Confidence: The Nice Guy Myth - How to Get What You Want in Love and Life without Being a Pushover

by Stuart Killan

Overview

If you're feeling like you're getting nowhere in life, or you feel as if you have basically failed at everything, then read this will be the most important book you read this year...

Here's why.

We've all heard the phrase "nice guys finish last"

And if you are too nice, you make your way through life by being submissive to the people around you.

So you want to take charge in situations...

But are worried, you'll come across as overbearing.

This short guide is your answer.

You'll find simple ways, which you can apply today, to be assertive without being rude.

To get what you want, without changing your core values.

For building lasting relationships while still being true to yourself.

Here's just a small fraction of what you'll discover:

• The 10 signs of being a pushover
• The secret to giving real compliments people actually believe (once you start doing this, they cannot help but have massive respect for you)
• How to respond to backhanded compliments from people trying to knock you down
• The playful way to make fun of others without hurting their feelings
• How many compliment is too many? What you need to know.
• A counter-intuitive way to gain the trust and respect of authority figures (so simple yet 99% of people won't do it)
• Hate conflict? How to overcome that in minute.
• The single worst word you can use to start a sentence (doing this instantly gives people a low opinion of you)
• How to spot this conversation trap which unethical and immoral people use to manipulate "nice people"

So if you want to unburden yourself from the shackles of your past... and start working towards the life you have always wanted...rather than towards the life you were programmed by your past to want...

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Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781913470135
Publisher:	Scott M Ecommerce Ltd.
Publication date:	11/08/2019
Pages:	44
Product dimensions:	5.00(w) x 8.00(h) x 0.09(d)

Table of Contents

​Introduction

Chapter One: What Makes You a Pushover

Pleasing

Neediness

Exaggerating Compliments

Defensive

Lying

Overworking

Never Expressing Your Thoughts

Uncertainty

Apologetic

Timid

Chapter Two: How to Give Compliments

Chapter Three: How to Respond to Backhanded Compliments

Responding to Backhanded Compliments

Ignore it

Thank them

Only Acknowledge the Positive Portion

Address the Insult

Always Keep Your Sense of Humor

Chapter Four: Why should You Avoid Exaggerated Compliments

Chapter Five: Why Should You Laugh at Yourself

Chapter Six: How to Make Fun of Others without Hurting Them

Teasing Your Friends

Differentiate between Fun and Cruelty

Make Fun of their Intelligence

Use Metaphors and Similes

React Dramatically

Know When to Joke

Know When to Stop

Learn to Take it Well

Conclusion