IT'S NOT YOU! ITS ME! Is a 19 chapter guide to understanding the complexities of relationships, which cover well know stages of relationships such as the Romance Stage, The Power Struggle Stage, The Stability Stage, The Commitment Stage, The Co-Creation or Bliss Stage, and Endings.
IT'S NOT YOU! ITS ME! Is more than just another relationship book. This particular offering is an excellent guide to understand the complexities of relationships that’s been written in a language that is funny, informative and easy to understand.
IT'S NOT YOU! ITS ME! Is not a quick fix to relationships, neither is this book about scaring people out of relationships with messages of doom and gloom, nor does it profess to provide a fool proof tick list of what one has to look for in relationships.
IT'S NOT YOU! ITS ME! Is simply an excellent guide that is accessible to anyone seeking to understand their own relationships while offering perspectives and strategies to empower with knowledge in order to address relationship concerns.
IT'S NOT YOU! ITS ME! Is also an excellent supplement for relationship coaches, counsellors and therapists, looking for guidance material for training, seminars and workshops.
Most importantly, this book, will allow you to respond to that proverbial statement " IT'S NOT YOU! IT'S ME....In a manner that you may not have been able to before. but will surely be will be after reading this book.
|Publisher:||Think Doctor Publications|
|Product dimensions:||8.50(w) x 11.00(h) x 0.63(d)|
About the Author
I have been working as a Counsellor and Psychotherapist in private practise since June 2000, . I have gained extensive experience, with over 10,000 client contact hours, working both long and short term, in relationship counselling,I am the resident counsellor at a US military base in the UK..
Qualifications and Courses
1987/80 BA (Hons) Degree in Sociology (University of West Indies)
1999 Level A Psychometric Testing (Criterion Partnership)
2000 Certificate Course in Organisational Development and Occupational Consultancy
Table of Contents
LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT ONE 1
THE PICK CHOOSE AND REFUSE PROCESS 32
THE DATING GAME:RULES OF ENGAGEMENT 51
ONLINE FAKING AND DATING 62
AGE IS JUST A NUMBER, "UNLESS" YOU'RE POOR AND BROKE 76
'TIL DIVORCE DO WE PART 95
DON'T FAKE IT TO MAKE IT 114
ARE YOU SURE YOU'RE JUST FRIENDS? 136
IS THE GRASS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE? 143
LOVE ON THE ROCKS 166
BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO-SOMETIMES 184
HIT THE ROAD! HOW TO BREAK UP WITH A PARTNER 198
YOUR RELATIONSHIP:IS IT DEAD OR ALIVE? 207
HEARTACHES ARE TEMPORARY VISITORS 219
TAKING CONTROL AND MOVING ON 239
FROM THE EX TO THE NEXT 246
TIME TO DE-CLUTTER 252
I WANT YOU BACK 255
THE EXODUS:MOVING ON 270