Conversations That Sell: Collaborate with Buyers and Make Every Conversation Count

Conversations That Sell: Collaborate with Buyers and Make Every Conversation Count


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Leveraging her years of experience as a sales professional, sales manager, and sales coach, Nancy Bleeke became the founder and president of the training and consulting firm Sales Pro Insider. Now, with a shrewd understanding of buyer burnout and the need for more meaningful, collaborative conversations that will capture the buyer’s attention and drive buyers to act, Conversations That Sell shares Bleeke's five-step sales system designed to help salespeople in all industries increase their short- and long-term success. Packed with valuable tools and shrewd real-world examples, this book provides insight into Bleeke’s driven, determined approach to buyer conversations and shows readers how to identify sales opportunities, address buyer needs, work through objections, and keep the focus of every conversation where it belongs—on the buyer. Through it all, she maintains a keen awareness of her readers’ motivation, and the real reason behind the importance of her message—to help sales professionals achieve winning outcomes.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780814431801
Publisher: AMACOM
Publication date: 04/01/2013
Pages: 240
Sales rank: 1,148,491
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.80(d)
Age Range: 18 Years

About the Author

NANCY BLEEKE is president of Sales Pro Insider, a training and consulting firm specializing in sales effectiveness. Her clients include Motorola, CVS-Caremark, Celestica, MassMutual, and Rexnord.

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The Importance of You in Selling:

Being a Real Part of the Solution

“Always be a first-rate version of yourself a instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.”


With today’s marketers focusing the bulk of their resources on data, hype a and having a powerful online presence, you might think that salespeople are no longer relevant. You might fall into the trap of thinking that buyers don’t need people in their buying process, taking up their time, when they can get “all the information they need” instantaneously over the Internet.

Don’t believe it! In today’s world, where information is pervasive, you, the sales professional, are more important than ever.

What? The seller is more important than ever?

Yes, you heard me right. You are an essential component of what you sell. You are an essential component in many purchasing decisions.


For more than a decade, “experts” have predicted the demise of the sales professional, arguing that online buying will significantly reduce or elimi-nate the need for salespeople. Yet I haven’t seen that happen and I don’t expect it will. What I have noticed, to the contrary, is that many online retailers are adapting how they sell to include chat features that offer site visitors the opportunity to connect with someone “live” to answer questions, discuss options, and clarify information. They have found that personal attention and assistance leads to selling more product.

This confirms my belief that there will always be a need for people to sell to people. In fact, as of 2010, the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics reports that there are over 13.4 million salespeople in the United States alone; and if you’ve checked the job listings lately, you’ll find thousands of sales jobs waiting to be filled.

Why is that? Why do buyers still need salespeople when they have access to so much information? Let’s take a closer look.

With the commoditization of many products and services, combined with the proliferation of information, you are often the differentiating factor in a prospect’s decision to buy. While pricing, delivery, and the solution itself are important, what makes a buyer choose your solution over your competitor’s is often you—your understanding of their situation, your concern for their need, your ideas about how they might best use your solution a and the confidence you give them in your company’s solution. In short, they need what you personally bring to the sales process and solution during and after the sale—both in the business-to-business (B2B) sector a where solutions tend to be more complex, and in the business-to-consumer (B2C) marketplace, where personal experience and ability to relate to the consumer count—a lot. You add value to the solution and that value closes more sales.

Let me share an example from my own experience.

Early in my sales career, I took the advice of a mentor who suggested that I would win more business if I focused on my product, not my expertise a and modeled myself—style, dress, and demeanor—after a certain successful sales professional in my industry. Her message was that the product would sell itself if I didn’t get in the way.

As a young upstart business owner, I thought I ought to listen. If that meant being invisible and just selling the product, well, that was okay by me. But that well-meaning, old-school coaching nearly cost me my first big sales opportunity—a multi-year training engagement in the financial services industry.

I managed to land the project after some quick scrambling, but it ended up costing me dearly—tens of thousands of dollars over a four-year period.

Why? Because I was so busy trying to stay out of the way, so focused on the product pitch and being invisible, that I lost sight of the value I added to the solution, and, consequently, so did the client. Bottom line, I did a great job selling the product because they wanted my solution, but they didn’t want me. a salvaged the deal by hiring a trainer who had the experience the client requested and fit their suggested profile—someone older, preferably male a with gray hair or, better yet, bald!—while I took on the role of account executive.

The percentage I paid my colleague deeply eroded my profitability and cost me referrals that went to him as the front man.

Over time, though, I gained confidence and began demonstrating my competence as a resource for the client, finding answers even when it wasn’t my direct responsibility, driving the ongoing implementation, offering my experience and advice, and using my talents to “get it done.”

After one particularly productive meeting where I was able to share some of my knowledge, insight, and suggestions, one of the leaders who had been part of the original selection team asked, “Where were you during the sales process?”

I wanted to stammer, “What? Where was I? I was the one working twelve-hour days to meet your deadlines and compile the information requested by your thirteen-person decision team, each and every step of the way.” But I wisely kept my mouth shut as she went on to say that if the decision team had seen how smart, knowledgeable, funny, and personable a was, I wouldn’t have needed to bring in my training colleague!

Hearing that hard truth was tough, but it taught me a valuable lesson about the importance of being part of what I sell—of letting my personality and unique strengths come through. If only I hadn’t hidden behind the product, thinking that was all that mattered. If only I hadn’t blindly followed my mentor’s direction to focus only on the product and not incorporate

“me” into the process and solution. If only I had demonstrated that I was part of the solution and the value they would receive, I would have closed the sale with fewer complications and a much higher profit.

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