Beyond the Darkness: A Gentle Guide for Living with Grief and Thriving after Loss
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Beyond the Darkness: A Gentle Guide for Living with Grief and Thriving after Loss
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Overview
- meet and engage with loss in your everyday life,
- uncover the lies the world has told you about your grief, and
- point your feet toward hope and find a way to navigate your new life with loss and God beside you.
Product Details
| ISBN-13: | 9781496458933 |
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| Publisher: | Tyndale House Publishers |
| Publication date: | 07/05/2022 |
| Pages: | 240 |
| Product dimensions: | 5.50(w) x 8.00(h) x (d) |
About the Author
Clarissa Moll is an award-winning writer and podcaster who helps bereaved people find flourishing after loss. Clarissa's writing appears in Christianity Today, the Gospel Coalition, RELEVANT, Modern Loss, Grief Digest, and more. She cohosts Christianity Today's Surprised by Grief podcast and hosts The Writerly Life, the weekly hope writers podcast. She holds a master's degree from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School and is a frequent guest on podcasts and radio shows. Find her on Instagram at @mollclarissa or at clarissamoll.com.
Table of Contents
Introduction xi
Chapter 1 On the Path with Sorrow and Suffering: The journey Nobody Wants to Take 1
Part 1 Preparation for the Journey
Chapter 2 Obstacles on the Path: Four Myths We Believe about Grief and Loss 17
Chapter 3 Meeting Grief: Getting to Know Your New Companion 35
Part 2 Tools for Survival
Chapter 4 Aching Bones and Sleepless Nights: Physical Dimensions of Loss 55
Chapter 5 Bushwhacking through the Forest. Navigating the Practical Dimensions of Loss 77
Chapter 6 On the Shores of Loneliness: Wading through the Emotions of Loss 99
Chapter 7 Dark Nights beneath the Stars: Searching for Spiritual Answers to Loss 119
Chapter 8 And a Little Child Shall Lead Them: Parenting through Loss 137
Part 3 The Path Leads On
Chapter 9 The Trail Ahead: When Grief Is No Longer New 159
Chapter 10 Letting Grief Come to Church: Developing a Culture of Death and Resurrection 179
Chapter 11 Journey's End: Lifting Our Eyes, Longing for Home 197
Acknowledgments 214
Notes 216
About the Author 223
What People are Saying About This
In Beyond the Darkness, Clarissa Moll comes alongside all who find themselves in the darkness of grief with a light that points forward toward healing and joy. In these pages readers will find someone who “gets it,” someone who has felt the loneliness and the fears that are part of grief, someone who knows what it is like to want the load of grief to lighten while at the same time relishing the way grief helps us to feel close to the person we love who has died. This is a book filled with wisdom and insight that will speak into the questions, the uncertainties, and the opportunities presented to us in the loss of someone we love.
In Beyond the Darkness, Clarissa Moll offers tremendous wisdom and hope, even as she candidly explores the many layers of loss. A wise and tender guide, Moll bravely invites us into a journey through the shadows of grief—and into the healing balm of companionship.
As a sudden and unexpected widow myself, I resonate with all Clarissa has to say in her insightful book. She writes beautifully, observes carefully, and translates a dark passage of life into language we can understand and benefit by. As she courageously notes in her book's title—Beyond the Darkness—we do indeed come out the other side of darkness, death, and grief into light, life, and resurrection. I am so glad for that truth and thankful that Clarissa is pointing the way forward.
Clarissa Moll allows you inside her brilliant mind and tender heart to guide you out of the debilitating pain and suffocating fog of overwhelming grief. I did not want to read about death or sorrow or someone else’s pain, but I could not put Beyond the Darkness down. I was gripped by the author’s raw honesty and deep spiritual insights. Gone are the platitudes and self-help steps you have heard too many times before. This work is filled with the rich wisdom that can only be gained in the house of suffering. Her gentle advice, beautiful prose, and steadfast faith will be a balm to your broken heart.
In Beyond the Darkness, Clarissa Moll comes alongside all who find themselves in the darkness of grief with a light that points forward toward healing and joy. In these pages readers will find someone who “gets it,” someone who has felt the loneliness and the fears that are part of grief, someone who knows what it is like to want the load of grief to lighten while at the same time relishing the way grief helps us to feel close to the person we love who has died. This is a book filled with wisdom and insight that will speak into the questions, the uncertainties, and the opportunities presented to us in the loss of someone we love.
In Beyond the Darkness, Clarissa Moll is an insightful and tender guide, a companion who speaks wisdom with gentleness in a place no one chooses to be—a place that is the end of our known world. Beyond the Darkness is a balm for the soul, a life raft for those who are drowning. It offers hope and help for the grieving and for those who are walking with them. And it originates from a deep well and provides comfort—especially because it is written by someone who knows of what she speaks. I am deeply grateful for this resource, though it certainly has come at a great cost.
Clarissa Moll’s book is a beautiful expression of the power of the gospel to bring comfort and hope to those who experience crushing sorrow and unimaginable loss. I have read her book and observed her life. She and her children are members of our congregation who lost a loving husband and a wonderful father in the prime of his life. Most every time I see them, there are tears in my eyes and hope in my heart. Their loss was heartbreaking. Yet their lives are heart mending and hope bringing. All of us experience sorrow and loss. All of us need the hope to which Clarissa’s life and book bear eloquent testimony. It is indeed a book of hope, strength, and beauty.
Clarissa Moll has earned this wisdom, trudging the hard road of sorrow. I’m grateful she has recorded her steps for the rest of us. She has found there Another walking before her. Reading her brave and luminous book can help you—yes, even you—see him walking with you, too.
None of us will avoid an encounter with death—either our own or someone we love. For many of us, that encounter will be what it was to Clarissa: “a mysterious landscape without a map.” Clarissa explored that dark landscape, saw to the light beyond, and brought back to us the map we need. She says this is a book she never wished to write, but thank God she did write it. It is a book that every Christian should read.
Clarissa Moll is one of my dearest companions, and our grief stories have pulled us closer to Jesus and one another. This book has been fought for and is true and good. Beyond the Darkness gives us the hope we desperately need when we can’t see a thing, and I’m so thankful she bravely gave us the gift of her words.
Deeply practical and profoundly tender, this is a book that bandages the wounds of the grieving without rushing through the circumstances that put them there. Clarissa’s kindness toward her own grief will be a welcome friend to others who mourn, and particularly her insight into how to function through those first hours and days and months. This is a book that can nestle alongside casseroles, gift baskets, and potted plants for the grieving, lingering there still even when the doorstep becomes empty. An unassuming instruction manual for how to make it through the unimaginable.
Beyond the Darkness is a gift. It is a guidebook written for all who are confronted with a journey they never wanted to take—the loss of a loved one. In tender prose Clarissa Moll takes our hand and walks with us through the dreadful journey that is grief. She reintroduces us to our loving God, reminding us with awe that God, too, endured the grief of the death of his own Son and yet through that death has removed death’s sting forevermore. Add this book to your library. You may not need it now, but when you do, Clarissa Moll will be waiting to walk with you through your grief.