How to Grow a Friend

by Sara Gillingham

Overview

A lovely metaphor teaches valuable lessons in how to treat others and make friendships blossom! Making a friend takes patience, care, and room to bloom—just like growing a flower. Soon your little gardeners will have their very own green thumbs for this most important of life skills.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780385376693
Publisher:	Random House Children's Books
Publication date:	01/06/2015
Pages:	40
Sales rank:	636,359
Product dimensions:	9.10(w) x 9.20(h) x 0.50(d)
Lexile:	AD370L (what's this?)
Age Range:	3 - 7 Years

About the Author

SARA GILLINGHAM is an award-winning art director and designer. In addition to developing her own books and gifts, Sara’s studio provides art direction and design services for the children’s publishing and gift industries. Sara has worked with some of the most distinguished illustrators in the field and has designed and art-directed hundreds of books and gift products, many for Chronicle Books in San Francisco, where she was the design director for children’s publishing until 2007. Sara also teaches at UC Berkeley Extension and California College of the Arts in San Francisco.

Editorial Reviews

11/10/2014
Friendships, Gillingham suggests, need tending—just like plants. “To grow a friend,” she starts, “first plant a seed in good soil.” A page turn shows a close-up of a boy and girl smiling over a bucket of soil, into which a bird drops a seed. The children, just two in a cast of ethnically diverse friends-in-the-making, have rounded heads and wide, Betty Boop eyes, a retro look that will be familiar to fans of the author’s board books. There’s lots of movement and activity as water sprays from a sprinkler in dynamic curves and the children swing from a tree and race downhill in a wheelbarrow. Gillingham keeps the friends-as-plants metaphor going: “If a friend is drooping, do something sweet,” she advises, as the girl appears with an armful of flowers to cheer up the boy. The pair work out disputes (“Sometimes a friend bugs you”), make each other happy, and “grow” their circle of friends. Upbeat without glossing over the effort needed to see friendships through “rain and shine,” it’s a promising classroom readaloud. Ages 3–7. Agent: Amy Rennert, Amy Rennert Agency. (Jan.)

Publishers Weekly

2014-10-01
This attractive picture book for the very young from accomplished illustrator and debut author Gillingham explores a thoughtful analogy between gardening and friendship. The parallels between growing things and making new friends are illustrated with simple instructions, matched with Gillingham's pastel-shaded woodcut-and-collaged illustrations. Just like seeds and plants, friendships need to be sown, tended and cultivated. "A friend needs water… / warm sunshine… // and space to bloom." It is a two-way process: "To grow a friend, talk / and listen"; "Good friends stand by each other in rain / or shine." With friendships, as with flowers, things can go wrong: "Sometimes a friend bugs you." (Bugs literally buzz around their heads on a page where the friends are wrestling for control of a potted plant.) But "[t]o grow a friend, / chase the bugs away together!" The girl finds a solution to their argument by giving the boy a ride in a wheelbarrow. A subtly diverse selection of kids and adults are portrayed enjoying one another's company and working together to cultivate their gardens. Children, flowers, birds, trees and seasons are skillfully illustrated using multicolored patterns and shapes that will have considerable visual appeal for preschoolers. The slightly didactic message of tolerance and inclusiveness is made palatable by the gardening analogy, and this book will encourage young friendships to bloom. (Picture book. 2-4)

Kirkus Reviews

"Upbeat without glossing over the effort needed to see friendships through “rain and shine,” it’s a promising classroom readaloud. "

Publishers Weekly


"Children, flowers, birds, trees and seasons are skillfully illustrated using multicolored patterns and shapes that will have considerable visual appeal for preschoolers.... this book will encourage young friendships to bloom."

Kirkus

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