Beaucoup de mariages se terminent par le divorce, et même ceux qui ne finissent pas par une séparation physique sont souvent brisés. Beaucoup de personnes se débrouillent juste pour continuer à vivre ensemble, soit parce que les lois de la société l’exigent, soit à cause des enfants. Beaucoup de gens se rendent compte après leur mariage qu’ils ont fait une erreur tragique. Ils ont épousé la mauvaise personne. Ils ont fait une erreur irréversible dans leur choix.
La condition préalable et cruciale pour qu’un mariage soit heureux, c’est que les deux parties soient au centre de la volonté de Dieu pour elles, que leur relation avec Dieu soit correcte, qu’elles comprennent le dessein de Dieu dans le mariage, et qu’elles s’engagent à accomplir ce dessein. Il faut aussi que les partenaires se connaissent, qu’ils sachent ce qu’ils veulent l’un de l’autre, qu’ils recherchent la personne indiquée et fassent le bon choix. Après que le choix a été fait, leur relation devra être menée correctement pour qu’elle soit un succès.
Nous croyons que le dessein de Dieu, c’est que le mariage soit une expérience merveilleuse - un avant-goût du ciel sur la terre. Nous croyons qu’Il a le bon partenaire qu’il te faut, et que si tu coopères avec Lui, tu trouveras ce partenaire et tu en seras réellement béni. La question qui se pose est celle-ci: «Qui est ce partenaire? Comment le trouver? Comment mener à bonne fin notre relation pour qu’elle demeure une bénédiction?» Ce livre te le dira.
Jouir du choix de ton conjoint est le second livre de la série «Dieu, le sexe et toi». Le premier livre de cette série est intitulé: Jouir de la vie sexuelle, le troisième: Jouir de la vie conjugale. Tu devras lire tous les trois livres pour obtenir une image complète de la question.
Si tu as été béni ou encouragé, irrité ou frustré par ce livre, écris-moi pour m’en informer. Mais écris tout de suite, n’attends pas.
Nous publions ce livre en priant qu’il devienne tien. Lis le et procure-toi un exemplaire pour un ami.
About the Author
Zacharias Tanee Fomum 1945-2009 Founding Leader, Christian Missionary Fellowship International Professor Zacharias Tanee Fomum was born in the flesh on 20th June 1945 and became born again on 13th June 1956. On 1st October 1966, He consecrated his life to the Lord Jesus and to His service, and was filled with the Holy Spirit on 24th October 1970. He was taken to be with the Lord on 14th March, 2009. Fomum was admitted to a first class in the Bachelor of Science degree, graduating as a prize winning student from Fourah Bay College in the University of Sierra Leone in October 1969. At the age of 28, he was awarded a Ph.D. in Organic Chemistry by the University of Makerere, Kampala in Uganda. In October 2005, he was awarded a Doctor of Science (D.Sc) by the University of Durham, Great Britain. This higher doctorate was in recognition of his distinct contributions to scientific knowledge through research. As a Professor of Organic Chemistry in the University of Yaounde 1, Cameroon, Fomum supervised or co-supervised more than 100 Master's Degree and Doctoral Degree theses and co-authored over 160 scientific articles in leading international journals. He considered Jesus Christ the Lord of Science ("For by Him all things were created..." - Colossians 1:16), and scientific research an act of obedience to God's command to "subdue the earth" (Genesis 1:28). He therefore made the Lord Jesus the Director of his research laboratory while he took the place of deputy director, and attributed his outstanding success as a scientist to Jesus' revelational leadership. In more than 40 years of Christian ministry, Pr Fomum travelled extensively, preaching the Gospel, planting churches and training spiritual leaders. He made more than: * 700 missionary journeys within Cameroon, which ranged from one day to three weeks in duration. * 500 missionary journeys to 70 different nations in all the continents. These ranged from two days to six weeks in duration. Pr Fomum was the founding team-leader of Christian Missionary Fellowship International (CMFI); an evangelism, soul-winning, disciple making, Churchplanting and missionary-sending movement with missionaries and churches in 65 nations spread across Africa, Europe, the Americas, Asia and Oceania. In the course of their ministry, Pr Fomum and his team witnessed more than 10,000 recorded healing miracles performed by God in answer to prayer in the name of Jesus Christ. These miracles include instant healings of headaches, cancers, HIV/AIDS, blindness, deafness, dumbness, paralysis, madness and new teeth and organs received. Pr Fomum read more than 1350 books on the Christian faith and authored over 150 books to advance the Gospel of Jesus Christ. 5 million copies of these books are in circulation in 12 languages as well as 16 million gospel tracts in 17 languages. Pr Fomum was a man who sought God. He spent between 15 minutes and six hours daily alone with God in what he called Daily Dynamic Encounters with God (DDEWG). During these DDEWG he read God's Word, meditated on it, listened to God's voice, heard God speak to him, recorded what God was saying to him and prayed it through. He thus had over 18,000 DDEWG. He also had over 60 periods of withdrawing to seek God alone for periods that ranged from 3 to 21 days (which he termed Retreats for Spiritual Progress). The time he spent seeking God slowly transformed him into a man who hungered and thirsted for God. He aspired to become a man who hungers, thirsts and gasps after God. Pr Fomum was a man of prayer and a leading teacher on prayer in many churches and conferences around the world. He considered prayer to be the most important work that can be done for God and for man. He kept a record of his prayer requests and had over 50,000 recorded answers to prayer in his prayer books - a compelling testimony that there is a living God who answers prayer. He and his team carried out over 57 Prayer Crusades (periods of forty days and nights during which at least eight hours are invested into prayer each day). They also carried out over 80 Prayer Sieges (times of near non-stop praying that ranges from 24 hours to 120 hours). He carried out over 100 Prayer Walks of between five and forty-seven kilometres in towns and cities around the world. He authored the Prayer Power Series, a 13-volume set of books on various aspects of prayer; Supplication, Fasting, Intercession and Spiritual Warfare. He started national and continental prayer movements in Cameroon and other nations. He worked with leaders of local churches in India to disciple and train more than 2 million believers. Pr Fomum also considered fasting as one of the weapons of Christian Spiritual Warfare. He carried out over 250 fasts ranging from three days to forty days, drinking only water or water supplemented with soluble vitamins. Having received from the Lord a specific call to overthrow principalities and territorial spirits through prayer and fasting, he was enabled to carry out supralong fasts of between 52 and 70 days in his final years. Fomum chose a lifestyle of simplicity and "selfimposed poverty" in order to invest more funds into the critical work of evangelism, soul-winning, churchplanting and the building up of believers. Knowing the importance of money and its role in the battle to reach those without Christ with the glorious Gospel, he and his wife grew to investing 92.5% of their earned income from all sources (salaries, allowances, royalties and cash gifts) into the Gospel. They invested with the hope that, as they grow in the knowledge and the love of the Lord, and the perishing souls of people, they would one day invest 99% of their income into the Gospel. He was married to Prisca Zei Fomum and they had seven children who are all involved in the work of the Gospel, some serving as missionaries. Prisca is a national and international minister, specialising in the winning and discipling of children to Jesus Christ. She also communicates and imparts the vision of ministry to children with a view to raising and building up ministers to them. The Professor owed all that he was and all that God had done through him, to the unmerited favour and blessing of God and to his worldwide army of friends and co-workers. He considered himself nothing without them and the blessing of God; and would have amounted to nothing but for them. All praise and glory to Jesus Christ!