Real Boys' Voices by William S. Pollack, Todd Shuster
What real boys have to say:
"A lot of people use words like 'psycho' or 'wacko' to refer to people who are feeling glum or think they might want to take their own life. I think these sorts of slang terms create further isolation in a teen, and that's not what you want to do to a teen who already feels alone" —Alexander, 18, from a small town in the South
"A guy is supposed to be strong, tall, and fast and have the qualities of an ideal athlete. At the same time he's supposed to be smart. He's expected to be nearly perfect." —Chandler, 14, from a suburb in the Northwest
"What I hate about this school is that I am being picked on in the halls and just about everywhere else." —Cody, 14, from a suburb in New England
In Real Boys, Dr. William Pollack explored the issues that most boys in our nation face today. In this fascinating follow-up bestseller, Pollack goes right to the source: boys ages 10 to 20-evoking the secret struggles and passions of America's adolescent males in their own words. Their voices are searingly honest and eager to be heard, revealing how society's outdated expectations force them to mask their feelings of isolation, depression, longing, love, and hope. We hear from boys and young men in big cities and small towns-including survivors of the Columbine High School massacre-who share compelling, extrordinarily candid stories about bullying, drugs, sports, school, parents, sex, love, and much more. Pollack also offers ways to start a dialog and illustrates through templates what to do in many situations. This is an eye-opening book for teenage boys and girls, but-with its insights and strategies for dealing with their issues-especially invaluable for all the people in their lives.
William S. Pollack, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist, is an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, director of the Center for Men and Young Men at McLean Hospital, and an advisor for the National Campaign Against Youth Violence.
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More than 1 year ago
I enjoyed this book. Pollack gives some interesting thoughts on the problems that are plaguing today's boys.We liberated the girls. Maybe it's time to liberate the boys.
More than 1 year ago
It's awesome. What have we done to block out out the voices for real boys? We have stood by and not listened. We've tried to make them men before their time, we've turned our heads and said, 'Suck it up and be a real man.' Now, it's time to read, cry and get mad at ourselves but begin to see what we should have HEARD all alone - 'I am a little boy or I am a big boy - who is scared, happy, mad. Isn't it ok? Could you just listen to me?' Everyone counts but we need to let boys share their feelings and be counted too without feeling bad, sad or mad.
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