Table of Contents
CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . xiii
Part 1: Quit Shutting the
Door on Your Past . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1
1. Quit Wishing It Was You and Not Them
Softball, Scholarships, and Suicide. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3
2. Quit Wishing You Had Someone Else's Life
Childhood. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13
3. Quit Taking the Edge Off
Martinis and Motherhood. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25
4. Quit the Insanity
Hitting Bottom. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43
5. Quit Sitting on the Pedestal
Sober Sisters on a Pink Cloud . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 55
Part 2: Quit Shutting the
Door on Your Emotions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61
6. Quit Using Other People's Versions of God
The Spiritual Side of Sobriety. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63
7. Quit Depending on Others for Your Joy
Happiness Is a Choice. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71
8. Quit Eating Empty Calories
Eat to Live, Don't Live to Eat. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75
9. Quit Running Someone Else's Race
Back Talk. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 87
10. Quit Turning off Your Inner Voice
Life Skills Learned from Softball . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 109
11. Quit the Chaos
The Peaceful Warrior . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 119
BIBLIOGRAPHY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 123
APPENDIX I: SUICIDE RESOURCES. . . . . . . . . . . . 127
APPENDIX II: MORE IN-DEPTH QUESTIONS
AND ANSWERS TO THE TWELVE QUESTIONS. . . 129
APPENDIX III: DISCUSSION QUESTIONS . . . . . . . 135
ABOUT THE PUBLISHER. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 139