The book introduces this seeming contradiction with the ancient myth of Pygmalion and his sculpture of a beautiful woman. These enduring mythic figures represent the wish to emerge as a beautiful being and the wish for the power to create beauty in another. Patients in psychotherapy often pursue these elusive goals outside clinical work, rather than within treatment. Manifold venues enticingly promise reinvention. These activities may involve plastic surgery, beauty salon make-overs, diet gurus, elocution coaches, tattooing, and athletic training. Seekers of beauty engage with people whom they see as agents offering them ravishing physical or charismatic attractiveness. Psychotherapists may or may not be among agents seen as having the power to transform.
The quest for beauty is widespread and in many instances non-pathological. Sinkman looks at multiple avenues of understanding and appreciation of efforts toward beauty, including artistic creativity and political activities. However there is a spectrum of investment in creating beauty. Pursuing beauty can become pathological. Therapists need to watch out for its appearance outside the psychoanalytic arena. Such material can be missed when the analyst falls into counter-transference difficulties such as feeling invested in transforming the patient, identifying with the patient’s narcissistic injuries and/or needs to compete, or enacting battles with the patient. Such difficulties interfere with attunement to patients’ experiences.
The Psychology of Beauty considers definitions of beauty, gender identity themes, and origins of beauty in the mother-infant relationship. It investigates ugliness, sadomasochistic beauty pursuits, evolutionary factors, and aspects of aging. The book highlights emerging clinical material which has yet to gain notice and suggests what analysts may be missing, and why.
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About the Author
Table of ContentsChapter 1: Pygmalion and His Living Sculpture
Chapter 2: Prehistoric and Literary Eras: Seeking a Beautiful Self
Chapter 3: Ordinary Beauty and Timeless Fantasies
Chapter 4: Re-birth, Transformation, or Growth: Narcissistic Hurdles in the Quest to Become Beautiful
Chapter 5: The Misplaced Therapist: In Search of Pygmalion on and off the Couch
Chapter 6: Reaching Farther for a Pygmalion Experience: Artistic Beauty or Pathological Excursions
Chapter 7: Perverse Aspects in the Urge to Become Beautiful: Use and Abuse in Pygmalion Dyads
Chapter 8: The Intersection of the Biology and Psychology of Beauty
Chapter 9: Understanding the Invisibility of Beauty in Clinical Work: Translating the Unseen
Chapter 10: Doing Versus Talking in Clinical Work: Cautionary Tales for Working Successfully with Beauty Issues
Chapter 11: Creating Beauty: Evolutionary and Cutting Edge Perspectives
Chapter 12: Variations on Definitions of Beauty
Chapter 13: Beauty, Gender Identity, and Primary Femininity
Chapter 14: Origins and Endings of Beauty
What People are Saying About This
In The Psychology of Beauty: Creation of a Beautiful Self, Ellen Sinkman has written a book that should be required reading for all students of mental health. Our patients have preoccupations, fantasies, and dreams about beauty that often go unaddressed in treatment. Sinkman takes us on a guided tour of this private land of beauty; the experience unforgettable.—Elizabeth L. Auchincloss, MD, Weill Cornell Medical College; Columbia University Center for Psychoanalytic Training and Research
How useful and beautiful it is to have myths and fairy tales mingled with psychoanalytic case stories to examine the many ways the idea of beauty drives both thinking and behavior. This book mines a rich trove of Western archaeology, literature, and science to come up with a fascinating story of its own. Read it and weep, laugh, learn and enjoy.
Ellen Sinkman has definitely shown us that ’beauty is not skin deep;’ in fact, in this book we are taken back 50,000 years to look at how Neanderthal man tried to beautify himself- as have all recorded cultures (even wanting their dead bodies to look beautiful for the gods). Using myths, fairytales, and her psychoanalytic work, Sinkman shows how profound the search for beauty is. Whether it relates to some early attachment to the idealized mother or some deep denial of death by striving for perfection, Sinkman shows us why the search for beauty triggers off such intense affects as shame, disgust, envy, and a pathological obsession with aging. When you finish this brilliant, scholarly work you will understand why the obsession with beauty (for men and women alike) has such deep biological and psychological roots. Congratulations to the author on this extraordinary ‘eye-opening’ work.—Carolyn Ellman, PhD, New York University