The Girlfriends' Guide to Pregnancy

The Girlfriends' Guide to Pregnancy

by Vicki Iovine
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ProudPapa14 More than 1 year ago
My wife added this book to our collective reading material. When I asked her what she thought, she said she quit reading it. My wife is an educated woman with a college degree and a good judge of many things. After seeing the title and reading the books description I was curious why she felt this way. Now that I have read the entire book I understand. Ms. Iovine's choice of vocabulary and sarcasm does not come off as humorous but more like she has a chip on her shoulder. You get the impression that doctors and nurses are incompetent degenerates. It reduces the fathers role into nothing more than an insensitive, incapable neanderthal, whose only positive attributes are during conception. She tries to empower pregnant women with a crude almost paganistic sense of selfishness. The advice given seems to come from Ms. Iovine's own collection of negative experiences. In the book the author advises not to breast feed your child due to how it will make your nipples look. If you choose not to breast feed - that's fine - that's every mother's choice, but for Christ sake do it for some other reason than the fear of your nipple's appearance. This shallow vanity is on every page. Words like "Fat" and "Ugly" are always paired together throughout the book. Ms. Iovine advice is prioritized more by what her friends might think, than the welfare of her unborn child. Parts of this book are flat out dangerous for inexperienced mothers. If you are a pregnant woman looking for an excuse to go on a nine month self indulged power trip, you will enjoy the book. There were a few crumbs of information but nothing you wont read 101 times elsewhere.
painted_devil More than 1 year ago
This book was great! I've read what feels like every pregnancy book known to man, and I really love ones like this and Jenny McCarthy's, because nothing is sugar coated and the added humor is a great touch. I find it amusing how many ladies who have read this are all bent out of shape about this book and the way she talks - she states up front that she is not a doctor so why anyone would read this book and be upset by that is anyone's guess. She writes more about experiences, and not about cold hard medical facts, and there is nothing wrong with that. She offers no medical true advice, just her own opinions. And as far as her opinions on natural birth go... well, those are her opinions and a lot of people share them! I don't agree with them myself, and I was fully capable of reading this book without being bothered by her attitude towards natural birth.

I love the way she talks about how pregnancy isn't about glowing skin and a wonderful 9 months for a lot of women... many of us have a downright miserable first trimester and beyond! And you know what, some of us just don't glow. And that may be a disappointment to some first time moms, but it's the honest truth!

This was a fun companion to any standard medical text. I wouldn't read it solo, since you won't get some important medical facts that you should be getting from something like Great Expectations or Your Pregnancy Week by Week.
ER_RN More than 1 year ago
I bought this during my second pregnancy, and swear I could have written it myself! It is truly what a girlfriend would tell you, had you thought to ask. It is also hilarious and a great break from those serious books. My most recent purchase was for a pregnant colleague and she also has laughed her way through its combination of informative and deadpan prose. Get this for your friends, family or yourself! You will not regret it!!
Guest More than 1 year ago
I am a 23 year old pregnant woman, and thought this book was hilarious. A lot of other young reviewers said that young women wouldn't be able to relate, but I really could. She talks about a few things that I just couldn't find in other pregnancy books, and I found it comforting that I wasn't the only person that these things were happening to. Of course not every word in the book is relatable for everyone, but what book is? I thought this book was great for moms-to-be that don't take themselves too seriously.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Funny at times,but not for all types of girlfriends. She constantly bashes anyone unafraid of natural childbirth (as if you would only have a baby without painkillers to prove something) and talks in a very, 'let me tell you how it is, honey' sort of way. Pretty condescending and preachy. I also just didn't identify with a lot of the problems or issues she discussed. Like bonding with your mom (which she preaches you should do) and being afraid of being a bad mom. I am already bonded with my mom and I think I'll be a great mom. And well if my husband were shocked by farting then I don't think he would be my husband. If he would leave me because of my haircolor (as she claims hers would have), then he doesn't even deserve to be my husband. . Sometimes it reminded me of those old time movies where the woman says she has to keep all of her beauty secrets or lose her man. I just can't relate and don't have any pregnant girlfriends who have acted the ways she describes. And I've known a lot of pregnant ladies. Aside from irritating me as only a know-it- all mother can do, there was some good info.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I read this during my pregnancies, (my kids are 9 & 7). I happened to be on here to buy it for my pregnant cousin and got a glimpse of some of the reviews. I really wonder about some people! This book is humorous and light, and answers all the embarrassing questions! No book, ESPECIALLY about pregnancy, should be taken as the do-all, end-all advice. Everyone is different. Take it as it is, a real-life book about what a lot of women experience. If you're different, do what you feel is right. As I said, I read the book. I also delivered both times in a hospital, but naturally - no spinal or drugs. I excercised as much as I felt comfortable doing, and I breast fed (my nipples are fine). Unbend a little and find the humor in things, you have to to be a parent!
LDW_Cols_GA More than 1 year ago
So many of the books on pregnancy are very serious - can be a little frightening for a first time mom. This book is hilarious, and gives you a great, practical look at the "interesting" parts of being pregnant. I received a copy when I was pregnant, and now make this a standard gift for my friends who are pregnant for the first time.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
When I was looking for pregnancy books, this one kept popping up. There was a reason why--it's good! So glad I got it and read it from cover to cover. It's got a lot of helpful tips and the author really knows her stuff.
Guest More than 1 year ago
After reading some of the standard, medical books for pregnancy (What to Expect and Your Pregnancy Week by Week), this book was exactly what I needed! It was helpful to hear about real women's experiences - the good and bad. I didn't find her preachy like some reviewers said - she is just telling you what decisions she made and why. For example, she really didn't excercise during her pregnancies (oh no in the medical books!). While I am still excercising, it made me feel better to know there are other people out there who can barely make it through a day of work, much less excercise and then cook a well balanced healthy pregnancy meal. That just didn't happen most days during my first trimester and the medical books can make you feel like a failure as a mother before you've even become a mother! She reminds us that this is a fun time, not a nervous-nelly medical condition you should fear! And also, my husband is the most awesome husband and will be a terrific father, but those 'helpful' sidebars in the medical books that say your spouse should be rubbing your feet every night and sharing in every emotional moment with the same gleam in his eye, are just setting most women up for a huge disappointment. This book reminded me that men react differently than women and they are still excited and will be great fathers.
Alisha Bryan More than 1 year ago
loved it. laughed out loud, felt great that im not crazy/alone in these prego symptoms, and learned some things about what to expect. LOVED IT.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I really liked this guide. It had a lot of information without bogging down the reader. I also liked the wit and humor. It's a good guide most pregnant woman can relate to.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Enjoyable,informative,funny,refreshingly honest,great first pregnancy book to read.full of all"the good stuff" you need to know about pregnancy...I truellly appreciated to authors honesty.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I bought this book for my second pregnancy because I was so stressed out about my first one that all I could read were books written by MD's. I thought I had a better head this time around and could enjoy a good laugh, which I did when I read this book but that was as good as it gets. There were not many helpful tricks of the trade -- you know, the stuff that wouldn't be covered in those MD books. It didn't offer practical information on pregnancy essentials like don't listen to the sales ladies who tell you to buy a nursing bra in a size larger because your chest will be so much bigger. When you're thinking about nursing bras, you should know that at some point, your bust line plateaus and those puppies are as big as they will get. Anyway, nursing bras are elastic so they naturally offer some additional give!! What i really wanted to know was how to maximize my clothing allowance on maternity clothes without repeating the mistake of so many women before me who threw out their entire maternity wardrobe because they were so ugly and itchy. And basically, that was the advice of the author. Borrow your girlfriend's old maternity clothes and call it a day. No mention of empire waist blouses, maxi dresses, tunics, draw string linen pants, buying men's jeans and getting them hemmed (their jeans offer more room in the waist and thigh areas), etc. There was no creativity for the modern fashionista girlfriend!! In the end, I had a few good chuckles reading this book but for the real meat, you should scout out some clever blogs. Oh, and the medical information contained in the book is borderline dangerous for its inaccuracy (beware first time mommies!)
Guest More than 1 year ago
I enjoyed this book. Was easy to read and could relate to much of it without feeling that everything must be taken to heart. Informative but did not find it overwhelming. This is not a rule book. I was looking for a pregnancy book that was not a week by week scientific/medical read. I needed something more reader-friendly. This book delivered! I did not agree with every opinion in the book (I am choosing not to color my hair), nor do I agree with everything in the medical books either sometimes (even science based medical 'facts'/opinions are contradictory depending on source or timeline). Reading that the author's husband was not always joyous during her pregnancies did help me understand that my husband might share some of the same feelings and yes, at times, some ineptitude in dealing with the pregnancy. If you are looking for a week by week medical guide to pregnancy, this is not the book for you. However, if you are looking for a book that reads as though you were listening to a bunch of women sharing their personal experiences and giving you their honest, straightforward opinions and advice, I'd highly recommend this book.
Guest More than 1 year ago
As a young mother to be, this book was definitely not for me. This book was written by a woman who had her first child at 33, which I am not. She bashes her husband constantly (which isn't very nice or respectful in my opinion) by saying stupid things like when she was pregnant with her fourth child he said 'how could you do this to me.' or her fear of him leaving her if he saw two inches of the grey in her hair if she didn't get it dyed. She is excessively concerned with trivial things that don't matter, and even though she can be funny, all I'm getting is a negative vibe from this book. Actually, it's been making me more neurotic about my pregnancy then I was before. She's also against exercising while pregnant, and personally, because of my age, I am full of energy during my first trimester. If you are a businesswoman in your thirties just having your first child and trying to get it to suit your life, then go for this book. Anyone else, don't bother. It's a waste of reading.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book got a lot of laughs out of me when talking about what happens to the body during pregnancy, but I was quickly turned off by the author's negative view of the husband's ability to support his wife. She also criticizes the idea of natural childbirth, basically saying that anyone concerned enough about her baby to choose this method is just too stupid to know better. Mildly entertaining, but I'll stick to the books written by doctors.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I bought this book after going to a baby shower and heard all the women talk about how great it was. I guess my sense of humor is different, but i did not find this book amusing or helpful.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I began reading this book at 6 weeks and it scared me to death. It was suppose to be humorous and lighthearted but it only made me worry more that I was going to be fat, ugly , not sexy and sick for not 9 but 10 months. I don't recommend this book for new mothers. I think it might be good if you have already been through a pregnancy and can appreciate the humor but it made me depressed with all the things that will go wrong with you and your body. Some parts were humorous and I tried to remain optimistic but eventually put the book down and decided for my mental health not to read any further.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Lighten up people! This book is supposed to be funny and non-medical based. Seriously, I read this when I was thinking about TTC and it helped me realize what I had in store. You won't agree with everything she says, but it's all done in a funny, sarcastic way. I thought it was hysterical. The friends that I've loaned it to loved it. It's a funny read. If you can't laugh at this book, I feel sorry for you.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I was sad, mad and extra nervous about my choice for having midwives and birthing at a birthing inn not a hospital after I read Vicki's chapter that said you should just deliver in the hospital your first go and her one friend who thought she wanted a natural birth wigged out and made her husband take her to the hospital... I did have wonderful midwifes and it was scary but way less painful that I thought and way less painful than the media tells us it should be. If you can get a midwife even if you birth in a hospital they are amazing!!!!!
SALOH More than 1 year ago
After reading all the great reviews of this book, I was expecting more. I thought this book would be a good start to what I need to start learning. It's pretty much just a common sense book.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book is easy to read, it gets straight to the point about what to expect while your pregnant. I wouldn't have picked a better book!
Guest More than 1 year ago
This is the most practical easy to read book on pregancy I've found! Even my husband reads it.Vicky Iovine talks candidly about common issues in pregnany 'some of which are comical to those of us who are able to find humour in the most unlikely situations'.This is a must read especially for first-time mothers.Her advice is not a substitute for medical knowledge but rather complements it with her non-medical jargon. If you want to hear what pregancy is really like for most women, pick this up!
Guest More than 1 year ago
My girlfriend sent this to me my first pregnancy and now I give it to everyone as a gift when they are expecting. It provides so much humor to a time in your life when you are tired, sick, and sometimes scared. All the people I've talked to that have read this loved it.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I was disappointed with this book. Although it offered a few laughs (and I mean FEW), there are better books out there for pregnant women. I was very diappointed with the condescending tone the book took regarding use of midwives and the view she took with regard to natural childbirth. Overall, the book was written by a worry-wart. Pregnant women tend to worry a lot anyway, so why read a book that feeds into those anxieties? Another annoying thing with the book was her argument against exercise during pregnancy. Her reasons were superficial and not based on any medical information. She argues to not bother exercising because the clothes won't look good and doesn't help during labor anyway. Where does she get that information from and who cares what the clothes look like? I have found water aerobics incredibly helpful and my back and hip pain are eased immediately when I get in the pool. Finally, she claims that once your water breaks you cannot take a bath. Where did she get this information? Unless you're doing cannonballs into your bathtub, water doesn't travel upwards and thus would not cause any infections! Overall, she is not a credible source of information and I wouldn't waste my time or money.