Don't Leave Your Friends Behind: Concrete Ways to Support Families in Social Justice Movements and Communities
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Overview
How do we create new, nonhierarchical structures of support and mutual aid, and include all ages in the struggle for social justice? There are many books on parenting, but few on being a good community member and a good ally to parents, caregivers, and children as we collectively build a strong all-ages culture of resistance. Any group of parents will tell you how hard their struggles are and how they are left out, but no book focuses on how allies can address issues of caretakers’ and children’s oppression. Many well-intentioned childless activists don’t interact with young people on a regular basis and don’t know how. Don’t Leave Your Friends Behind provides them with the resources and support to get started.
Contributors include: The Bay Area Childcare Collective, Ramsey Beyer, Rozalinda Borcilă, Mariah Boone, Marianne Bullock, Lindsey Campbell, Briana Cavanaugh, CRAP! Collective, a de la maza pérez tamayo, Ingrid DeLeon, Clayton Dewey, David Gilbert, A.S. Givens, Jason Gonzales, Tiny (aka Lisa Gray-Garcia), Jessica Hoffman, Heather Jackson, Rahula Janowski, Sine Hwang Jensen, Agnes Johnson, Simon Knaphus, Victoria Law, London Pro-Feminist Men’s Group, Amariah Love, Oluko Lumumba, mama raccoon, Mamas of Color Rising/Young Women United, China Martens, Noemi Martinez, Kathleen McIntyre, Stacey Milbern, Jessica Mills, Tomas Moniz, Coleen Murphy, Maegan ‘la Mamita Mala’ Ortiz, Traci Picard, Amanda Rich, Fabiola Sandoval, Cynthia Ann Schemmer, Mikaela Shafer, Mustafa Shakur, Kate Shapiro, Jennifer Silverman, Harriet Moon Smith, Mariahadessa Ekere Tallie, Darran White Tilghman, Jessica Trimbath, Max Ventura, and Mari Villaluna.
Product Details
ISBN-13: | 9781604863963 |
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Publisher: | PM Press |
Publication date: | 10/05/2012 |
Pages: | 256 |
Product dimensions: | 6.00(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.80(d) |
About the Author
Widely known as the grandma of the mama zine scene and a pioneer in the genre of radical parenting writing, China Martens raised her daughter as a single mother on welfare and working poor while continuing to put out The Future Generation, the longest-running parenting zine in the history of the Western world (1990 to the present). Her daughter is nearly 24 years old and her zine has been anthologized into the book The Future Generation: The Zine-book for Subculture Parents, Kids, Friends and Others (Atomic Book Company 2007).
Table of Contents
Preface 1
Chapter 1 Challenging the Status Quo
Audacious Enough Mama Fabiola Sandoval 9
Fathering the World Tomas Moniz 12
We're here ... We're Queer ... and that's not all Rei 15
Doing it Together: An Interview with Diana Block on Childcare, Movement Support, and Parenting Underground Victoria Law 18
Chapter 2 Building Blocks
The Red Crayon Jessica Trimbath 29
La Casita is ours! A Conversation with Children in Struggle Rozalinda Borcila 34
New Kids on the Block Ramsey Beyer 45
Lactivists do it Better: What Radical Parents' Allies can Learn from La Leche League International Mariah Boone 49
The Unfinished Universe Darran White Tilghman 53
Chapter 3 What's Gender, Race, and Class got to do with it?
This Poem Is in Honor of Mothers Tiny a.k.a. Lisa Gray-Garcia 61
Is Everyone at the Table? An Interview with Noemi Martinez, Fabiola Sandoval, and Maegan "la Mamita Mala" Ortiz-Three Single Mother of Color Media Markers Victoria Law China Martens 62
How to Build a Community that Involves Single Parents Noemi Martinez 67
Mami vs. Mommy, Mami'hood vs. Motherhood: What do Mami Movements Need? Maegan 'la Mamita Mala" Ortiz 69
Support can be Conditional When you're Trans or Queer: An Interview Katie Kaput Jennifer Fichter Victoria Law 72
Performing Allyship: Notes from a Queer Migrant Parent a de la maza pérez tamayo 79
On Fear and Commitments Mustafa Shukur 82
Chapter 4 Collective Action
A Message from Mamas of Color Rising and Young Women United: Mother's Day, 2010 91
Reclaim the Commons Maxina Ventura 94
Experiencing Critical Resistance 10 (CR10) Through the Children's Program Kate Shapiro 97
Whose City? KIDZ City! Sine Hwang Jensen Harriet Moon Smith China Martens 101
Homeflueness Tiny a.k.a. Lisa Gray-Garcia 105
Mothers Among Us: The Prison Birth Project Marianne Bullock 108
Organizing within an Anarcha-Feminist Childrearing Collective Crap 111
An Open Letter to Movement Men David Gilbert 116
Men Running Childcare London Pro-Feminist Men's Group 117
Continuing the Struggle: Lessons Learned from Mothers and Children in Zapatista Communities Victoria Law 119
Chapter 5 Lists, Lessons, and Concrete Tips for Supporting Children and Caregivers
Tips on How to Support your Friend During Pregnancy Jessica Hoffmann 129
Taking Care of your Friends Postpartum Clayton Dewey 131
Babyproofing for Punks Clayton Dewey 133
Supporting your Friend who Lost their Newborn Infant Mikaela Shafer 136
Concrete Things you can do to Support Parents and Children in your Scene: Suggestions Brainstormed at La Rivoltal, an Anarcha-Feminist Conference in Boston, 2006 137
Lessons from Planning Radical Childcare China Martens 139
Radical Childcare Collective Start-up Notes Amariah Love 144
Wizards Around the Rainbow Encian Pastel the Bay Area Childcare Collective 152
Activities for Children Rahula Janowski China Martens Victoria Law 162
Creating Family Space Jason Gonzales, Revolutionary Parenting Caucus, and a-parenting Listserv 164
Don't Forget Familiez on the Rez! Mari Villauna 166
Concrete Ways to Support Parents and Children Fighting White Supremacy from a Pan-Afrikan Perspective Monalisa Lennon Diallo a.k.a. Oluko Lumumba Agnes Johnson Mariahadessa Ekere Tallie 167
Holistic First Aid for all Ages Traci Picard 169
Chapter 6 Different Approaches
Taking Community-Building Seriously Heather Jackson 177
Equal Access: community Childcare for Special Needs Jennifer Silverman 180
How do we Integrated Kids and Adults? What are our Expectations about Integrating with Each Other as a Community? (snippets from a discussion on the a-parenting listserv) Laura Gyre Simon Knaphus Briana Cavanaugh 184
Call to Destiny A. S. Givens 187
Supporting Unschooling Families Sasha Luci 193
Ways to Support Single Mothers mama raccoon 196
At my Church, we call it "Radical Hospitality" Coleen Murphy 198
Chapter 7 Don't Leave Anyone Behind
Accessibility Stacey Milbern 205
Don't Leave your Mental Health Behind Lindsey Campbell 208
Parental Caregiving and Loss: Ideas for Caregivers and their Allies Kathleen McIntyre Cynthia Ann Schemmer 211
Un Corazón separado por una frontera/A Heart Separated by a border Ingrid DeLeon Carina Lomeli Poor Magazine 218
Through all the Transitions: A Duet on Caregiving, Family, and Community Jessica Mills Amanda Rich 221
Contribute Biographies 226
Acknowledgments 234