Shut up and Dance!: The Joy of Letting Go of the Lead--On the Dance Floor and Off

Shut up and Dance!: The Joy of Letting Go of the Lead--On the Dance Floor and Off

by Jamie Rose


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Why it really does take two to tango . . .

At forty-five, Jamie Rose was an independent, take-charge woman whose career as an actress was going nicely, with frequent roles on hit television shows and in films. Yet there was one area of her life that wasn't working: her love life. She'd been living with her boyfriend for five years, and although she was ready to get married, he wasn't. His reason? They fought too much-and unfortunately, he was right. But something magical happened when she signed up for tango lessons: She began to appreciate the power of being a partner in a dance for two-and that letting someone else take the lead from time to time wasn't giving up, but rather, letting go. In this funny and wise book, Rose shares with readers the life lessons she's learned from tango and the other great partner dance traditions.

Dance changed Rose's life, and she discovered that she wasn't the only one. Over and over, the women she encountered at dance halls-women from age twenty to ninety-three-told her how falling in love with dance helped them fall in love with life again. The secret? Whereas before they may have worried that if they let go of their grip on things for a moment, everything would fall apart, now they knew that sometimes letting go of the lead was the best way to keep things together-especially in a relationship.

For anyone who has ever marveled at Fred and Ginger up on the silver screen (how could they be so in sync?), Shut Up & Dance shows readers how to dance their way into a happier, sexier life-even if they never step onto a dance floor.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781585428892
Publisher: Penguin Publishing Group
Publication date: 09/15/2011
Pages: 240
Product dimensions: 5.52(w) x 8.24(h) x 0.62(d)
Age Range: 18 Years

About the Author

Jamie Rose has been a professional actor for more than thirty- five years. Probably best known for her regular role as Vickie Gioberti in the 1980s prime-time hit Falcon Crest, most recently she has had lead roles in multiple films and numerous television shows, including ER, NYPD Blue, House, and Two and a Half Men. She owns her own acting studio, JRose Studio, and has taught Dramatic Literature and Theater Arts courses for California State University, Northridge. An avid social dancer, Rose is passionate about the Argentine tango, and particularly passionate about tango shoes. She also enjoys West Coast swing, Lindy, salsa, Texas two-step, and basically anything that includes great music and sweating. She has been in love with the same man for more than thirteen years, and has been married to him for the past five, she lives in Los Angeles with him, their cat, Fenway, and approximately twenty-five pairs of tango shoes.

Table of Contents

Prologue x

Introduction: I Am Woman, I Am Strong, So Why Aren't I Happy? xvi

chapter 1 Your First Partner Is You 27

chapter 2 Your Inner Goddess 45

chapter 3 L Is for Listen 65

chapter 4 Take Me to My Leader 101

chapter 5 O is For Open Your Heart 127

chapter 6 V Is For Voice Your Desires 159

chapter 7 E Is For Embrace your Partner 187

Epilogue 209

Resources 214

Acknowledgments 222

What People are Saying About This

Martha Frankel

"In her delicious new memoir, Shut Up & Dance! Jamie Rose turns feminism on its head by relating how she became stronger and more secure by yielding, first on the dance floor and then in real life. Like the tango, the advice in this book is simple, elegant, brilliant, and very sexy."

From the Publisher

"A compulsively readable, refreshingly helpful book about how to get out of a relationship rut. Readers can start putting Rose's suggestions into practice before they even reach the final page."-Hope Edelman, New York Times bestselling author of The  Possibility of Everything, Motherless Daughters

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