Him up on that promise. A highly encouraging read for the modern Christian mom of any age. But beyond encouragement, the Biblical truths taught here can change your parenting and your life! (Disclosure: I was privileged to participate on the launch team and received a complimentary digital copy of the book. Review was not mandatory and is my own opinion.)
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
The most empowering parenting book I've ever read! This is not a book full of formulas to "fix your kids". It is refreshment and balm for moms, which enables their hearts to be fortified so they can be ready to fight this battle from a place of courage and confidence! Heidi knows how to bring big ideas to the bottom shelf so they are practical and easily understood. Her writing is transparent, and she shares from experience how the principles in these chapters have strengthened her as a Christian woman and mom. I'm a pastor's wife, blogger, and women's event speaker, and I have to say this book is great reading for any lady in a mentoring relationship with kids, not only mothers. Learning the difference between the voice of conviction and the voice of condemnation, how to face my fears (prior to this book, I never viewed myself as fearful...now I am equipped...so I can say "Not today Satan!"), how to prepare my kids for rejection and help them suit up in defense of the gospel...these are only a few things I've learned from Heidi's book. I've done numerous book studies with groups over the years, and I'm right now excitedly planning my own study through "Becoming MomStrong" to encourage other moms (and reinforce what I've learned for myself!) using this gem of a resource. Highly recommend!
aggiekins More than 1 year ago
Becoming Mom Strong, by Heidi St. John, is a wonderfully encouraging book written to moms with such intimacy, it is like you are sitting down to coffee with a friend who shares genuine Biblical guidance with you on surviving and thriving as a mother in today’s society. Heidi encourages mothers of all stages in life to fight in the battle for the souls of our kids, helping those who are faint-hearted. She reminds us we have a God who is aware of our struggles and desires to come along side us and guide us in our motherhood journey. We are encouraged to seek God’s wisdom by going back to the Bible as the source of our wisdom and strength for raising children in our challenging society. It covers subjects that every mother will laugh, cry, and identify with. Her goal is that every mom will look back at raising children with the heart sentiment revealed in 3rd John 1:4, “I could have no greater joy than to hear that my children are following the truth.” You will not be disappointed with reading this book as it will certainly encourage you to be the godly mom that your children need. She also has a companion study guide that makes this book perfect to use in a group fellowship study for encouragement and support.
Jenifer Thuen More than 1 year ago
Mothering is hard, but we don't have to do it in the dark. Heidi St. John unapologetically points us to the best manual there is, God's Word. She spends the pages of Becoming MomStrong transparently encouraging us to press on and press in. My children are mostly grown and this book was still most definitely challenging to me - hit me square between the eyes on some points I needed to regain clarity and purpose in. As we walk this road together, we can walk it in the strength of our Creator, the One who knows us best and knows our kids best!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Heidi captures her heart for mothers in this book in such a beautiful way. Through laughter and tears she guides our mama hearts back to the word of our Lord. She teaches us how to parent our children from a position of strength that can only come form a foundation in the Bible, ignoring what the cultures says is right for our kids. This book is so encouraging and has changed my life!!! It is a MUST read!!!!
Debbie Adams More than 1 year ago
Heidi does a fantastic job using humor and authenticity to remind us of our job as mother's especially in today's world. She encourages us to walk beside each other, to stand strong in our faith, and to raise our children in God's word. Constantly reminding us to read what God has to say about how we are to live our lives, she uses her own life to let us know that we overcome anything with God's help (and those around us). Mothering is hard and today's times with all the immorality and selfishness our kids face, it is our job as mother's to raise them with a strong moral compass based on their faith. We must fight and win this battle for our kids hearts, our own and those of our country's. We can only do this by Becoming Mom Strong! Loving, Encouraging, Authentic, Strong!
Kim Tilstra More than 1 year ago
Becoming Mom Strong is a powerful book on the subject of mothering in a godly way. This book consistently points the reader to diving into Scripture and prayer as we strive to parent in a way that points our children back to God. She speaks to lies we, as moms, commonly believe and combats them with Scripture so that we can live our lives as strong, unshakeable moms, who know the truth of Scripture and will stand firm on it. Every chapter comes with Scriptures to back up her thoughts and prayer points to help you catapult your own prayer life. This is NOT just another parenting book. This is a book that will point You to the Lord and His Word to look for the truth in our ever changing culture, in a way that makes you feel empowered! If you are a mom, trying to raise her kids for the Lord, this is a great resource.