I Have Something to Tell You: A Memoir

I Have Something to Tell You: A Memoir

by Chasten Buttigieg
I Have Something to Tell You: A Memoir

I Have Something to Tell You: A Memoir

by Chasten Buttigieg


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A moving, hopeful, and refreshingly candid memoir by the husband of former Democratic presidential candidate Pete Buttigieg about growing up gay in his small Midwestern town, his relationship with Pete, and his hope for America’s future.

Throughout the past year, teacher Chasten Glezman Buttigieg has emerged on the national stage, having left his classroom in South Bend, Indiana, to travel cross-country in support of his husband, former mayor Pete Buttigieg, and Pete’s groundbreaking presidential campaign. Through Chasten’s joyful, witty social media posts, the public gained a behind-the-scenes look at his life with Pete on the trail—moments that might have ranged from the mundane to the surprising, but that were always heartfelt.

Chasten has overcome a multitude of obstacles to get here. In this moving, uplifting memoir, he recounts his journey to finding acceptance as a gay man. He recalls his upbringing in rural Michigan, where he knew he was different, where indeed he felt different from his father and brothers. He recounts his coming out and how he’s healed from revealing his secret to his family, friends, community, and the world. And he tells the story of meeting his boyfriend, whom he would marry and who would eventually become a major Democratic leader.

With unflinching honesty, unflappable courage, and great warmth, Chasten Buttigieg relays his experience of growing up in America and embracing his true self, while inspiring others to do the same.

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Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781982138127
Publisher: Atria Books
Publication date: 09/01/2020
Pages: 256
Sales rank: 337,245
Product dimensions: 6.00(w) x 8.90(h) x 1.00(d)

About the Author

Chasten Glezman Buttigieg was born and raised in Traverse City, Michigan. A thespian, two-time 4-H blue-ribboner, and decorated member of the high school bowling team, he received his bachelor’s degree in theater and global studies from the University of Wisconsin—Eau Claire and his master’s in education from DePaul University. He lives in South Bend, Indiana, with his husband, Pete, and their two rescue dogs. I Have Something to Tell You is his first book.

Table of Contents

Introduction: Everything and Nothing ix


1 Not That Kind of Camp 3

2 "Did You Walk Your Steer Today?" 17

3 How Do You Say "I Think I'm Gay" in German? 29

4 Running: Part One 47


5 How to Succeed in Wisconsin Without Really Crying 61

6 Ma'am, This Is a Starbucks 71

7 Patience and Healing 79

8 Meet Pete 97

9 Moving In with the Mayor 105

10 Vows 125


11 Running: Part Two 137

12 The Great Humanizer 149

13 A Rollout of Chasten 165

14 This Is Nuts. Eat the Nuts. 185

15 Did You Ever Imagine? 193

16 Out on the Trail 203

17 Landing the Plane 221

Epilogue: Is This Thing Still On? 235

Acknowledgments 239

About the Author 242

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