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In Praise of Inadequate Gifts

In Praise of Inadequate Gifts

by Tarn Wilson
In Praise of Inadequate Gifts

In Praise of Inadequate Gifts

by Tarn Wilson



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Winner of the Wandering Aengus Book Award, Tarn Wilson's memoir-in-essays In Praise of Inadequate Gifts explores the varied ways we cope with trauma and loss-and the miraculous, awkward, and imperfect process of renewal.

Wilson explores a wide range of topics: her obsession with teeth, why she doesn't have children, the summer she spent soldering keyboards for Chrysler Le Barons. She traces the effects of her mother's rape, her confusion after her friend's mother is murdered, her own divorce and struggle with anxiety, and her complex grief after the death of her distant father and mentally ill mother.


Wilson considers these difficult experiences with curiosity and gentle humor. Her honesty, empathy, and lack of self-pity make us feel we are sitting down with a trusted friend, inviting us to give voice to our own hard journey. Ultimately, this collection is about the redemptive power of kindness and connection. "Love's gestures are so unassuming, so ordinary, so clumsy, so imperfect - yet, miraculously, they hold something larger than themselves, big enough to press back against the darkness." 


Through her experimentation with form, Wilson's multifaceted reflections reveal how we come to understand our stories and the choices we make as we construct the narrative of our lives.

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Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780578362823
Publisher: Wandering Aengus Press
Publication date: 03/17/2022
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 107
File size: 336 KB

About the Author

Tarn Wilson is the author of In Praise of Inadequate Gifts, winner of the Wandering Aengus Book Award (2021) and The Slow Farm (Ovenbird Books: Judith Kitchen Selects, 2014), plus the forthcoming 5-Minute Daily Writing Prompts: 501 Prompts to Unleash Your Creativity and Inspire You to Write (Rockridge Press, 2022). Her personal essays have been published in numerous journals, including Brevity, Harvard Divinity Bulletin, River Teeth, Ruminate, and The Sun. She is a graduate of the Rainier Writing Workshop and lives in the San Francisco Bay Area where she is a high school teacher and the founder of Creator School, which offers creative writing courses to teens and adults.

Table of Contents


The History of My Teeth

My Perfect Little Life


Whatever Gets You Through the Night

Disaster Man


Hide and Seek with the Dead

A Narrative Break: On Reading After Crisis

Big Kitty

Old Laundromats


Faithful Over a Few Things

Why We Don't Have Children

In Praise of Inadequate Gifts

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