The Japanese word "Sensei" means "born before". The implication is that a Sensei is further down the path. A martial arts instructor can be a Sensei. I have been twice divorced. I have been married for 15 years, with my current wife. I got a lot of wise counsel from my family, particularly my father. I wish I had gotten more. I made some major mistakes, in getting married. I married two alcoholics, who made my life hell. I had to learn a lot about life, and marriage, that was never taught to me in school. I have been asked questions about marriage, by younger men. The advice given by the mass media is grossly inadequate. I take the time to help them, with personal experience, because I want them to avoid the pain I had to go through. This book formalizes what I have told them. I can now share this book, with young men who seek grounded guidance. If you have an interest in the subject, you may find it of interest.