Before You Do: Making Great Decisions That You Won't Regret

Before You Do: Making Great Decisions That You Won't Regret

by T. D. Jakes

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ISBN-13: 9780743570428
Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio
Publication date: 09/16/2008
Edition description: Unabridged, 8 CDs, 9.5 hours
Pages: 6
Product dimensions: 5.00(w) x 5.90(h) x 1.20(d)

About the Author

T.D. Jakes is the CEO of TDJ Enterprises, LLP; founder and senior pastor of The Potter’s House of Dallas, Inc.; and the New York Times bestselling author of Making Great Decisions (previously titled Before You Do), Reposition Yourself: Living Life Without Limits, and Let It Go: Forgive So You Can Be Forgiven, a New York Times, USA TODAY, and Publishers Weekly bestseller. He has won and been nominated for numerous awards, including Essence magazine’s President’s Award in 2007 for Reposition Yourself, a Grammy in 2004, and NAACP Image awards. He has been the host of national radio and television broadcasts, is the star of BET’s Mind, Body and Soul, and is regularly featured on the highly rated Dr. Phil Show and Oprah’s Lifeclass. He lives in Dallas with his wife and five children. Visit T.D. Jakes online at TDJakes.com.

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Before You Take the First Step -- Reflect, Discern

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step."

-- Chinese proverb

I can trace every success or failure in my life back to something I did or didn't decide effectively. Whether in the course of developing relationships, doing business, selecting investments, or accepting invitations, I've found a direct correlation between my location on life's highway and my decisions to turn, exit, stop, or start. Extenuating circumstances beyond my control were always involved, yet more times than not, I was a victim or victor of my own making, achieving or failing because I did or did not put in place the necessary prerequisites to accomplish my desired goals. Now, to be sure, I am not a self-flagellating individual who uses this premise to blame and belittle myself for past decisions and their consequences. No, I am saying that my decisions set the course of my life.

I have now been married to the same woman, the mother of my children, for over twenty-five years. That relationship decision has set the climate of my life much like a thermostat on a heating system sets the temperature in a room. In keeping with this concept, persons in a room may not know that the temperature is affected by the smallest incremental movement of a drop of mercury in a device at an unnoticed location. In spite of its invisibility to the inhabitants of the room it still affects the comfort level of everyone present. Similarly, my key relationship decision, and many other decisions I have made, affect me and all those around me. Good results are a direct reflection of my ability to think through, discern correctly, and move succinctly from the trajectory of my last decision.

We All Have Our Own Unique Decision-Making Process

Sometimes we have to make a small decision such as choosing a new hair style or whether to paint the bedroom sky blue or periwinkle. Other times decisions are larger, such as whether or not to move to a new city for a better job, or to keep an old one. We each have our own style and ways to approach the decision-making process. Some of us tend to know exactly what we want. We make up our minds quickly and act immediately. Others prefer to deliberate for a long time, weighing all the angles and options before deciding what to do.

Reflect -- Discern -- Decide

Good decision making in relationships, business, anything, results from a process of reflection -- discernment -- decision. This truth recently emerged in a new light for me. I have had the same COO in my for-profit company for nearly ten years. It was interesting to me to note an observation he made about me. Often people who work with you notice things about you that you have not realized about yourself.

He advised some business constituents that it was unwise to approach me with a presentation that was long and laborious. He had noticed what I jokingly refer to as my ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder), that my attention wearied quickly during presentations like those that included the history of a company and who the founder married in 1802. I really would rather be spared the guillotine of losing my head in the details that are largely irrelevant to what I need to decide. In other words, cut to the chase, answer my questions, and leave me to my own thoughts.

He also shared with them that the hardest part of doing business with me was the millions of questions I ask in the name of...

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Simple applications to assist you in everyday living. Apply them now so you will not regret later. Everything is not boilerplate; you need direction in diphering daily living. READ IT TWICE
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Godsemma More than 1 year ago
Book was received in a timely manner. It was a gift that my girlfriend enjoyed immensely.

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tanthony More than 1 year ago
This book is a wonderful source of information to help lead you in the right direction of making great decisions. T.D.Jakes is so spot on in his position on not experiencing regret. I love this book and I refer everyone I associate with to this book. Life Changing... A must read.
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It is a must read. I read this book and it is awesome from beginning to end. I am glad to have sat down and read, Before You Do! I'm planning on getting the DVD, as soon as possible!!!
Guest More than 1 year ago
I loved this book. Very helpful hints on dealing with the everyday life.
Guest More than 1 year ago
If all that was said on 'This is Your Day' is in the book, then we must get it. We all need to know how to deal with people that God brings our way each day. We need to know if they are here to stay and for our good 'confidants' or here for what they can get out of us. This knowledge will save us from unnecessay hurts.