No More Narcissists!: How to Stop Choosing Self-Absorbed Men and Find the Love You Deserve

No More Narcissists!: How to Stop Choosing Self-Absorbed Men and Find the Love You Deserve

by Candace V. Love PhD


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Why do some women date, or even marry, narcissistic men—over and over? In this provocative book, a clinical psychologist and expert in narcissism offers 7 secrets to help women finally break free from their attraction to narcissistic men.

Do you keep finding yourself in relationships with narcissistic men? Is your boyfriend or husband solely focused on fulfilling their own needs and unable to see things from your perspective? If you’re tired of dealing with a self-absorbed partner and are ready to be treated with kindness, respect, and sensitivity, this book is for you.

In No More Narcissists!, psychologist Candace Love provides a road map for women to finally get the love they deserve. Using skills based in cognitive behavioral and schema therapy, you’ll gain an understanding of why you’re attracted to narcissistic men, how you can avoid being drawn in by a narcissist’s initial charm and magnetism, and how to heal so you can finally move on to healthy relationships.

You’ll find out how the basic principles of schema theory—core beliefs about ourselves and our environment that we acquire in childhood and adolescence—can play an important role in why you’re attracted to narcissists and seek them out. Also included are targeted exercises and techniques that will encourage you to examine your past relationships and take meaningful steps to promote self-care and healing.

Isn’t it time you broke the cycle of hurt, frustration, and pain that comes with loving a narcissist? This book will show you how to let go of these destructive relationships once and for all, love yourself unconditionally, and find the love you deserve.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781626253674
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Publication date: 06/01/2016
Pages: 224
Sales rank: 789,162
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.70(d)

About the Author

As a licensed clinical psychologist, Candace V. Love, PhD, is passionate about helping women avoid narcissistic relationships. As founder and president of North Shore Behavioral Medicine, which has offices in downtown Chicago and Grayslake, IL, Love uses evidence-based techniques derived from cognitive behavioral therapies, including mindfulness and schema therapy. Much of her spare time is divided between the least narcissistic of creatures—namely animals. She enjoys riding horses and rehabilitating feral cats in the woods behind her home, and indulging in the next foodie find—whether it be a gourmet meal, vintage wine, or craft beer.

Table of Contents

Introduction 1

1 Prince Charming or Another Frog? 9

2 The Frog: Understanding Narcissism and Narcissists 27

3 Unmet Childhood Needs: Discovering Your Story 53

4 A Closer Look at Life Traps 63

5 Stuck for Life? Your Life Traps in Adulthood 87

6 Learn to Change Your Life Traps 121

7 Self-Care: Becoming Your Own Fairy Godmother 151

8 Mindful Dating 179

A Few Last Thoughts 199

Acknowledgments 201

Appendix: List of Exercises 203

Notes 207

References 209


Love resides in Libertyville, IL. 

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