Two spiritual giants. Five days. One timeless question.
Nobel Peace Prize Laureates His Holiness the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu have survived more than fifty years of exile and the soul-crushing violence of oppression. Despite their hardships—or, as they would say, because of them—they are two of the most joyful people on the planet.
In April 2015, Archbishop Tutu traveled to the Dalai Lama's home in Dharamsala, India, to celebrate His Holiness's eightieth birthday and to create what they hoped would be a gift for others. They looked back on their long lives to answer a single burning question: How do we find joy in the face of life's inevitable suffering?
They traded intimate stories, teased each other continually, and shared their spiritual practices. By the end of a week filled with laughter and punctuated with tears, these two global heroes had stared into the abyss and despair of our time and revealed how to live a life brimming with joy.
This book offers us a rare opportunity to experience their astonishing and unprecendented week together, from the first embrace to the final good-bye.
We get to listen as they explore the Nature of True Joy and confront each of the Obstacles of Joy—from fear, stress, and anger to grief, illness, and death. They then offer us the Eight Pillars of Joy, which provide the foundation for lasting happiness. Throughout, they include stories, wisdom, and science. Finally, they share their daily Joy Practices that anchor their own emotional and spiritual lives.
The Archbishop has never claimed sainthood, and the Dalai Lama considers himself a simple monk. In this unique collaboration, they offer us the reflection of real lives filled with pain and turmoil in the midst of which they have been able to discover a level of peace, of courage, and of joy to which we can all aspire in our own lives.
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About the Author
Desmond Mpilo Tutu, Archbishop Emeritus of Southern Africa, became a prominent leader in the crusade for justice and racial reconciliation in South Africa. He was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1984 and the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2009. In 1994, Tutu was appointed chair of South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission by Nelson Mandela, where he pioneered a new way for countries to move forward after experiencing civil conflict and oppression. He was the founding chair of The Elders, a group of global leaders working together for peace and human rights. Archbishop Tutu is regarded as a leading moral voice and an icon of hope. Throughout his life, he has cared deeply about the needs of people around the world, teaching love and compassion for all. He lives in Cape Town, South Africa. For more information please visit tutu.org.za.
Douglas Abrams is an author, editor, and literary agent. He is the founder and president of Idea Architects, a creative book and media agency helping visionaries to create a wiser, healthier, and more just world. He is also the co-founder with Pam Omidyar and Desmond Tutu of HumanJourney.com, a public benefit company working to share life-changing and world-changing ideas. Doug has worked with Desmond Tutu as his cowriter and editor for over a decade, and before founding his own literary agency, he was a senior editor at HarperCollins and also served for nine years as the religion editor at the University of California Press. He believes strongly in the power of books and media to catalyze the next stage of global evolutionary culture. He lives in Santa Cruz, California. For more information, please visit ideaarchitects.com and humanjourney.com.
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“Is joy a feeling that comes and surprises us, or is it a more dependable way of being?” I asked. “For the two of you, joy seems to be something much more enduring. Your spiritual practice hasn’t made you somber and serious. It’s made you more joyful. So how can people cultivate that sense of joy as a way of being, and not just a temporary feeling?”
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Table of Contents
The Invitation to Joy ix
Arrival: We Are Fragile Creatures 11
Day 1 The Nature of True Joy 27
Why Are You Not Morose? 29
Nothing Beautiful Comes Without Some Suffering 43
Have You Renounced Pleasure? 51
Our Greatest Joy 59
Lunch: The Meeting of Two Mischievous People Is Wonderful 67
Days 2&3 The Obstacles to Joy 81
You Are a Masterpiece in the Making 83
Fear, Stress, and Anxiety: I Would Be Very Nervous 93
Frustration and Anger: I Would Shout 101
Sadness and Grief: The Hard Times Knit Us More Closely Together 109
Despair: The World Is in Such Turmoil 115
Loneliness: No Need for Introduction 125
Envy: That Guy Goes Past Yet Again in His Mercedes-Benz 135
Suffering and Adversity: Passing through Difficulties 145
Illness and Fear of Death: I Prefer to Go to Hell 159
Meditation: Now I'll Tell You a Secret Thing 171
Days 4&5 The Eight Pillars of Joy 191
1 Perspective: There Are Many Different Angles 193
2 Humility: I Tried to Look Humble and Modest 203
3 Humor: Laughter, Joking Is Much Better 215
4 Acceptance: The Only Place Where Change Can Begin 223
5 Forgiveness: Freeing Ourselves from the Past 229
6 Gratitude: I Am Fortunate to Be Alive 241
7 Compassion: Something We Want to Become 251
8 Generosity: We Are Filled with Joy 263
Celebration: Dancing in the Streets of Tibet 277
Departure: A Final Goodbye 291
Joy Practices 307
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
I just finished this book. This book has the makings to be a classic that we all could benefit one. I am definitely giving this as a gift to the readers in my family. I'd also recommend "When God Stopped Keeping Score" which takes tackles the difficult topic of God and forgiveness. I never cried so much reading a book because the words were so true from start to finish.
This book is very encouraging and uplifting to my spirit and it is a wonderful contrast to our strident political environment .
Uplifting lessons from two of the greatest people gracing our world. Truly well titled.
I read this book while going through a hard break up and it made me realize the importance of forgiving. It showed me how my pain and suffering diminishes when I focus on loving and giving to others. I loved it so much a purchased 3 copies to share with friends.
I just feel better after reading this book
A truly important book about how to face life's greatest challenges and still learn how to become a better person. I have bought at least seven copies of it so far to share with people in my life and all have felt that this book changed their lives.
I stayed up into the wee hours of the morning to finish this novel. I had intended to savor this novel, to read it slowly and reflect upon different sections as I read it but no, I couldn’t stop myself. Once I started reading, I was immersed into this wonderful reunion in which these two powerful individuals talked openly about humanity, they shared of themselves and the world around them. The reunion was held in the home of Dalai Lama and during their visit they also celebrated his 80th birthday. These two highly influential men have met a handful of times before and they were meeting for five days to discuss what true joy was, how to achieve it and what the Eight Pillars of Joy were. I enjoyed this novel tremendously, I enjoyed the humor and the tenderness that they shared between them. The way they joked with one another, the patting of each other after a humorous chuckle, the holding of each other’s hands and just waiting for the other person to speak, spoke volumes for the love and respect that they had for one another. It is a treasured friendship, one that is picked up immediately upon seeing one another and it brought smiles and laughs from the individuals that they were around including myself as I read. What I read intrigued me and enlightened me and I know that I will have to reread this novel to fully appreciate it. The reason this novel is so important now is that the world is hurting, in every part of the globe there are individuals who are struggling and need to find joy. There is no need for sorrow, they both agree on this. They both agree that individuals need each other to find joy and the concept behind joy. These great leaders go into great details, humorous at times, about these concepts and it was interesting, their ideas and the stories that they share, both personal and about others. Douglas probes them deeper into their thoughts about humanity exploring issues such as sadness, acceptance, gratitude, compassion and humility. There were lots of different subjects, stories and these leaders shared their views openly and I appreciated Douglas’ effort and the heartfelt responses that he received in return. My eyes started to cloud over, the tears streaming down my cheeks as the Archbishop gets ready to depart for the airport. Their time together is over for now. The jokes, the hand holding and the way that they smiled at one another is coming to an end. They are both fighting for peace, they are both getting up there in years, one is battling an illness, and one is restricted in where he can travel, who knows if they will ever see each other in-person again and they know this. This is a novel that should be read, one that should be reflected upon for there are many inspirations and views inside.
The author of this book does an excellent in writing the account of the several days with these two great figures. I found it was interesting that they were such dear friends. They have impish humor and delightful joy; their perspectives are humbling. This is a book that I will read time and again.
With humor and humility, Archbishop Tutu and the Dalai Lama discuss the pillars of true joy, providing insight and reflections for individual (and potentially global) happiness.