“The Lord always keeps his promises.” Psalm 145:13Beauty, passion, wisdom, integrity, selflessness, graciousness, contentment, and courage. These are qualities that all women aspire to. But what do they look like, and how can we achieve them?In Life Promises for Women, bestselling author and beloved Bible teacher Cynthia Heald shares a collection of carefully selected readings, Bible promises, and meditative thoughts designed to inspire, enlighten, and ground readers in God’s Word every day, and guide them along the path to becoming the extraordinary women God intended them to be.Beautifully packaged, this timeless devotional is an ideal Mother’s Day gift for any woman in need of encouragement and wisdom in her daily walk with God.
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LIFE PROMISES FOR WOMENInspirational Scriptures and devotional thoughts
By CYNTHIA HEALD
Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.Copyright © 2010 Cynthia Heald
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Chapter OnePART I
Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not. -RALPH WALDO EMERSON
Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. COLOSSIANS 3:14
When I am more concerned about having a loving spirit than being beautiful, not only do I become beautiful, but I bestow beauty.
Beauty Is as Beauty Does
Growing up, I remember hearing the old adage "Beauty is as beauty does." What I understood from that saying is that although a woman might be attractive physically, how she lives really determines whether or not she is beautiful. Often a woman's actions and reactions can negate any outward beauty she might have, and vice versa. Ruth Graham's Chinese nanny is a good example. Wang Nai Nai was depicted as "a homely old soul." Ruth describes this plain-featured woman this way: "Her nose was un usually broad and flat, and there was a mole on the side of it. Her eyes were little slits with short eyelashes, framed by laugh wrinkles. Her mouth was wide and kind. A peasant's face. A pleasant peasant's face. Mother was right. She was a homely old soul. But what did that matter? She was loving. I would have sworn her beautiful."
Just as a woman's lack of inner character can mar her good looks, a beautiful soul can render a plain face lovely.
You should clothe yourselves ... with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God. 1 PETER 3:4
If I want beauty that lasts, I must adorn myself with a gentle and quiet spirit.
That Certain Something
We have become a society accustomed to "air-brushed" beauty. I smiled at the story of Elizabeth the queen mother, who was selecting a photograph from a recent sitting. Cecil Beaton, the photographer, suggested that he could have the picture discreetly retouched to conceal a few wrinkles. The queen mother rejected his suggestion. "I would not want it to be thought that I had lived for all these years without having anything to show for it," she explained. Her response is refreshing in light of our seeming obsession with looking young at all costs. We need to pay attention to our outward appearance, but not to the extent that it overshadows our concern for inner beauty. Herbert Spencer once remarked, "The saying that beauty is but skin deep is but a skin-deep saying." Inner beauty bestows on us that "certain something" that sets us apart, gives our life meaning, and graces us with beauty even when we are sixty.
You can take credit for beauty at sixteen. But if you are beautiful at sixty, it will be your soul's own doing. -MARIE STOOPS
You are a chosen people. You are royal priests, a holy nation, God's very own possession. As a result, you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light. 1 PETER 2:9
It is because I am God's own possession that I can show others the difference Christ makes in my life.
When I think about a woman whom I admire and consider to be beautiful, I tend to think first of her inner qualities-whether she is gracious, considerate of others, courageous, wise. Beauty, to me, is seen in a woman whose face mirrors her acceptance of who she is, her contentment with where she is, and her enthusiasm for people and life. It is this inner loveliness that I have chosen to call uncommon beauty. It is uncommon because it is rare and cannot be seen. It can be sensed and observed only in a woman's conduct or bearing. It is a refreshing "air" that attracts and causes others to look past her physical attributes and appreciate who she really is inside.
Remember that when you leave this earth, you can take with you nothing that you have received-only what you have given: a full heart enriched by honest service, love, sacrifice and courage. -ST. FRANCIS OF ASSISI
Whether we are here in this body or away from this body, our goal is to please [the Lord]. 2 CORINTHIANS 5:9
When my goal is pleasing God, I become a sweet fragrance to all I meet.
While sorting through some old papers recently, I came across a slip of yellowed paper entitled "New Year's Resolutions." I had apparently written the following list when I was eight years old:
1. Get a boyfriend.
2. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
3. Get a figure.
4. Don't say anything mean about other people.
5. Don't eat many sweets as to get a beautiful complexion.
6. Do exercises.
7. Good posture.
I smiled as I read these resolutions, written in 1947. Sixty years later, I can say that I did succeed in getting a boyfriend-a permanent one-but the other resolutions are still useful. Eating wisely and exercising consistently are still necessary. I continue to work on good posture with the help of my daughter's reminders. However, the inner qualities are much more important to me now, and it is my desire to develop these qualities and to be a sweet fragrance to all I meet.
Be careful how you live. Don't live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. Don't act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do. EPHESIANS 5:15-17
Each day is a day the Lord has made, and I want to live each day understanding what the Lord wants me to do.
A Beautiful Life
Irene Miller was a young homemaker in Johnson City, Tennessee, with a devoted husband, two children, and a normal life. During the summer of 1950, her son, David, was stricken with polio. Three years later, Irene's husband, Bud, was robbed and murdered. Irene never remarried and undertook the challenge of raising her daughter, Dolores, and her quadriplegic son alone, working at home as a seamstress. After David died at age thirty-one of heart failure, Irene cared for her aging mother-in-law, then her own parents. Convinced that God had determined the purpose for her life, Irene made the most of each day. A poem taped to her mirror summarizes her outlook:
This is the beginning of a new day. I can waste it or use it for good, but what I do today is important because I am exchanging a day of my life for it. -AUTHOR UNKNOWN
Irene's life radiated with uncommon beauty. She lived "in deeds, not in years; in thoughts, not breaths; in feelings, not in figures on a dial."
Since we are living by the Spirit, let us follow the Spirit's leading in every part of our lives. GALATIANS 5:25
I walk in true beauty when I follow the Spirit's leading.
Walking in Beauty
When I was in college, I took a course entitled "Byron, Shelley, and Keats." As I studied each of these great authors' writings, Lord Byron's poem "She Walks in Beauty" became one of my favorites. The first few lines give this picture:
She walks in beauty, like the night Of cloudless climes and starry skies, And all that's best of dark and bright Meet in her aspect and her eyes.
The final lines round out the image:
And on that cheek and o'er that brow So soft, so calm yet eloquent, The smiles that win, the tints that glow But tell of days in goodness spent, A mind at peace with all below, A heart whose love is innocent.
I appreciate the image of this woman walking in beauty. Byron discerns that beauty is a way of life; it is a lifestyle. Wherever this woman was and whatever she did, she walked in beauty. With her soft, calm spirit; her smile; her goodness; a mind at peace; and a heart of innocent love, this is a woman of uncommon beauty.
Don't be selfish; don't try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don't look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. PHILIPPIANS 2:3-4
Not being preoccupied with myself frees me to be gracious and to be used by God.
Uncommon beauty is sown and cultivated in the soul: It is watered by passion and wisdom, it puts down deep roots by practicing integrity, it flourishes by being selfless and gracious to others, it grows strong by staying firmly planted in its circumstances and courageously enduring the clouds and the wind. The choice is ours. We can sow the seed of each of these qualities in our souls so that we can bloom with the lovely flower of uncommon beauty. And it is this extraordinary, priceless beauty that we want for our lives-all the spa treatments in the world cannot keep us young or make us truly beautiful. I agree with Francine Rivers's observation that a truly beautiful woman is unaware of her beauty. Perhaps this truth expresses the heart of uncommonly beautiful women. They are more concerned about living passionately and wisely, they think of others more than themselves, they thrive in their circumstances, and they value freedom and justice over their own desires. To be known as beautiful would surprise them.
True beauty is rare, and seldom recognized by the one who possesses it. -FRANCINE RIVERS
Because we have these promises, dear friends, let us cleanse ourselves from everything that can defile our body or spirit. And let us work toward complete holiness because we fear God. 2 CORINTHIANS 7:1
Fearing the Lord is giving God his rightful place in my life as my Father, Savior, and Lord.
One of my role models for becoming a woman of inner beauty is the virtuous woman found in the last chapter of the Old Testament book of Proverbs. A mother instructs her son, a king, about the essential qualities of a worthy wife. The following characteristics this mother affirms are universal and apply to any worthy woman, regardless of marital status: She is a passionate and diligent worker. Her wisdom enables her to make intelligent business decisions. She is trustworthy. She is selfless in serving others. She exhibits graciousness and kindness when speaking and in her readiness to be hospitable. She is contented with her life, and she is courageous, for she is not anxious about the future. And she knows that no matter what happens, she will be able to endure because she can trust God. What makes her life so valuable and special? A verse at the end of the passage gives us the answer: "Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the LORD will be greatly praised." She is praised for the respect and reverence she gives to God as the creator and sustainer of life, and she is commended for honoring God by loving and serving others.
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Table of Contents
PART I: Beauty....................1
PART II: Passion....................19
PART III: Wisdom....................41
PART IV: Integrity....................63
PART V: Selflessness....................79
PART VI: Graciousness....................107
PART VII: Contentment....................135
PART VIII: Courage....................163