★ 06/10/2019
Williams (The Big Fat Activity Book for Pregnant People) chronicles the everyday humiliation she feels as a female in this frankly illustrated war cry. The events she recounts are simple: Williams wakes, dresses, takes the train, works, comes home, and cares for her infant daughter. Throughout, she delves into flashbacks of trauma, frustrated fury, experiences with substance abuse and sobriety, self-criticism, and, ultimately, triumphant discovery through friendship and the love of other women and their creativity. In loose-but-evocative, spare lines, often depicting only the barest contours of the body, Williams identifies the persistent harm done to women, through everything from ogling to rape, how that harm is internalized, and how women cope. There is blackout alcoholism for “oblivion junkies,” men to lose one’s self in, and the renewal of self that motherhood can bring. Williams does not shy away from her shame. She is also angry, and she knows she is not alone, and that brilliant anger is where the book becomes truly great. Her confidence—and literal straight gaze at the reader, full of vulnerability and challenge—makes this volume a critique, a lament, and a sigh. As Williams elegantly argues, many women need all three. This sharp and splendidly drawn memoir will strike a strong chord in the current moment. (Oct.)
"...[Williams] adds an eloquent voice to the chorus of stories testifying to the daily experiences of women under patriarchy. Commute is a book that really should be read by everyone."
Williams is as unapologetic in this book as she is vulnerable, which makes for a unique, timely, and powerful read.”
This is welcoming, soul-baring, stunningly interconnected, and very discussable.
"Williams does not shy away from her shame. She is also angry, and she knows she is not alone, and that brilliant anger is where the book becomes truly great. Her confidence—and literal straight gaze at the reader, full of vulnerability and challenge—makes this volume a critique, a lament, and a sigh. As Williams elegantly argues, many women need all three. This sharp and splendidly drawn memoir will strike a strong chord in the current moment. "—Publishers Weekly, Starred Review
“One day’s commute offers time for the author to reflect on sexual predators, alcoholism, and the experiences she understands better now than she did at the time…A catharsis for the author that fits perfectly within a pivotal period for society and culture at large.”—Kirkus Reviews
"...[Williams] adds an eloquent voice to the chorus of stories testifying to the daily experiences of women under patriarchy. Commute is a book that really should be read by everyone."—BookPage, Starred Review
“Williams is as unapologetic in this book as she is vulnerable, which makes for a unique, timely, and powerful read.” —The Beat
“This is welcoming, soul-baring, stunningly interconnected, and very discussable.”—Booklist
“This is welcoming, soul-baring, stunningly interconnected, and very discussable.
2019-07-03
One day's commute offers time for the author to reflect on sexual predators, alcoholism, and the experiences she understands better now than she did at the time.
New York City-based writer and illustrator Williams (co-author: The Big Activity Book for Anxious People, 2019, etc.) presents a graphic memoir that female readers will find galvanizing and male readers should find illuminating. She explains early on that her reading on the commuter train is restricted to female authors: "I don't read books by men because I feel sufficiently well-versed in the human male experience from my education." The lessons were hard earned, and some were slowly learned, since the author's perspective as a sober mother in recovery is very different than it was when she was experiencing sexual encounters as a blackout alcoholic. "Blackouts," she writes, "are euphoric, quiet, twilight birth....It's absolute, perfect freedom. So bring strangers home, because in this sacred darkness, intimacy is not a threat, it's a compulsion. The dark has you covered." Williams long felt some shame of complicity in what she now recognizes as outright rape, and she sees clarity in even murkier situations: "The yes or no of consent is not what separates mutual desire from predation," she writes. "The game is rigged; all the power is concentrated on the other side. We are groomed for compliance." Most pages are a single panel and self-contained, a series of reflections and impressions intercut with memories, as the woman on the page feels outnumbered by the men who sit too close to her, stare at her, or intrude upon her. Within her caricatures, she wonders which might be rapists and which might be rescuers. Over the course of the day, she reflects on her recovery, how the strong support of other women helped awaken her to a new life, and how their encouragement spawned this graphic, candid, courageous memoir.
A catharsis for the author that fits perfectly within a pivotal period for society and culture at large.
05/24/2019
The subtitle of this graphic—literally and figuratively—memoir by writer/illustrator Williams (coauthor, The Big Fat Activity Book for Pregnant People) promises an exploration of female shame. Williams certainly delivers that, as she documents a wide variety of her relationships and interactions with men—positive and negative, intimate and banal alike—and determining that our patriarchal society poisons all of them. Williams organizes her remembrances by themes and fragile connections rather than chronology, and her rudimentary drawings, which resemble hand-drawn clip art, are colored selectively and idiosyncratically, and feature the occasional photo. This homely mix more or less succeeds in conveying the emotional honesty Williams is after, but she sabotages the work as a whole with its final movement, a series of shrill, debatable proclamations about the degree to which culture renders women powerless [advance uncorrected proof used for review]. VERDICT By turns harrowing, sad, revealing, and infuriating, this isn't for all readers of graphic novels or memoirs, but those who brave it are in for a challenging, confrontational experience. Optional; frequent profanity, nudity and frank discussions of sex and sexual assault. [Previewed in Ingrid Bohnenkamp's Spotlight on Graphic Novels, "Mass Appeal," LJ 5/19.]—J. Osicki, Saint John Free P.L., NB
