SQuire and Louise have practiced daily prayer together for fifteen years. Now, they offer readers step-by-step advice on where, when, and what words to use in praying with another person. Speak It answers the question they hear from readers daily: How can I pray together with my partner?
The couple addresses not only that simple question, but they also explain how partnered prayer can restore relationships and revitalize families. Offering an abundance of success stories, this book measures the phenomenal outcomes when two people pray together five minutes a day for forty days.
Working with several prominent mega-churches and Baylor University’s Institute for the Study of Religion, SQuire and Louise have conducted the first empirical research study ever done on the effects of prayer among two or more people over an extended period. As demonstrated by the more than two dozen praying partners who participated in the challenge, amazing, powerful, wonderful things happen when couples pray together.
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About the Author
Louise DuArt, often called one of the world’s greatest comedic-impressionists, continues to astonish critics and audiences alike with her dead-on celebrity impressions. Louise hosted the talk show Living The Life on ABC Family for eight seasons, when it was hailed as one of cable television’s most innovative comedy-variety programs. Louise has also received critical acclaim for her starring roles on Broadway. She lives in Martha’s Vineyard with her husband, SQuire Rushnell.
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The 40 Day Prayer Challenge
Everything that exists comes from God speaking it into existence.
He spoke, “Let there be light” . . . and there was.
He spoke, “Let us make mankind” . . . and He did.1
God began everything with the awesome power of the spoken word, and He beckons you to emulate Him through a magnificent gift that is delivered through your lips and the passion in your heart. His promise is in the Bible: “Whatever you ask in prayer, believing, you shall receive.”2
Let’s look at the key words to opening your gift: first, to ask in prayer—through the power of the spoken word; second, to believe that God is who He says He is and can do what He says He can do; and third, to expect to receive “whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer.”
How do you assure that your prayer reaches God’s attention?
You speak it!
When you learn to speak it, you hurtle every prayer through time and space directly to the ears of God. Like an arrow placed in the archer’s bow, when you speak it, your prayer gains trajectory and velocity to the Almighty. And when you engage with a partner to pull back on the bowstring—to speak it together—the words of your prayer can move heaven and earth!
The tongue has the power of life and death.
When Jesus looked at the two blind men and said, “Do you believe I can do this?” they replied, “Yes, Lord.”
Jesus then spoke these words: “According to your faith, let it be done.” And the blind men were healed.3
When a great storm alarmed the disciples in the boat, Jesus said, “Why are you afraid, you men of little faith?”4 Then He rebuked the winds and the sea . . . He spoke to them . . . and they became perfectly calm.
When Jesus came upon two violent, demon-possessed men, He spoke to them, saying, “Go!”5 The demons came out, went into the swine, and perished in the sea.
Christ spoke miracles into being.
The first two keys to unlocking God’s promise to you are: speaking prayer fervently and believing that God hears your every request. But the third key is equally essential: expecting your prayer will be answered, sometimes before you have even finished speaking or before your request has come into existence.
The Ancient Scriptures of Isaiah affirm “Before they call, I will answer; and while they are yet speaking, I will hear.”6
In Romans we are assured that God “calls into existence things that don’t yet exist.”7
Christ confirmed those promises: “Whoever . . . does not doubt in his heart, but believes what God says is going to happen, it will be granted him.”8
Therefore, how does effective prayer work? Speak it. Believe it. Expect it!
Jesus reiterates: “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”9
In this book you will see how speaking words of prayer, in faith, will plug you into the greatest power strip in the universe.
You will read how a mother spoke life over the body of her fourteen-year-old son, dead for nearly an hour, with the words, “Holy Spirit, give me back my son,” and suddenly a doctor shouted, “We’ve got a pulse!”
How an unseen voice spoke to a mother in Vermont, commanding her to stand during her pastor’s sermon and boldly speak out to ask for immediate prayer for her son, a soldier in Iraq, and for her to later learn that her son was supernaturally dodging a deadly bullet at that very moment.
How a woman forcefully spoke scripture to a man who was holding her at gunpoint. He suddenly turned around, walked away, and subsequently said his getting caught was a “God thing.”
How a child’s daily prayers to have a pet bird, spoken in earnest, and with faith, were answered by a stranger, out of the blue.
How a dilapidated church of twenty people, about to close its doors, spoke out together in fervent prayer and, soon thereafter, crowds came through the doors, growing it into one of the largest, most prestigious churches in America.
Story after story will confirm that when you speak a prayer to God in faith—especially when you speak it together with a partner—you can tap into a limitless reservoir of spiritual promises.
You will be astonished by evidence of how the supernatural comes into the natural, overcoming your most insurmountable obstacles, as it did with a Florida cardiologist who, after pronouncing a man dead of a heart attack, heard a voice from God telling him to speak specific words of prayer over the man.
“I prayed for the dead man and today he’s alive.”
There was stunned silence throughout the medical conference as Dr. Chauncey Crandall, the noted cardiologist, unveiled compelling evidence that he had prayed for a patient who had just died and, as the man was being prepped for the morgue, came back to life.
The renowned Florida cardiologist was speaking to 120 physicians, representing fifty countries.
“The fifty-three-year-old man had had a massive heart attack. The medical team worked on him for over forty minutes . . . then declared him dead,” said Dr. Crandall.10 Having been called in to evaluate the patient toward the end, Dr. Crandall confirmed the man was dead. The doctor turned and started to leave.
Then, something odd happened.
“The Holy Spirit told me, ‘Turn around and pray for that man.’?”
Dr. Crandall walked back to the side of the bed, noting that the man’s face, feet, and arms were completely black with death. Aloud, he prayed, “Lord Father, how am I going to pray for this man? He’s dead. What can I do?”
Then, as if by supernatural means, words moved through the doctor’s lips: “I cry out for the soul of this man if he does not know you as his Lord and Savior: raise him from the dead now, in Jesus’ name.”
Dr. Crandall told the spellbound audience at the conference that all of sudden a heartbeat showed up on the monitor. It was a perfect, normal beat, and then the man’s fingers and toes started to move and he began mumbling words!
The nurse was startled. “Doctor Crandall, what have you done to this patient?”
The doctor calmed the nurse, then rushed the patient to intensive care, where, he says, “after a couple of days, he had an amazing story to tell.”
The man told how he was in a dark place. There was no light. He felt as though he’d been thrown in the trash, worthless.
Dr. Crandall said he looked into the eyes of the man, explained the salvation message, and prayed with him. The man held out his hand and accepted Christ as his savior, as tears rolled from his eyes.
The doctor added tenderly, “You will never be thrown into the trash, into total darkness. . . . The light of the kingdom of Heaven is on you now.”
Later, it was learned that the man had been estranged from his family for twenty years, yet they had never stopped praying for him. Even his ex-wife prayed for her ex-husband to come to know the Lord.
Everyone involved—the man, Dr. Crandall, the nurse, and most of the conference attendees—will all attest: prayer works!
The Spirit helps us in our weakness.
We do not know what we ought to pray for,
but the Spirit himself intercedes . . .
with the will of God.
Dr. Crandall said, “The Holy Spirit told me to ‘turn around and to pray for that man.’?” What did he mean by that?
He was literally receiving what Jesus described to his disciples. “The Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything.”11
“Even when you don’t know the right words to pray, the Holy Spirit prays with, and for you, and God answers,” explains a concordance of the Bible.12 When that happens, “He will guide you . . . empower you, protect you and reveal things to you.”13
Evidence of that can be found in many of the stories in this book, stories about people who were guided, like Dr. Crandall, by the Holy Spirit.
It is comforting to know that the scriptures promise that the Holy Spirit is always with you to:
• warn you (Acts 20:23)
• assure you (Romans 8:16)
• convict you (John 16:8–11)
• direct you (Acts 20:22)
• guide you (Romans 8:14)
• strengthen you (Romans 8:26)
• empower you (John 16:12–15)
You can think of the Holy Spirit as your inner compass that keeps you from getting lost: your GPS—God’s Positioning System. He adjusts your position and points you in the right direction.
If you are wondering if you should take that job, marry that person, or move to a different location, the Holy Spirit is the manifestation of God within you providing guidance, sometimes with a “nudge.”
Some say that when they ask the Holy Spirit to speak to them, they will read the Bible and a particular passage will stand out as if the Bible had ears and was listening to them.
What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard,
and what no human mind has conceived . . .
these are the things God has revealed to us
by his Spirit.
—1 CORINTHIANS 2910, NIV
Consider these reasons:
• You have a deep-seated desire for something.
• You crave certainty and direction in your life.
• You secretly wish for a worry-free day.
• You’ve always wanted an incredible marriage.
• You yearn for a loving, trusting relationship with your children and family.
• Your quest to live longer and have financial security seems unattainable.
• You have a constant hurt—physical or emotional—that just won’t go away.
If you identified even one of the above, you have just given yourself abundant grounds to speak to God in prayer.
There is massive evidence—biblical and scientific—that prayer not only works, but also elevates happiness and contentment in wondrous ways.
Prayer is so important that the Bible mentions it 512 times.
Prayer is so important that Jesus did nothing without it.
Prayer is so important that it’s a command in the Ancient Scriptures.
Pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances;
for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
—1 THESSALONIANS 516, NIV
The Bible also promises that when you enter into Partnered Prayer, supernatural power expands.
Where two or three are gathered in my name
I am there among them.
—MATTHEW 18, NIV
Words take flight when spoken sincerely, believing that they will “not come back void”14 from God, and with the expectation that what you have just asked for is already done.
So shall my word be that goeth forth
out of my mouth:
it shall not return unto me void,
but it shall accomplish that which I please,
and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.
—ISAIAH 5511, KJV
Jesus said that a speck of faith—the mere size of a mustard seed—is all you need to speak out at the mountains of worry and uncertainty that loom over you. And when you say, “Move from here to there,”15 they will move!
When you speak it into existence, your prayer takes off with a supernatural lifting force, defying all reasoning of the human mind that might otherwise say that your prayers will fall to the ground. But when you expect it to be fulfilled, you can have Christ’s promise: “Nothing will be impossible to you.”16
The Bible tells us that God spoke things into being. But we’re told that we also have the power in us to speak things into being.
Really? We have that much power?
Yes. But our power isn’t in ourselves, it’s in God. Jesus tells us that there is wonder-working power when we have the faith to call upon God by speaking His words into a situation. He’s always got you covered as long as you’re resting not “on human wisdom, but on God’s power.”17
As mentioned above, Christ talked about having the faith to move mountains—meaning all the mountains in each of our lives—firmly believing that they will move when you speak to them. But this is an important distinction: so often we pray for God to move our mountains. However, the Bible tells us that God has given us the power to move mountains.
We are told, “It is with your heart that you believe . . . and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith”18 and speak your prayer.
Jesus said, “You will receive whatever you ask for in prayer, if you believe.”19 But He’s not going to do what He’s already asked you to do. And if he’s asked you to do it, He will give you His power to accomplish it.
This sheds new revelation on speaking to our problems, doesn’t it? It brings new meaning to that old hymn that says, “There is pow’r, pow’r, wonder-working pow’r . . .”20
It also confirms that we must study the Word to be enlightened about God’s plan for our lives.
When you reach out to hold the hand of another—a spouse, a family member, or a friend—doubling the power of the prayers you speak, astonishing outcomes will flow down upon you. Following are two stories that help illustrate that.
Several years ago I became the pastor of a small, nondenominational church on the island of Martha’s Vineyard off the coast of Massachusetts. Within days, my wife, Judy, and I met SQuire and Louise. A friendship began.
As we got to know them, we learned of their passion to encourage married couples to pray with one another. They had been challenging couples all across the country to take The 40 Day Prayer Challenge. SQuire and Louise believe that if a married couple covenants to pray with each other for five minutes a day, for forty days, it will develop a habit that can last a lifetime.
Knowing the importance of prayer, I decided that the members of my church, FaithMV, ought to participate in The 40 Day Prayer Challenge. I felt in my heart that if the married couples of this tiny congregation were praying with each other, their lives would be enriched and so would the church.
But . . . as a pastor, I was facing a sizable issue. Leading The 40 Day Prayer Challenge would mean that I also needed to get off the fence in my prayer life with Judy. Yikes, I said to myself, I’m a pastor and I rarely pray with my wife.
For too many years, our prayer life had been hit-or-miss. We generally prayed together only when there was a crisis or a major decision to be made. Otherwise, we prayed individually.
Of course, Judy and I prayed with our flock. We prayed at meals. But praying together was a rare experience.
I felt guilty. Although Judy and I had become one in the eyes of God when we were married, we were not becoming one in our spiritual life together. So I asked God to help me lay aside any matters of personal pride, and we accepted The 40 Day Prayer Challenge.
Almost immediately I began to experience a positive change in our relationship as we entered into the presence of God on a daily basis. I also learned that just as physical intimacy reaffirms my oneness with Judy, so does praying together.
When we pray as a couple, we are stripped bare emotionally. There is little room for pretense; we are not only communicating with God, but also with each other. I have discovered so much more about Judy as we share our prayer requests, and as I listen to her pray out loud, I hear her heart.
Many years ago, I learned that I couldn’t change Judy and she couldn’t change me. But God can change each of us if we invite Him to do so through prayer. No matter what struggles we encounter, if we keep praying together, I am certain that we’ll see circumstances turn around.
That was evident when our younger son was experiencing the consequences of a number of wrong choices. Our prayer time not only bonded Judy and me closer together, but we saw God move mightily in our son’s life, helping him reclaim his relationship with Jesus Christ.
Praying with Judy has brought God into the center of our marriage. He is the glue that holds us together, in the good times and the bad. When we are fresh out of love and patience with each other, God has an inexhaustible supply of each, ready and waiting for us to ask.
God’s grace, power, and forgiveness have helped us to make a good marriage great. Praying together has made the difference.
Through the ups and downs of forty years of marriage, Jeff and I have changed a lot for the better. We’re far from perfect—but we are living proof that by praying together, a married relationship can change.
The most obvious outcome of daily devotions and praying with each other is how wonderful our relationship has grown; it’s better than ever. We really miss it when something comes up and we can’t meet for this time.
Prayer also encourages conversation. We are more up to date with each other, individually and spiritually. As we pray, it is like we are speaking to God as well as ourselves. It’s definitely a three-way experience.
Then there is the effect we have on others because of our visible excitement and enthusiasm about prayer. We’ve started a prayer ministry in our church. A novel idea? An oxymoron? Well, even if we should have done it before, we recognize the need to get others involved and committed.
Finally, I would say that practice makes perfect. Prayer is easier and more spontaneous because we find it to be second nature.
Since we know he hears us . . .
he will give us what we ask for.
—1 JOHN 515, NIV
The highly respected founder and pastor of the Redeemer Presbyterian Church in New York City, Tim Keller, was brought to a life-changing insight by a request spoken by his wife, Kathy.21
For weeks after two planes collided with the World Trade Center on 9/11 and lowered a surreal darkness over Manhattan, Tim and Kathy—like most of us—lived in a bubble of depression. But for New Yorkers, it was much too close to home. The twisted rubble, the loss of lives, and the endless search for the remains of loved ones was but a cab ride away. Kathy’s struggle was intensified by her affliction with Crohn’s disease.
Initially, Kathy’s proposal didn’t seem nearly as momentous as it turned out to be. With almost childlike sincerity, she spoke to Tim but with the wisdom of a wife.
“My wife asked me to do something we had never had the self-discipline to do regularly. She asked me to pray with her every night. Every night,” he said.
A pastor’s busy life—like yours—is filled with people to see, things to do, problems to solve.
As Tim looked into Kathy’s eyes, unidentifiable feelings of guilt—or perhaps reluctance—streamed through his consciousness.
Kathy then supported her proposition with Godly insight. “Imagine you were diagnosed with a lethal condition and the doctor told you that you would die unless you took a particular pill every night.”
Tim was beginning to see where she was going.
“Would you forget?” she continued. “Would you not get around to it some nights? No—it would be so crucial, you wouldn’t forget, you would never miss a dose.”
Kathy’s reasoning and unpretentious logic were so clear, he was left to wonder, How could this have escaped me, a professional man of the cloth?
Kathy’s voice grew with fervor: “If we don’t pray together to God . . . we’re not going to make it. I’m certainly not. We have to pray; we can’t just let it slip our minds.”
Perhaps that moment for Tim Keller was like this very moment is for you. “The penny dropped.” He admitted anything that was “a nonnegotiable necessity” was something they could do.
That was more than thirteen years ago. Tim and Kathy now can’t recall a single day when they have missed praying together—sometimes, if necessary, by telephone. Their relationship, daily lives, and very existence have benefited from a simple concept that is redundantly uttered in the Bible and spoken by a fervent wife: pray together.
Two British researchers, Alex Bunn and David Randall,22 set out to evaluate the efficacy of prayer and faith. There had been many studies done on prayer, but it was nearly impossible to arrive at a collective conclusion. Thousands of research documents were scattered across the globe, among scholarly books, reports, and papers.
Bunn and Randall rounded up every scientific study they could get their hands on, narrowed them down to those on faith and health, and cross-referenced the results. They analyzed sixteen hundred documents, including one American study that evaluated twenty-one thousand people over a nine-year period.
The outcome was definitive: the average person of faith had a life expectancy seven years longer than that of those who didn’t have faith.
Bunn and Randall found that the majority of studies also linked faith to the following beneficial outcomes:
• well-being, happiness, and life satisfaction
• hope and optimism
• purpose and meaning in life
• higher self-esteem
• better adaptation to bereavement
• greater social support and less loneliness
• lower rates of depression
• lower rates of suicide
• less anxiety, less psychosis, and fewer psychotic tendencies
• lower rates of alcohol and drug abuse
• less delinquency and criminal activity
• greater marital stability and satisfaction
Even skeptics have to admit that sixteen hundred research documents—81 percent of which point to positive outcomes from the application of faith and prayer—are pretty compelling evidence.
Sir Isaac Newton, one of the world’s most prominent scientists of the 1600s, was also one of the most distinguished students of the Bible.
Newton’s Law of Gravity explained to the world the principle behind motion of the planets, but it was his faith that led him to conclude, “This most beautiful system of the sun, planets and comets, could only proceed from the counsel and dominion of an intelligent and powerful Being.”23
Some said Newton actually spent more time studying theology than science. That was difficult to confirm until massive writings on his extensive study of the Bible were uncovered only seventy-five years ago.
While Newton would caution that books of science and theology must not be intermingled, he firmly believed both were “bound together,” as did other scientists, such as Copernicus, Kepler, Galileo, and Pascal.24
In fact, it may be surprising to learn the number of highly accredited scientists who concur with those legendary pioneers—science and faith go hand in hand.
Francis Collins, director of the National Institutes of Health, is best known as the leader of the team who mapped the entire DNA sequence of the human body, the Human Genome Project, about which he said, “It is humbling to me . . . to realize we have caught the first glimpse of our own instruction book, known previously only to God.”25
Once an atheist, like some of his peers in the scientific community, Collins was challenged by a grandmother who asked him, “What do you believe?”26
He admitted, “I found myself with a combination of willful blindness and . . . arrogance, having avoided any serious consideration that God might be a real possibility.” After picking up the challenge—exhaustively researching theology versus science—he concluded, “Faith in God now seemed more rational than disbelief.”27
Today Collins believes that if God has created all things, including science, one does not have to choose between the two of them—they are compatible.
“I found great joy in being both a scientist studying the genome and a follower of Christ,” he says.28
Collins believes that perhaps 40 percent of the scientific community now travels a similar path of coexistence between science and theology.
Frank Tipler, professor of mathematical physics, says, “Twenty years ago I was a convinced atheist. I never in my wildest dreams imagined that one day I would be writing a book purporting to show that the central claims of Judeo-Christian theology are in fact true; that these claims are straightforward deductions of the laws of physics as we now understand them.”29
NASA’s space pioneer Wernher von Braun observes, “The knowledge that man can choose between good and evil should draw him closer to his creator.”30 Braun, a WWII German rocket scientist who surrendered to America after the war because its people were “guided by the Bible,”31 believes that man’s “survival here and hereafter depends on his adherence to the spiritual rather than the scientific.”
In making a case for a designer of the universe, Braun posited the two most powerful forces shaping our culture are science and religion. “It is as difficult for me to understand a scientist who does not acknowledge the presence of a superior rationality behind the existence of the universe as it is to comprehend a theologian who would deny the advances of science.”32
Apollo 14 astronaut Edgar Mitchell looked back from the moon and said, “When I saw the planet Earth floating in the vastness of space, the presence of divinity became almost palpable, and I knew that life in the universe was not just an accident.”33
Nobel Laureate Arno Penzias, codiscoverer of the radiation afterglow, remarks, “In the absence of an absurdly improbable accident, the observations of modern science seem to suggest an underlying, one might say, supernatural plan.”34
Astronomer Allan Sandage comments, “God, to me, is a mystery, but is the explanation for the miracle of existence—why there is something instead of nothing.”35
The Bible shows the way to go to heaven,
not the way the heavens go.36
I have a very simple acceptance of the merits of prayer: I’ve seen it work in the lives of my family, over and over again. I can recount many times when God answered my prayers affirmatively against the few times I perceived Him not answering.
I know He does answer prayers, I just don’t know how He does it.
Put simply, prayer works.
Of course, when we stop to think of it, we are surrounded by countless conveniences that work for us, every day, yet we haven’t a clue how they work.
For example, you put a cup of water in the microwave for tea, push the buttons 1-3-0, and one minute and thirty seconds later, the machine dings. It’s ready.
Do you know how that contraption made your beverage the perfect temperature?
An engineer could explain it, but most of us don’t know how. It just works.
I spent forty years making network television programs. Do I know how television sends images of people flying invisibly through the air, causing them to show up on my TV?
No. TV just works. That’s all the evidence I need.
And while I know that God causes prayer to work, I remain clueless as to how He goes about doing it.
When my life hung in the balance, as I talk about in chapter 2, prayer worked. That’s all that matters.
It had never occurred to me that there was no word in the English language for “answered prayer.”
Yet in her letter, one of my readers was using the term “godwink”—a word coined in my first When God Winks book for those “little coincidences that aren’t coincidence”—to describe her own experience of an answered prayer.
Instead of saying, “I had my prayer answered,” she simply said, “I had a godwink.”
How perfect, I thought; God was speaking to me again—this time, through my readers to help shape our understanding of the concept of godwinks.
A few days later, a confirmation—a divinely aligned godwink—entered into my awareness. I came across this quote from a famous seventeenth-century theologian and scholar:
When I pray, “coincidences” happen,
and when I don’t, they don’t.37
—SIR WILLIAM TEMPLE (1628–1699)
Sir William Temple, a highly influential and respected theological leader in his day, was validating that there indeed is a clear connection between “so-called coincidences” and prayer.
So the new word was birthed into our language and is finding its way into everyday speech and soon into dictionaries. It has two meanings:
1. An event or experience, often identified as a coincidence, so astonishing that it could only have come from God.
2. Another term for answered prayer.
The Bible tells you, “Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil.”38
Your words, delivered with sincerity and faith, are the greatest weapons in your arsenal as you put on your armor. When spoken to the Almighty, they can heal a body and pull you from the depths of despair.
Words, when passionately spoken, can also lift hearts and alter the course of a nation.
Think about the extraordinary impact of words spoken by leaders that have resonated through the years. “Ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country,”39 in the inaugural address of President John F. Kennedy, ignited encouragement. A few years later his brother Robert Kennedy inspired us with, “There are those who look at things the way they are, and ask why . . . I dream of things that never were, and ask why not?”40
Then there were the first words spoken from the moon by Neil Armstrong, ushering in a new era of space exploration: “One small step for man, one giant leap for mankind.”41
Yet no words more deeply pierced the hearts of millions and raised the hopes of everyone committed to freedom and equality than those that were improvised by Martin Luther King Jr. from the steps of the Lincoln Memorial in the summer of 1963.
The four words that provided a nation with a promissory note for healing were, “I have a dream.” But those words were not written into Dr. King’s prepared address handed out to the press.
That phrase had been uttered without prominence by MLK in two prior speeches, but on that day in DC, he had no plan to use it. How it got there, however, is quite a godwink.
As Martin Luther King Jr. looked out upon a sea of faces that were searching desperately for hope, he came to the end of a sentence that didn’t quite feel right. At that very second, he heard the voice of Mahalia Jackson rise above the crowd.
“Tell them about the dream, Martin!” she shouted out to him.42
The words left her lips and, in a millisecond, triggered something in his mind. He said in a later interview that her comment instantly reminded him of that phrase, “I have a dream,” and he said, “I just felt that I wanted to use it here.”
Without missing a beat, his next line was: “I say to you today, my friends, so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream.”
Then he began punctuating several sentences with those words, his voice rising in a slight tremor.
“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will be judged not by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.”
He stirred emotions by concluding, “This will be the day when all God’s children will be able to sing, ‘From every mountainside, let freedom ring.’?” And he closed with inspiring words from an old spiritual, “Free at last, free at last. Thank God Almighty, we are free at last.”
That speech was judged to be the very top speech of the twentieth century by a poll of public speaking scholars in 1999.
Perhaps Mahalia Jackson is but a footnote in history, but her shouting out “Tell them about the dream, Martin!” at that divinely aligned moment caused her to be a “Godwink Link” for MLK, connecting him with the words God wanted him to speak. At the end of the day, we have to wonder, was that her motivation, or was that the voice of God speaking through her?
The God of glory thunders . . .
the voice of the Lord is powerful;
the voice of the Lord is majestic.
—PSALMS 293–4, NIV
Table of Contents
Chapter 1 How Partnered Prayer Works
Speak It! Believe It! Expect It! 1
Chauncey Crandall: A Doctor's Evidence That Prayer Works 4
The Role of the Holy Spirit 6
Is There Proof Prayer Works? 8
Jeff and Judy Winter: A Pastor's Confession About Prayer 11
Tim and Kathy Keller: The Day of Wide Awakening 14
What Is the Scientific Evidence for Prayer? 16
SQuire: How Does Prayer Work? 20
SQuire: When You Pray, Godwinks Happen 21
Martin Luther King Jr.: Words Are Invisible Yet Invincible 22
Chapter 2 How to Pray
Do You Recall When Someone Taught You to Pray? 26
Do You Feel Embarrassed for Even Asking How to Pray? 27
What Words Do You Use? 28
Do You Have to Pray Out Loud? 29
SQuire: What About the Little Things? 29
Louise: Can We Pray About Anything? 30
Is There a Special Time to Pray? 31
Should We Have a Special Place to Pray? 31
How Do I Express Gratitude? 33
Is Praying with a Partner Better Than Praying Alone? 33
SQuire: Learn to Cherish Your Prayer Time 34
Al and Ceil Kasha: Breaking Through to the Morning After 36
What if You're Mad at God? 42
Cathy and Ken's Last Bike Ride 43
SQuire: Will God Hear Your Cries? 46
Louise: What if My Prayers Are Not Answered? 51
The 40 Day Prayer Challenge Begins Now 53
Chapter 3 Partnered Prayer
Reasons for Reluctance to Pray Together 57
How Do I Get My Mate to Pray with Me? 58
Leslie's Journey with Erick 59
What's the Best Thing About Praying Together? 63
Ross and Leah: Was This Our First Malfunction? 65
How Do We Start to Pray as a Couple? 67
What if Our Lives are Drifting Away from Each Other? 69
Pam and Jay's Story 70
Barb and Kermit's Story 72
Kesleigh and Chad's Story 73
Louise: Does God Listen to the Prayers of Little Kids? 77
Tim Conway: Proof That God Is Real 80
Pray Together, Stay Together 82
Praying with Younger Children 83
Praying with Older Children 85
Shelby Meksto: The Persistent Prayers of an Earnest Child 86
Pauletra Washington: Creating a Family Culture to Pray Together 89
Jim and Karen's Family Prayer Journey 90
Marian Chadwick's Bible Protection: Train Up a Child in the Ways of the Lord 94
Gloria and Dee: The Lifeline of Friends Who Pray 97
The Blessings of a Prayer Partnership 103
The Principles of Faith 104
Ten Ways to Strengthen Your Faith 105
Chapter 4 Churches That Pray Together
Jim Cymbala: What a Crazy Idea 107
Peter Vincent: The Vacation That Was Anything But 111
John Smith: A Tapestry of Miracles 118
The Role of Angels and Your Prayers 123
Tom Renfro: The Awesome Power of a Praying Church 124
Chapter 5 When Our Nation Prayed
Can an Entire Nation Benefit from the Power of Prayer? 128
The Legend of the Bulletproof George Washington 132
What a History Teacher Discovered 136
How Prayer Saved a Future President 137
Chapter 6 The Enemy is Real
Is There an Enemy Out There? 141
Basic Characteristics of the Enemy 142
How Do You Protect Yourself from the Enemy? 143
What Does God Mean by Full Armor? 144
To Fire Your Weapons: Speak It 144
How Much Power Does He Have? 145
The Profile of Jezebel 147
How Do You Identify a Jezebel Spirit? 148
The Enemy Wants You 154
Chapter 7 Hearing the Voice of God
Polly: An Urgent Voice Said, "Pray Now!" 157
Hubie Synn: You Must Trust the "Voice" 159
Louise: When God's "Voice" Is a Ticker Tape 162
Five Ways to Know It's God Speaking to You 164
The Voice Only a Mother Hears 166
A Mother's Torment for Ignoring the "Voice" 169
SQuire: Finding Him in the Godwinks of Your Life 172
A Checklist on Hearing the Voice of God 173
Chapter 8 Growing in Your Prayer Together
What's Next? 175
Reflecting on the Promises in This Book 177
The Difference Between Positive Thinking and Faith Thinking 182
Toni and David: One of the Most Amazing Godwinks 188
Our Hope for You 191
Study Guide 193
Appendix: Prayer Promises 251
Appendix: Sample Prayers 255
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
very good first two chapters but I want to know if you are a friend praying with a friend do you read the whole book together or just the chapter three that talks about friends? When do you start praying with your partner friend and about what? The book doesn't give you much instructions as to how about to do this.
We all are looking for a way to improve our prayer life, whether it is praying alone or praying together with our spouse, our children, friends, family, or a stranger. There are so many books on the market today about prayer and sometimes its hard to choose just the one you are looking for. I have read so many books on prayer but have found one about praying together that I really love, The 40 Day Prayer Challenge: Unlocking the Power of Partnered Prayer. Written by Squire Rushnell and his wife, Louise DuArt, The 40 Day Prayer Challenge, that encourages partners to pray together for just five minutes a day for 40 days. Praying together for sixteen years, Squire and Louise are offering step-by-step advice on where, when, and what words to use in praying with another person: your spouse, children, family members, friends or a stranger. They answer questions for you such as: • How do we start praying together? • Can we pray about anything? • How do I get my mate to pray with me? • Does romance get better when you pray together? • Is there scientific evidence for prayer? • What if my prayers aren’t answered? This book is designed for anyone, young or old, single or married. I highly recommend this book to all. It has helped me and I know it can help you. Thank you to Howard Books for providing me a copy of this book for my honest review.
As believers we understand the importance and power of prayer even when it seems at times that God is silent or He is preoccupied but we know He isn't. It is the greatest weapon any believer in Jesus Christ possesses and the one we often times fail to utilize until it becomes a last resort or with less than heartfelt pleas included. We often times get disillusioned with waiting on answers as if we believe we are owed an immediate and positive response time from God. The one thing that really hit home for me while dealing with multiple crises at the same time, it that waiting is the hardest thing to do but we must not give up on prayer. In the Bible, Daniel waited on an answer for prayer which was dispatched from heaven immediately but due to a spiritual war that was happening that Daniel knew nothing about, he received his answer 21 days later, even though it was answered immediately from heaven. That is not to say that all answers of prayer are impacted in the spiritual realm, but it is a reminder that waiting may be required in some cases. In others, the answers are immediate and to our liking and in yet others, the answer is not what we had hoped and we find ourselves much like Job, wondering where it all went belly up. But the greatest hope and weapon we have is prayer, constant, consistent and with a partner. This can be with your family members, your spouse, friends or an entire body of believers. When we partner in prayer, the Bible reminds us that we stand in the presence of God at that moment even though we can not see it. It is the most powerful prayer we can use in any situation and nothing is too great or too small for a prayer. In the book, the 40 Day Prayer Challenge by authors and husband and wife, SQuire Rushnell and Louise DuArt, they are reminding us about the true value and life changing things that can happen when we partner in prayer for simple 5 minutes a day for 40 days. They are sharing the results through an online survey with Baylor University's Institute for the Study of Religion to see what happens during the 40 days challenge. I know for my husband and I that began this as a couple, we didn't see much happen at first, but then we noticed that we drew closer in a way that is hard to explain other than to say we are much more spiritually stronger, pray more over everything and have seen first hands the results on answered prayer and the strong of our faith and marriage grow since doing this. I received The 40 Day Prayer Challenge by SQuire Rushnell and Louise DuArt compliments of Howard Books, a division of Simon and Schuster Publishers for my honest review. I did not receive any monetary compensation, aside from a free copy of this book, in exchange for my personal and honest evaluation. The book is broken down to help readers partner in different ways from married couples, singles with friends, family members praying together, and even small church groups or Bible study classes. There is such great resources available from Scripture references and even sample prayers to help get people started on their 40 day journey. The best part is the true life stories of how prayer has impacted the lives of those that have incorporated prayer into the lives and some have been brought back from the verge of death to be given a second chance. This is a perfect resource for those looking at how to incorporate prayer into their lives more and highlights the results of what can happen over 40 days.
The 40 Day Prayer Challenge: Unlocking the Power of Partnered Prayer is a wonderful book. It is a perfect way to help couples learn to pray together. Something every couple should learn. I think this book is a must read and I highly recommend it. 5+ stars I received this book from Howard Books and exchange for my honest opinion, which was given.
SQuire Rushnell & Louise DuArt in their new book “The 40 Day Prayer Challenge” published by Howard Books gives us Unlocking the Power of Partnered Prayer. From the inside jacket flap: From one of the beloved creators of Schoolhouse Rock and the popular GodWink series, New York Times bestselling author SQuire Rushnell teams up with his wife Louise DuArt for The 40 Day Prayer Challenge—a simple yet powerful idea that encourages partners to pray together for just five minutes a day for forty days. SQuire and Louise have practiced daily prayer together for sixteen years. Now, they offer readers step-by-step advice on where, when, and what words to use in praying with another person: be it a spouse, loved one, family member, or a friend. In a straight-forward fashion, with astonishing examples of how Partnered Prayer can restore relationships and revitalize families, countless questions are answered including: -How do we start praying together? -Can we pray about anything? -How do I get my mate to pray with me? -Does romance get better when you pray together? -Is there scientific evidence for prayer? -What if my prayers aren’t answered? In association with several prominent mega-churches and Baylor University’s Institute for the Studies of Religion, SQuire and Louise are initiating the first empirical research study ever done on the effects of prayer among two people over an extended period. The 40 Day Prayer Challenge also provides a no-cost online opportunity to participate in the ongoing study. When the fun and transformational challenge finishes at forty days, prayer partners will receive a scorecard on how well they did, and join others in experiencing the amazing, wonderful things that happen during Partnered Prayer. This book is designed for partners to develop a daily habit of speaking together with God. If we are willing to commit to as little as five minutes a day speaking with God about issues of concern and praising Him for blessings we received since yesterday the joy in our lives will expand immeasurably. No doubt about it a lot of us when we pray we do it silently and we do it alone. We need to change our praying to out loud .His promise is in the Bible: “Whatever you ask in prayer, believing, you shall receive. The authors tell us: Let’s look at the key words to opening your gift: first, to ask in prayer—through the power of the spoken word; second, to believe that God is who He says He is and can do what He says He can do; and third, to expect to receive “whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer.” There are eight chapters that focus our attention on How Partnered Prayer Works, How to Pray, The Benefits Of Prayer and Who should pray and what we should expect to happen in the Spirit Realm both pro and con. “The 40 Day Prayer Challenge” is not a time-consuming read. If we use what is being taught here correctly it will so helpful to properly channel our energies in the right direction. It is perfect to give as gifts to family and friends that they, also, will have their prayer lives expanded and thank you for it. I recommend this book highly! Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Howard Books. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”