Believe It and Behave It: How to Restart, Reset, and Reframe Your Life

Believe It and Behave It: How to Restart, Reset, and Reframe Your Life

by Kate Harvie

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ISBN-13: 9781640851207
Publisher: Kate Harvie
Publication date: 12/06/2017
Pages: 136
Sales rank: 767,363
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x 0.29(d)

Table of Contents

Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1

1. How It All Began . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5

2. Starting from Scratch – Making Sense of That (or trying to) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9

3. Time as a Gift and Time as a Test . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

4. The Personal: Taking and Making . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

5. Socializing, or “Socializing” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36

6. Dating: When You’re Ready and What Ready Actually Is . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44

7. From Off the Grid to On the Grid: Recovery in the “Real” World . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 54

8. The Job Thing: Looking for One and Needing One . . . 59

9. The Job Thing: “Getting To” Can Preclude Getting One . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 65

10. The Personal, the Sequel: Quick to Talk Makes Quick to Walk . . . . . . . . . . . . . 78

11. Ghosts: How to Manage Them . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 85

12. Working: A Job Where the Puzzle Pieces Don’t Fit . . 89

13. Coaches, Guides, Teachers: Learning From Them and Refusing Them . . . . . . . . 96

14. Who is Important. Why is More Important. . . . . . . 106

15. Facts: What I Know Now and What I Will Always Know . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 114

Appendix . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 121

Acknowledgements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 123

About the Author . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 127

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Believe It and Behave It: How to Restart, Reset, and Reframe Your Life 4.5 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 2 reviews.
Anonymous 23 days ago
The candor and introspection in this partial memoir make for an interesting read of a life still being learned from, as well as written.
ReadersFavorite More than 1 year ago
Reviewed by Mamta Madhavan for Readers' Favorite Believe It and Behave It: How to Restart, Reset, and Reframe Your Life by Kate Harvie is an inspiring memoir that speaks about the author’s recovery from traumatic brain injury and how she rebuilt her life powered by happiness, clarity, and truth. The title of the book helps readers understand how by believing that there is progress, whatever the pace might be, by behaving as if the action is happening and they are on the verge of becoming the person they want to become, they are making things happen. The book is about courage, resilience, survival, and hope and readers will understand there is always a solution to the problems and issues in life; be it health, family, or job. As the author puts it: ‘We deal. We cope. We grow.’ The book is uplifting and will help readers, especially the ones who are going through trying times, to perceive life and its problems with a positive outlook. Kate’s story will encourage them and they will find themselves better equipped when it comes to handling the challenges in life after reading this book. For all those who are stuck in their lives and need to reboot it, this book definitely will encourage them to go for a new start. It is a good, motivating read when it comes to overcoming obstacles and facing fears in a way that is honest and straightforward. The tools and tactics to rebuild life are palpable and can be applied if a positive change is what readers are looking for. The author’s grit, determination, and will to survive after what she went through are definitely motivating and that makes this book a must-read.