Love in America: Gender and Self-Development / Edition 1

by Francesca M. Cancian

Overview

In the past twenty-five years, Americans have gained considerable freedom in their personal lives. Relationships are now more flexible, and self-development has become a primary goal for both men and women. Most scholars have criticized this trend to greater freedom, arguing that it undermines family bonds and promotes selfishness and extreme independence. Francesca Cancian is more optimistic. In this book she compares these newer images of close relationships with "traditional" forms of marriage, in which love is seen as the responsibility of women, while self-development is regarded as a male concern. She shows that many American couples succeed in combining self-development with commitment. For them, interdependence, not independence, is their ideal, and love and self-development do not conflict, but reinforce each other. Changes in images of love are documented, in part, by examining case studies, popular magazines of 1900 to 1979 and selected articles in them on how to have a happy marriage. In sum, the author concludes that images of love in America have shifted from polarized gender roles toward more flexible roles and interdependence, thus fostering both love and self-development.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780521396912
Publisher:	Cambridge University Press
Publication date:	08/31/1990
Edition description:	New Edition
Pages:	224
Product dimensions:	5.98(w) x 8.98(h) x 0.43(d)

Table of Contents

List of figures and tables; Acknowledgments; Introduction; 1. Love vs. self-development; Part I. The History of Love: 2. The feminization of love in the nineteenth century; 3. From role to self: the emergence of androgynous love in the twentieth century; 4. The history of love: theories and debates; Part II. Feminized Love and Its Costs: 5. Feminine and masculine love; 6. Illness and split gender roles; 7. Martial conflict over intimacy; Part III. Androgynous Love: 8. Self-development through androgynous love; 9. Androgynous love in marriage; 10. Friends and relatives; Conclusion; 11. Current trends and future possibilities; Appendices; Notes; References; Index.

Editorial Reviews

"Amid the plethora of scholarly and popular books on the current state of love, marriage, and community life in the United States, Francesca Cancian's Love in America stands out as a welcome and needed contribution. Drawing on survey findings, in-depth interviews, and content analysis of popular magazines, it offers an original account of the range of love relationships that has emerged in recent decades as women and men 'have gained considerable freedom in their personal lives'. The book also provides a well-reasoned and convincing rebuttal to the prevalent view that modern structural and cultural arrangements produce the disintegration of close, enduring personal bonds." American Journal of Sociology

From the Publisher

The recent trend away from sharply defined gender roles and toward self-development for both men and women has been a concern of many scholars who feel that self-development precludes nurturing and family relationships. Cancian theorizes that self-development encourages interdependence between adults, which is healthier for the family than the dependent-wife pattern. She examines the factors which instigated change over the last century and implications for the future. Exhaustive research as well as interviews with modern couples are cited. Of interest to sociologists and laypersons alike. Susan B. Hagloch, Tuscarawas Cty. P.L., New Philadelphia, Ohio

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