A hilarious and perceptive examination of the mysteries of childhood and the perils of parenthood
From August 1956 through April 1961 I controlled the traffic and streetlights in New York City and northern New Jersey. It was a daunting task for a five-year-old, but by the summer of ‘56 I realized I had a responsibility I could not ignore. My identity and my mission were top secret. With the exception of terse, encrypted communications to the National Security Council and the CIA, I couldn't breathe a word.
In Confessions of a Former Child, Daniel J. Tomasulo chronicles and confesses his childhood delusions, his particularly challenging experiences as a parent, and his life as a psychologist. His memories of being a kidcontrolling streetlights, avoiding any foods with seeds lest he get pregnant, enduring his mother's cold loveare vivid, and his life as a parent is riddled with dilemmas. To start, he finds himself locked in a rubber-walled hospital room while his wife is in labor, and later he faces the necessity of giving mouth-to-mouth to his daughter's suffocating Raggedy Ann doll. As a professional who specializes in the highly personal, he traces the unusual and illuminating connections between his own life and evocative scenes from the lives of his patients.
With refreshing candor and laugh-out-loud humor, Tomasulo explores the elusive magic of childhood, the complications of parent-child relationships, and the lasting significance of the everyday.
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About the Author
Daniel J. Tomasulo is a psychologist, psychodrama trainer, and writer on faculty at New Jersey City University.
Table of Contents
Crossing the Hudson 1
A Day at the Beach 25
Confessions of a Former Child 37
Kettle of Fish 65
Always Get a Receipt 81
The Marathon Runs 95
Raggedy Ann Was an Accident 125
Manhattan Transference 133
My Father's Shadow 147
The Smoke Clears 157
King of the Streetlights 175
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
This book is impossible to put down. Dr. Tomasulo weaves his memories and stories together so perfectly. There are parts that are humorous and parts where the deep emotion and feelings are very palpable. This very charming book is easy to get immersed in and you will enjoy every minute of it!
I am not a reader who can read a book cover to cover in one sitting. It takes me weeks, sometimes months to get through even the shortest book. The first line of Daniel Tomasulo's Confessions of a Former Child kept me reading until there were no more lines to read. Reading Tomasulo's book was a corporeal experience, laughing, gasping, and sighing my way through stories like "Inkblot testing with Enrico" (the mentally challenged, two hundred and forty-one pound Italian immigrant). His candid way of retelling makes you feel like his most trusted friend. Having never been a psychologist, a parent, or a marathon runner, I found myself relating to the magic of his childhood, his idealization of his father, and the humor that occurs in the every day moments.
The author shares his most personal dreams, childhood fantasies, and life experiences with humor and honesty. Such a great reminder of how our past and present are always connected and makes us who we are no matter how hard we try to forget, wish it were different, or deny it. The author faces it head on with such courage you cannot help but be inspired to do the same.
For all of us who were children, laugh out loud stories with an understanding of why we are who we are. Helps us to understand ourselves and those around us with compassion and love. Must be read more than once to realize all the humor and insight.