Does your family suffer from “affluenza” exhaustion? Are you confused by the “Me! ME! ME!!!” attitude of your child? Whether your child is six, sixteen, or thirty-six years old, it may be time for an entitlement intervention. Change yourself to change your children.
It’s easy to judge today’s younger generations—children, teens, and young adults who think they deserve to have their individuality celebrated and their happiness prioritized. So what happens when your kid—whom you don’t recall lavishing with excessive rewards or money—acts entitled, as though everything should be about his wants or her needs? Good news: from any age, you can help your child evolve into a confident and motivated adult who understands that many of the best things in life are earned.
Starting with a ten-question quiz to determine “How Entitled Is My Kid?,” Earn It! What to Do When Your Kid Needs an Entitlement Intervention will teach you how to create a family culture where responsibilities are honored, praise has meaning, decisions are made skillfully, and gratitude is second nature. You’ll find practical tips on chores and allowances, friends and social media, co-parenting, and cultivating true resilience. With family exercises and parent challenges drawn from real-life family scenarios, this book provides an opportunity to reflect on how you can adjust your parenting style to create a family dynamic that nurtures your children into generous, balanced, and hard-working adults.
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About the Author
Michael G. Wetter, PsyD, and Eileen Bailey are also the authors of What Went Right: Reframe Your Thinking for a Happier Now. A nationally recognized behavioral health expert, Wetter is a diplomate and fellow of the American Psychotherapy Association and has served on the California State Licensing Board of Psychology. Bailey, a freelance writer specializing in behavioral health topics, is the coauthor of Idiot’s Guides: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and The Essential Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome.
Table of Contents
Introduction: Take an Honest Look 1
Quiz: How Entitled Is My Child? 8
Part 1 Entitlement Is a Family Dynamic 11
Chapter 1 What Is Entitlement? 13
Chapter 2 "I Just Want Him to Be Happy": How Parents Enable Entitled Attitudes 25
Chapter 3 The Entitlement Culture 43
Chapter 4 What the Future Holds 61
Part 2 Change Yourself, Change Your Child 75
Chapter 5 Change Yourself, Change Your Child 77
Chapter 6 Respect: Model It, Teach It 89
Chapter 7 Gratitude Takes Practice 101
Chapter 8 Stop Rescuing Your Child 113
Chapter 9 Why Routines Matter 123
Chapter 10 Kids, Chores, and Money 133
Chapter 11 Equip Your Child to Make Good Choices 145
Chapter 12 Dealing with Feelings 157
Chapter 13 Why Words Matter: Kindness in Action 167
Chapter 14 Give Back 177
Chapter 15 Declarations of Independence: Finding Your Way with Power Struggles 187
Chapter 16 A United Front: Bringing Others on Board 197
About the Authors 215
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
I just got this book and read about half way thru. This is an amazing resource! Along with What to Expect When Your Expecting, this should be required reading for any parent out there (moms or dads). What I like best is that it's not a bunch of psycho-babble or condescending doctor-talk. It has reality based examples and really easy to follow suggestions. I tried one this morning trying to get my 6 year old ready for school, and for the first time in months, was able to avoid a morning melt down! Thank you to the authors for a great book and help. Definitely helpful and well worth the purchase.
Great book. Easy to read. My husband and I could both agree on much of it, so that's a first. Should be given to teachers too.