Table of Contents
CONTENTS
Introduction
PART ONE: BEFORE
1 No Going Back
2 When Your Life is Split in Two
3 Laying Down Your Dreams
4 The Journey to You
5 When Life Takes a Detour
6 One Breath at a Time
7 Stay Strong, Mama
8 Wanting What You Cannot Have
9 You Are Not Alone
10 Not What I Signed Up for
11 He Is Not Silent
12 The Beginning of the End
13 The Question You Cannot Answer
PART TWO: AFTER
14 Finding the Gifts of Brokenness
15 Treasures in the Darkness
The First Treasure: The Gift of Trust
16 Mind the Gap
The Second Treasure: The Gift of Filling the Gap
17 Those Who Sit with Us
The Third Treasure: The Gift Of Understanding
18 The Intersection of Joy and Pain
The Fourth Treasure: The Gift of Joy
19 Letting Go
The Fifth Treasure: The Gift of Hope
20 Small Victories
The Sixth Treasure: The Gift of Vulnerability
21 Kicked Out of the Club
The Seventh Treasure: The Gift of Identity
22 Love Heals
The Eighth Treasure: The Gift of Love
23 The Mountains Bear the Scars
The Ninth Treasure: The Gift of Healing
24 Starting Over
The Tenth Treasure: The Gift of Purpose
25 Nobody Can Do This for You
The Eleventh Treasure: The Gift of Faith
PART THREE: BEGINNING AGAIN
26 Choosing Brave
The Twelfth Treasure: The Gift of Peace
27 The Center of Loss and Joy
The Thirteen Treasure: The Gift of Perseverance
28 Made for Hope
The Fourteenth Treasure: The Gift of Redemption
Epilogue
The Fifteenth Treasure: The Gift of Rebirth
Acknowledgements
My Gifts to You
Resources on Grief and Loss
Notes
About the Author