Within the pages of How to Find A Dominant you will find a thorough breakdown of just about everything you need to know from basic terminology and making a strong profile to sending out that first email and meeting for the first time. There's even in-depth information about the real-time kink community from munches to large-scale events. There are plenty of tips and tricks on navigating your way through the on and offline communities and how to avoid being labeled a troll.
Despite all the avenues available today, are you constantly wondering why you're not getting responses through your profile or to your messages? Maybe you're one of the lucky few who do get a response but the communication dies out just when you thought things were looking good. While it could be issues on their end, this book will take an in-depth look at things you may be doing wrong or ways that you can fine-tune your profile and approach to have much better success in your search for a dominant.
Dive in and learn about the lifestyle, its communities, and how you can become a part of an exciting culture all while learning how to put your best foot forward to increase your chances of finding the ideal D/s dynamic. This book is specifically designed to be inclusive so regardless of your gender identity or sexuality or the gender identity/sexuality of the dominant you wish to serve this book will work for you.
About the Author:
Jude Samson has spent over 20 years in the BDSM lifestyle as a dominant. Through the years he has enjoyed his time within a few communities and has spent time as a speaker and educator. Outside of the BDSM community Jude was a director of a transgender non-profit and has done a variety of speaking and educational engagements. Currently, Jude spends his time writing as another extension of his desire to educate and entertain the community at-large.