Table of Contents
Chapter - 1 Getting Hit
Head on with a Cement Truck
Air Flight Angels
Surgery
Traction at Hotel St. Joe
A Story to Tell
My Physical Terrorist, I Mean Therapist
My Caregiver’s Experience
A Victim of Circumstance
It’s Just a Concussion
Lessons from Getting Hit
Chapter 2 - Getting Up
Effects of a Closed-Head Brain Injury
Music, Sound, Art, Light, and Other Therapies
I Found My Tribe
Letting Go of the Story
Chapter 3 - 13 Keys to Re-Empowerment
Key 1 – You Are Not Your TBI
Key 2 – Focus on the Ability Not the Disability
Key 3 – Acknowledge the Small Steps
Key 4 – Be Your Own Advocate and Be Resourceful
Key 5 – Consider Medical and Complementary Therapies
Key 6 – Develop a Support Team and Advocacy Network
Key 7 – Move out of the Closet and into the World
Key 8 – Ask for Help
Key 9 – Compensate, Compensate, COMPENSATE!
Key 10 – Be Patient with Others Who Don’t Understand
Key 11 - Know That Helping Others is Helping Yourself
Key 12 – Choose Your Journey, Your Life: Everything Happens for a Reason
Key 13 – Use Resiliency to Survive and Thrive
Chapter 4 - Maintaining a Career
The Good, Bad, Ugly, and Great
Lessons Learned
Don’t Give Up!
Chapter 5 - Getting Hit Again and Again
and AGAIN!
Getting Hit Again
Getting Hit Again and Again
Getting Hit Again and Again and Again
Chapter 6 - Navigating the Legal System
How to Select the Right Attorney for You
The Insurance Assault
Process and Choices
The Litigation Process of an Injury Case
How to Prepare for a Deposition
Mediation
Trial
Lessons Learned Through the School of Hard Knocks
An Outpouring of Emotions
Attorney Testimonial
Chapter 7 - Overcoming Grief and Loss after
Getting Hit…Again!
Getting Hit AGAIN
What Is Grief
Characteristics of Grief
Grief Categories
A Grief Model
Styles of Grief
Self-Care Techniques
How to Help Others Support You with Your Brain
Injury: A Baker’s Dozen
A Final Note
Chapter - 8 Epilogue: Where I Am Today