Co-parenting with a Toxic Ex: What to Do When Your Ex-Spouse Tries to Turn the Kids Against You

Co-parenting with a Toxic Ex: What to Do When Your Ex-Spouse Tries to Turn the Kids Against You

by Amy J. L. Baker, Paul R Fine

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Co-parenting with a Toxic Ex: What to Do When Your Ex-Spouse Tries to Turn the Kids Against You by Amy J. L. Baker, Paul R Fine

Protect your child from alienation and loyalty conflicts.

During and after a difficult divorce, it’s easy for your relationship with your kids to become strained—especially if you are dealing with a toxic ex who bad-mouths you in front of your children, accuses you of being a bad parent, and even attempts to “replace” you with a new partner in your children’s lives. Your children may become confused, conflicted, angry, anxious, or depressed—and you may feel powerless. But there is help.
 
In this guide, you’ll discover a positive parenting approach to dealing with a hostile ex-spouse. You'll learn the best ways to protect your children from painful loyalty conflicts, how to avoid parental alienation syndrome, and techniques for talking to your children in a way that fosters honesty and trust. Co-parenting with a toxic ex can be challenging, but with the right tools you can protect your kids and make your relationship with them stronger than ever.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781608829583
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Publication date: 05/01/2014
Pages: 224
Sales rank: 84,596
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.60(d)

About the Author


Amy J. L. Baker, PhD, is a national expert on children caught in loyalty conflicts and has written a seminal book on the topic, Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome, published by W.W. Norton and Company. In addition to conducting trainings around the country for parents as well as legal and mental health professionals, Baker has written dozens of scholarly articles on topics related to parent-child relationships and has appeared on national TV, including Good Morning America, CNN, and the Joy Behar Show. She has been quoted in the New York Times and US News and World Report, among other print media outlets. Baker graduated from Barnard College, summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa. She has a PhD in human development from Teachers College, Columbia University. More information is available on her website at www.amyjlbaker.com.

Paul R. Fine, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist in practice at a community mental health center in northern New Jersey. He has over twenty-five years’ experience working with diverse populations. His practice includes an eclectic and humanistic approach to problems faced by individuals and families.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments vii

Introduction 1

1 Causes and Consequences of Loyalty Conflicts in Families of Divorce 5

2 How Co-parents Create Loyalty Conflicts and How Children Respond 23

3 Core Concepts of Positive Parenting 47

4 Deepening Your Bond and Reducing Conflict with Your Child 59

5 When Your Ex Is Sending Poisonous Messages About You 83

6 When Your Ex Is Interfering with Contact and Communication 107

7 When Your Ex Is Erasing and Replacing You 131

8 When Your Ex Is Encouraging Your Child to B etray Your Trust 153

9 When Your Ex Is Undermining Your Authority and Fostering Dependency in Your Child 175

Final Words 195

References 197

Interviews


Baker and Fine live in New Jersey.

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Co-parenting with a Toxic Ex: What to Do When Your Ex-Spouse Tries to Turn the Kids Against You 5 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 2 reviews.
elinitz More than 1 year ago
This book has great insight. It has been very helpful during a difficult situation
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
If you are dealing with a toxic ex, not sure if you are or think it could turn into a toxic situation, this book has great suggestions and insights. I've recommended it over and over again. I hope your relationships don't require this book, but if they do, it will help. Good luck!