Table of Contents
Introduction
Quoth the Boyfriend, "Novermore" 3
Corinne 7
Krystyna 14
This Book 19
But First, a Message from Our Listeners 21
Shame
Why We're Fucked: A Brief Introduction to Shame and Its Shitty, Shitty Origins 31
Historical Roots 34
Religion: Society's Guilty Non-Pleasure 36
Sources of Shame 42
Wine Me, Dine Me, Say Something About My Weight 52
Slut-Shaming 58
Fucks Given: A Lesson in Self-Love 66
Feeling Femasculated 71
UR So Gay 82
Private Parts
Vaginas: Pussies/Cooters/Love Tacos/Punani/Penis Fly Traps/Etc. 89
Penises: Dicks/Cocks/Bald-Headed Yogurt Slingers/Wangs/Weeners/Etc. 94
Nitpicking Our Bodies 97
Sexual Acts
Masturbation: A Tug as Old as Time 103
The Art of Jerking Off 106
Butt Stuff 110
Three-Ways 120
Period Sex 128
Sending Nudes 130
That's a Thing?! (Yep) 133
Rape Fantasies Are a Thing but Should Probably Be Renamed 135
Having Your Cake and Fucking It Too: A Feminist Perspective 138
There's a Law for That 140
Relationships
Keepin' It Cas'(ual) 145
One-Night Stands: When It's Good, It's Great-When It's Bad, It's Funny 147
The Importance of Communication 151
You [Don't] Complete Me 156
Thoughts on Monogamy: Or One Penis for the Rest of Your Life, Mwuah Ha, Ha, Ha!! 158
Relationshipping 162
Romance and Farting 167
Sometimes Your Sexual Partner Can Cross a Boundary During Sex and It Doesn't Necessarily Mean They're a Monster 171
Shit We Should Probably Stop Doing in Relationships 173
Breakups 189
Safe Sex and Serious Stuff
Sex Ed 201
Smooshmortion (Abortion) 205
When It Comes to Alcohol, Don't Be a Fucking Idiot 214
Consent: Slurred Lines 217
Conclusion: Final Thoughts 231
Abortion and Sexual Assault Resources 235
Acknowledgments 238
Index 242