Sex Diaries Project: What We're Saying about What We're Doing

Sex Diaries Project: What We're Saying about What We're Doing

by Arianne Cohen

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Sex Diaries Project: What We're Saying about What We're Doing by Arianne Cohen

In the tradition of The Vagina Monologues and PostSecret , this provocative collection takes a peek behind bedroom doors-satisfying our insatiable desires to look into the private lives of ordinary people

Arianne Cohen spent four years collecting 1,500 Sex Diaries and in this book she takes us on a tantalizing tour of American bedrooms through the all-new, provocative, often moving, sometimes shocking, always entertaining real diaries of forty Sex Diarists. From the Madly-In-Love 17-Year-Old Who Might be Pregnant to the Cheating Father of Three and the Grandma Who Is Perfectly Happy Alone, these tales of love, lust, longing and leaving will shock, titillate, and educate. Cohen serves as tour guide, drawing on her deep database of Sex Diaries for her incisive and illuminating commentary. Cohen was the first editor of the Sex Diaries column, a popular feature in New York magazine, editing it from 2007 to 2010. Her work regularly appears in Marie Claire and the New York Times and she is a contributing editor at Woman's Day . She is executive producing a TV reality series based on this book.

  • Presents a groundbreaking portrait of relationships in America-including myriad options beyond single, dating, and married
  • Includes Sex Diaries of straight, gay, bi, single, married, young, and older Sex Diarists, published here for the first time
  • Gives readers tips on how to evaluate their own relationships and sex lives

Sex is everywhere in our culture-yet how people best connect and disconnect is largely a mystery. The Sex Diaries Project turns the lights on to reveal the secrets that lie behind closed bedroom doors.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781118157251
Publisher: Turner Publishing Company
Publication date: 01/24/2012
Edition description: First Edition
Pages: 304
Product dimensions: 6.10(w) x 9.40(h) x 1.20(d)

About the Author

ARIANNE COHEN collects sex diaries from all over the globe and partners with publishers, producers, and museums to share them with the world. Her work appears regularly in publications such as the New York Times, the Guardian, Elle, and Marie Claire, among many others, and she is executive producing a reality TV series based on the project. She graduated magna cum laude from Harvard. Cohen invites you to keep your own anonymous diary at

Table of Contents

Introduction: A Few Tantalizing Words from Your Sex Diaries Editor 1

Part One Solo

1 Dalliancing: I'm Enjoying Myself 11

2 Soloing: I Am My Own Soul Mate 39

Part Two Partnered

A Brief Intermission: Your Editor's Sex Diaries Epiphany 57

3 Dating: It's Simple: I Like You, You Like Me 67

4 Committing: Together, Forever 97

5 Recommitting: Round Two 139

6 Ending: Dissonance, Breakups, Death and Other Mishaps 159

Part Three Poly

7 Cheating: On Paper I'm Monogamous, in Practice . . . 207

8 Flourishing: The More, The Merrier 235

Appendix: What Kind of Relationship Is It?: A Cheat Sheet 275

The Sex Diarists 277

Notes 285

Acknowledgments 287

Index 289

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The Sex Diaries Project 3 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 2 reviews.
RunningCJ More than 1 year ago
Portland-based author Arianne Cohen has created an entertaining, behind-the-scenes book version of her successful New York Magazine column. Cohen's semi-voyeuristic chronicles of Americans' private lives covers people from across geographies, ages and walks-of-life. There's something for everyone here. This book is a fun read and is impossible to put down at times ("I'll just read one more diary"). Highly recommended.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago