The Secret Lives of Wives: Women Share What It Really Takes to Stay Married

The Secret Lives of Wives: Women Share What It Really Takes to Stay Married

by Iris Krasnow
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The Secret Lives of Wives: Women Share What It Really Takes to Stay Married 3.2 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 35 reviews.
vickytren More than 1 year ago
Enjoyed it. Beautiful written. Great Read
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I thought this book would make me smile. I was a paradigm shift for me. I'm so glad I read it. I have recommended it to 2 of my friends.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Most of the one-star reviews on this page seem to be about the size of the sample excerpt available. I agree that it's too short - especially because this is such a great book! Married for more than two decades herself, Krasnow interviews two hundred of her fellow "oldyweds" and combs their stories for the best insights about how to make marriage work. The most important insight is this: a happy marriage is between two happy and fulfilled individuals; it can't be a source of happiness and fulfillment in itself. How the individuals in a marriage achieve fulfillment differs wildly from couple to couple. Women in this book talk about things as diverse as rediscovering childhood passions, spending more time with girlfriends, and yes, having flirty friendships with men. Krasnow presents it all in an even-handed, nonjudgmental way. Her mantra: it's their marriage, not mine. A fascinating look at what marriage *really* looks like today.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Giving a book a bad review based solely on the sample because you're too cheap to buy the whole book is really not fair. How dare you lower the score of a book because you didn't get enough for free. This is a great book that inspires you to push through when you're feeling like its time to throw in the towel.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This was one book that I did not want to end....that's how AWESOME it was!
Achalla More than 1 year ago
I have to say that I went into this book expecting something very different. I am glad to know that my married life is pretty much the same as all the other women - but I couldn't get over how in each woman's story I read over and over that the woman just 'submitted' or 'accepted' her life and then went on... There were not 'secrets' that I haven't heard myself saying. Maybe I interpreted it wrong, but it did very little for me or the growth of my married life.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Very hard to get thru and the message is repetitive. Could have been written in 25 pages or less.....
Diece More than 1 year ago
I am still young at only 27 but I have been with my husband of 2 years for nine. I never thought marriage would be easy but I have to tell you, this book made a world of difference in the way I view all the years I plan to be with my husband. It is a must read!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I liked the concept, but the format was very repetitive. Every chapter goes a little like this: Introduction with flashback of authors life, followed by brief introduction of the person interviewed with a story, reflection of random memory by author that may or may not be relevent to the story just shared. Save some time by skipping over the flashbacks and read the stories of those interviewed. Which coincidently have the theme of "times will be tough, get a hobby and everything will be okay when you reflect on it later."
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I found this book to be a well written and interesting read. As a woman married for 16 years, I found alot of the stories in this book entertaining and the advice offered by other married women to be useful. I think this is a must read for all married women.
TJ68TP More than 1 year ago
This is a great book...I'm a young woman and hope to be married in my not too far future. This book is relevant to my life and makes me think about marriage in a little bit of a different light. I'm thankful for seeing the next step in my future through an alternate lens then the same one I've known for a long time.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
A must read for anyone who is in or plans to be in a relationship.
Mamafloof More than 1 year ago
This is an interesting look into real lives, some extreme, and what they do in order to keep it going.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
¿The Secret Lives of Wives¿ pulls back the blinds as well as the sheets on real marriages, some blissful, others rocky, still others outrageous. Regardless, these well-told stories prompt the reader to assess their own marriage, and for that the reader will be grateful. Iris Krasnow offers an entertaining, informative and thought-provoking read, one that should be welcomed in any bedroom, one that could generate plenty of conversation and even activity there ¿ under the sheets and behind the blinds.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I did not find rhe stories inspiring or relatable to my marriage
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i love how the author told the women's stories in such different examples. both enlightening and entertaining it was hard to put this book down
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I am not buying because the 17 page sample revealed nothing about the book.
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