Holding Your Family Together: 5 Simple Steps to Help Bring Your Family Closer to God and Each Other

Holding Your Family Together: 5 Simple Steps to Help Bring Your Family Closer to God and Each Other

by Dr. Rich Melheim


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Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780764215223
Publisher: Baker Publishing Group
Publication date: 04/30/2013
Pages: 240
Sales rank: 555,552
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x 0.70(d)

About the Author

Dr. Rich Melheim is the founder and initiating force behind Faith Inkubators, a Christian education think tank. He founded and serves as CEO and chief creative officer of Faith Inkubators, the Faith Inkubators Foundation, and the Preschool Incubators Project, which is dedicated to creating "access to excellence" in early learning through the arts. Rich is an ordained Lutheran pastor and has invested his ministry in creating Christian education systems that pull parents into the core of family ministry in the home.

Table of Contents

Preface: The Dream and the Plan 11

Introduction: Sleeping in Heavenly Peace

Part I Where It Began 18

Part II Exercise for Your Mind 28

Step 1 Share

Part I Sharing Highs 39

Part II Sharing Lows 46

Part III Highs and Lows for Belles and Beaus 60

Step 2 Read

Part I What Are We Feeding Our Children? 70

Part II Fill 'ex Up (with the Good Stuff) 82

Part III Saying Goodbye to Mom 89

Step 3 Talk

Part I Technology or "Talk-Knowledgy" 101

Part II What's at Stake Here? 111

Part III Text + Context 120

Step 4 Pray

Part I Eternal Consequences 136

Part II What Do You Do When Prayer Doesn't "Work"? 149

Step 5 Bless

Part I The Power of Blessing 163

Part II Broken Hearts and Missing Pieces 178

Part III The Day I Died 187

Epilogue: Why Nighttime Is the Right Time 199

Postscript: A Note on Préjà Vu 213

Endnotes 217

Appendix A One-Year Bible Schedule in Songs, Sign and Games 223

Appendix B FAITH5 Resources for Church and Home 227

Acknowledgments 231

About the Author 233

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Holding Your Family Together: 5 Simple Steps to Help Bring Your Family Closer to God and Each Other 5 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 12 reviews.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I was fortunate enough to read an advanced copy of this book and I can say, without reservation, every parent owes it to their children to read this book.  The knowledge is powerful and you will be equipped to challenge, encourage, bond with, and open lines of communication with your children.  My children are still young and people often tell me to enjoy them now, because someday they'll be teenagers.  That sentiment saddens and even scares me a little.  Of course nobody has a silver bullet, but Dr. Melheim presents strategies that, already, my children have engaged in and I am hopeful that today's precedent will be tomorrow's life-line.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I cannot recommend Melheim's book enough. It is based soundly within both Brain Science and Systems Theory. This is fancy way of saying that it puts Christian Education back in the setting where it belongs - within the family. Melheim's method is not a quick fix. It is a long-term method of teaching, rearing, and caring for your offspring. I am planning on using the book with all of the families/parents at the church I serve. This is the first book ever that I have thought of doing this with. I believe in it that much.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Just received my book in the mail and spent the evening reading through it!! So excited to have fun as a family growing our faith together. Rich gives wonderful details , stories and ideas about how to make this an adventure and not a chore! Join the journey of SHARE, READ,TALK, PRAY & BLESS - it will be worth it......
PrKL More than 1 year ago
An exceptional book with practical steps that will make a difference for every family.  Whether your kids are infants or teens, this book offers encouragement, insight and a foundation that will make a difference in the lives of families and individuals for a lifetime.
Denise-S More than 1 year ago
With rock solid research, practical advice, and great stories from real families, this book is a must read for any parent trying to create a simple and fun routine for family bedtime that will have benefits that last a lifetime. Since hearing Rich speak about his ideas, I have been using them with my kids. I can't tell you what a difference it has made for us--creating a safe space to communicate with each other, pray for needs, and bless each other before saying goodnight. No matter what your faith, this routine can be used to share it and bring your family closer! I'd recommend giving this as a gift to anyone with a new baby, so they can start right away to build this routine into their lives.
MGrondahl More than 1 year ago
Using the nightly ritual detailed in this book, my family has been enriched beyond my expectation.  The book itself is a quick read, filled with great stories from the author's life and the lives of other families who have used the FAITH5 to grow faith in their own homes.  I've got a 4 year old girl.  My husband and I had no idea how to help her get to know God at her level, or how to teach her the basic things like prayer and bible stories.  This made it easy to get started.  Now our daughter reminds us that it is God time, and she wants to pray for her dad and me.  I'm planning on getting copies for all the new parents in my life and maybe the newlyweds too.
zanercar More than 1 year ago
Finally a book with 5 easy steps to enrich bedtime faith formation.  I always spent time in prayer with my children, but this adds so much more to our bedtime routine.  Discussion about the days highs and lows bring forth way more information and flows right into a discussion about what God has to say about our struggles and joys.  Prayers are way more enriched and sharing blessings tops off my day!  This is a great book for parents with small children, but these practices could begin at any age.  Teens love to share their highs and lows.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book is great for parents and anyone who cares for children or youth. Youth are growing up in a world of violence and what may seem like hopelessnness. This book provides ways to grow in faith as a family. Growing together and getting to truly know one another need not be corny or boring. This book provides easy fun ways and explains the importance of these easy steps. A great gift for Mothers Day, Fathers Day, or a new family. Frankly, it's good for anyone at anytime!
Skelly1 More than 1 year ago
I wish I could have read this book when my kids were little but now I will give it to every expectant mother and father I know in the future to help them practice faith in their family.
JJ_Jarman More than 1 year ago
I cannot wait to read this book with other families in our congregation so that we can mutually support each other as make changes to how we do faith in our homes.
MzunguMeesh More than 1 year ago
Melheim combines witty humor with solid research and sound theology to create a usable guide with achievable results. This is a great book for any family seeking to create or strengthen the role of faith practices in their family life. Who would have thought that having a pillow fight right before bed has something to do with faith development? In a day when it's particularly challenging to find ways of encouraging families with teenagers to engage in faith together, Melheim's voice is important. Whatever the make-up of 'family,' this guide is relevant and important.
FeralPastor More than 1 year ago
Full of good humor, super-practical suggestions and all the neuroscience you need to back it up, Rich Melheim's new book is exactly the kind of life-giving resource I'd expect from the man who's been pushing the envelope on how we "do church" for many years. Highly recommended!