New Rules of Attraction: How to Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg for More

New Rules of Attraction: How to Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg for More

by Arden Leigh
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New Rules of Attraction: How to Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg for More by Arden Leigh


She walks into a room and heads turn.

Conversations stop. Drinks spill. The man you've been trying to talk to all night suddenly excuses himself. You hope she'll break a stiletto.

Don't hate her. Become her.

What would you rather do-have a strategy to win the guy you want, or sit at the bar all night and wait for him to come to you? Arden Leigh schools women in the art of getting their desires, offering you effective tips for attracting him, mesmerizing him, and convincing him that what he really wants is you, including:

•Why being sexy shouldn't be your only weapon

•Why waiting for him to approach you is one of the worst things you can do

•Why you should always do more at the party than have fun

•How Facebook, Twitter, and texting can help you-or hurt you.

The New Rules of Attraction gives you the tools to create lasting attraction with the kind of men you want in your life.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781402266522
Publisher: Sourcebooks
Publication date: 12/01/2011
Edition description: Original
Pages: 304
Sales rank: 1,281,630
Product dimensions: 5.00(w) x 7.00(h) x 0.90(d)

About the Author

ARDEN LEIGH founded the fast-growing women's seduction coaching company Sirens, based in New York City, where she offers group lectures and individual coaching along with other coaches and guest speakers. She has been featured in publications such as the New York Post, New York Magazine online, Filthy Gorgeous Things, In*Tandem, and Bizarre.You can visit the Sirens website at, visit Arden's blogs at and, and follow her on Twitter at @ardensirens.

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trentcosti More than 1 year ago
Maybe she should heal first before suggesting relationship tips to other people.  Her impetus seems to stem from the her relationships going badly,  a lot of her media posts seem to blame her exes for her going crazy and slicing her wrists to ribbons --  there seems to be a lot of public bashing of certain people as revenge which is bordering on nasty and obsessive. I think if you want a relationship book, unless you have been through her extraordinary experiences electrocuting men for money, it will be hard to relate to her.  Also, you might want  advice that comes from the impetus of wanting to help someone --  hers is healing herself, publicly humiliating her exes and getting over them. From what I know, the person she keeps bashing is trying to turn over a new leaf and is trying to be a useful person in society as a counsellor.  While he is trying to improve himself, she is stripping and bashing him because she has an audience, because she posts lingerie photos of herself everywhere. She is trying to drag him down because she is still a mess.   She acts like a professional dominatrix in a professional session, not like a person who knows normal relationships based on love and compassion.  I hate to think what her new book is about. Revenge and hate, no doubt.   
VicSarjoo More than 1 year ago
This book is an extremely accessible, informative, usable and delightful examination of the techniques of the modern seductress. Additionally, the volume offers an unexpectedly candid insight into the mind of a young woman who reconstructed herself from a shy, overweight, sexually inexperienced nerd into a model, author, press-darling and rising celebrity. The author now operates a business where she teaches other women how to reveal their inner sirens. While written specifically for women, and of highest direct utility to the modern western urban and suburban woman, this book is highly useful as a general primer for creating a personal brand. As such, it is useful to both men, women, products and even companies. (It will, for example, to marketing directors in the companies in which we invest as the techniques can be applied to woo markets.) The entire book is accessible and well researched and annotated. The author has used her life as lab in which to apply the best practices of relationship development and reputation building. The book can be seen as a synthesis of the works of authors such as Dale Carnegie, Robert Greene, Seth Godin and more. While the pages are a succinct manual and an effective textbook, the author's personal stories of her adventures and growth make the reading very insightful, touching, and entertaining. It can be seen as part field manual, part clinical study, and part well-described tome of debauched investigations. It is full of well researched and annotated case studies of the nature of human desire. The only drawback to this book is that this book lacks an index at the end organizing all of the rich research within it.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Excellent book. Lots of good advice. I stayed up all night reading this and even starting picking up my house last night and this am. She has a lot of great advice and she knows what she is talking about. I recommend this book and Get the Guy by Matthew Hussey. you will become more confident and give off a different energy. I can't commend this book enough! Buy it!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Highly recommended, one of the best seduction books out there.