Table of Contents
Introduction Thich Nhat Hanh 1
Part I Available
1 A Skeptic's Guide to Mindfulness 7
2 Fake It Till You Make It 12
3 A Revolting Monk 17
4 Are You Available? 20
5 Deep Listening 26
6 Sitting and Stopping 39
7 This is Why I'm Here 47
8 Getting Older Better 53
9 The Height of Engagement 57
10 Tomorrow is Not the Answer 63
Part II Engaged
11 Attack and Paddle 71
12 Pain and Practice 78
13 Permission to Cry 86
14 How do you Know? 90
15 Worrying and Breathing 93
16 Crossing the Bridge 97
17 Monks in the Ocean 102
18 Stranded on the Number 9 105
19 Raise Your Hand if You're Going to Die 112
20 Touching Dead People 118
21 The Five Remembrances 122
22 The Real Meaning of Karma 125
23 How to Raise Happy Grown-ups 128
Part III Connected
24 Me, Myself, and Interbeing 137
25 Many-Colored Cocoons 141
26 Stop Bothering Me 147
27 Micro Metta 150
28 Our Space in the Universe 154
29 Peace Talks 157
30 Bringing Outsiders In 162
31 It's a Great Life if You Don't Weaken 167
32 Make Fewer Strangers 170
33 A Marshmallow by Any Other Name 177
34 Wanting It all 181
35 Tiny Changes at the Last Minute 185
Epilogue: A Million Present Moments 190
Practices
Being Available 193
Setting Your Intention 194
Being with Pain and Suffering 195
Micro Metta 197
Acknowledgments 199