How to Make Friends Instantly!
It's the weekend...finally! You've made it! You've been working long and hard all week, and now you're ready to unwind. Just as you're about to enjoy yourself, that feeling of accomplishment turns into disappointment almost immediately as you get depressed.
Why is that? It's because you have no friends! You have no friends to call up on. You have no friends to go out with or want to hang out with YOU. How come?
It could be because you never really were the extroverted social type growing up with the opportunity to develop your social skills; you and your friends have grown apart due to time or new life priorities; or perhaps you have just relocated without knowing anybody and have to rebuild your social circle from scratch.
As much as you would still like to go out, you're afraid to go out by yourself feeling the dreaded social anxiety and from not knowing how to meet and make friends!
So rather than going out - you stay in being glued to Netflix, wasting time on Facebook looking at all the posted images of the wonderful nights others are having, and wishing you could be a part of that!
Thus, the real questions we should be asking: Are you feeling sick and tired of being lonely not having anybody to hang out with? Are you jealous of other people who always seem to have fun when they're out? Are you secretly envious of the folks who always have exciting things to do with their friends?
If you ARE, you can develop instant friendships now!
Within "Instant Friendship":
* How to determine your current friendability level in order to calibrate your social interaction in making friends.
* How to meet new people and where to meet them with all the friendly tricks of the trade that you'll need.
* How to cold approach random strangers and go from first meeting to progressing into a real friendship step-by-step.
* How to be the social butterfly you always wanted to be to explode your social life exponentially to the next level.
* How to maintain your friendships once they're established so all the effort put into them don't go to waste.
* Plus, custom practical "how-to" strategies, techniques, applications and exercises on how to get friends.
...and much more.
Now it's the time to STOP feeling like you're missing out on life, trapped indoor to your loneliness while everybody else is out being social, enjoying life, and having memorable great times with their friends. Experience that now!
Reclaim and live the good life now! Time for you to make new friends!
About the Author
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Most Helpful Customer Reviews
Reviewed by Mamta Madhavan for Readers' Favorite Many people struggle with connecting with others and developing meaningful relationships. Instant Friendship: How to Make Friends Instantly! by The INSTANT-Series is a useful tool that will give good guidance when it comes to making friends easily. The tips and techniques shared by the author will help in determining the current status of making friends, how to convert the first meeting to friendship, and how to maintain friendships once they have been made. The Value of Friendship suggested in the book will make everyone realize that it is high time we learn to make friends. Let us begin to make new friends and maintain the friendships by reading this book! The author’s concept is simple and easy to practice, and will help readers pay attention when they meet people. I like the author’s methodical way of putting down the steps when it comes to moving forward after meeting new people, where to look for friends, the presentation and the approach. They are all helpful to readers. For all those who have been feeling trapped in their spaces, without having proper company to hang out or socialize with, this book is a must-read. The topic is refreshing and relevant to everyone. For introverts, this book is a must-read as the progression to friendship is made easy by the guidelines shared by the author. The exercises in the book are also very helpful to make note of how the progression is working. So what are you waiting for? Go out and start making friends!!
Tips offered in this book were very promising The first chapter "Growing the Tribe" I thought was quite clever. This book gives insight on the values of friendship and how to make great, long-lasting friendships, rather than ones that die off quickly. It also helps you to be less nervous about approaching others and starting conversation so you can actually make friends. Maybe you are someone who also has social anxiety, or finds it hard to approach others like me. I think this book can actually help other people. This even gives insight on meeting online friends which I found to very interesting, since I do play a lot of social games. My favorite chapter had to be "Exploding the Social Life" The name of it alone is great. It explains how to show your more interesting side to others, which "outweighs" most other traits. So basically, I would recommend this if you are looking for something to help you out with being more social, and making better lasting friendships with others. Love it!
Instant Friendship: How to Make Friends Instantly As a lifelong ambivert, I have admittedly had a difficult time making friends. I find social settings to be awkward and intimidating and although I can hold a conversation about pretty much anything, it never seems to naturally develop into anything else. I have frequently met others with whom I'd longed for a deeper connection, but I was utterly clueless as to how to grow those relationships and become friends. Instant Friendship seeks to address the plight of those of us who have struggled with this seemingly impossible task. First, it helps to identify why you have a hard time making friends (do you not put yourself out there? Do you not know where to find people to connect with?). I am a bit standoffish and prefer to take in situations as opposed to putting myself out there. Obviously, not a great recipe for drawing people in. This book truly taught me to allow for opportunities to develop by creating them myself. Instead of being so closed off and expecting other to flock to me anyway, I have to look for chances to let my freak flag fly, so to speak, and be myself. I'm naturally more drawn to the Internet than in-person connections because I'm a stay-at-home/work-from-home mother of 2 and Instant Friendship helps in that regard, too. Instead of just spilling the same advice (open up, talk to people, etc.), it provides specific ways to break the ice canned move from acquaintance to relationship and, most importantly, how to maintain that friendship once you have it. Although making friends in the first place can be difficult, making that friendship last is an entirely different beast with its own challenges. Some advice offered within the book is to proactive and be the type of friend that you want to have. This advice was absolutely invaluable. I was able to immediately enact it with a woman I just met and I would instantly tell the difference that it made in our relationship. Making friends always seemed to come naturally to others, and now, it actually seems to be a bit second-nature for me, too. I'm not suddenly a social butterfly, but I have made a couple of great connections that I otherwise would not have.
Instant Friendship is the second book in the INSTANT-Series that I have had the pleasure of reading. I have often thought that I am a good friend, but I put it to the test—literally—by taking the Friendability Level Quiz in this book. With 5 quick questions, I learned that I have some things to work on. This easy read at approximately 40 pages begins with people’s inherent need for friends and the value in that. Do you have trouble maintaining friendships? I do and I always chalked it up to someone else not doing their part. Or thinking that life just got in the way, people grow apart, etc. After reading the author’s breakdown on friendships, I realized that it’s deeper than that. Instant Friendship takes you back to the basics: Meeting People and Establishing the Friendship. Where and how you meet people sets the tone for your friendship. Do you have common interests? Do you know how to contact each other outside of social media? Which is another component of friendships these days that exists: meeting people online. Not for dating purposes but to locate networking groups. Each chapter of this book gives you exercises to try so you can get into friend-shape. Yes, that is a thing. I gained some valuable insight that made me reflect on the origin of some of my friendships. My favorite chapter is Keeping the Friendship. This is where I learned the most about what I am lacking in my friendships. The author talks about how friendship is a two-way street. You must keep in touch, listen, compromise, and realize that everything is not all about you. The summation of Instant Friendship comes with Chapter 7: Landing the Friend Ship. Even if you think you are a great friend and/or skilled at building friendships, you will still benefit from the content. There’s no harm in enhancing a good thing. More importantly, people who are inept at making friends due to shyness or social awkwardness will gain knowledge from the real-life situations shared in this book.