The Dinner

The Dinner

by Herman Koch
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The Dinner 3.2 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 249 reviews.
Fester More than 1 year ago
I found this book to be a compelling page-turner, beautifully written. I found it interesting that nearly all of the characters were horrible, self-serving, and unlikable - most stories feature a "good guy" or hero to serve as foil to the villan. I think this is the best book I have read in a long time, much better even than the highly accaimed "Gone Girl" which is currently on the best-seller list.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book was horrible, but I couldn't put it down. I felt like I was waiting for more to happen, but the writer "hid" everything that would have made this book more interesting. In the end, I felt like reading this book was a complete waste of time. There was so much potential too, but everything felt under developed. There were too many "fillers" with the overly done descriptions of Paul's surroundings, to the point where it started to get annoying.  I wouldn't recommend this book, but you don't have to take my word for it.
kalevala More than 1 year ago
The characters appear normal and end up, without giving away the ending, totally bizarre and dysfunctional. The narrator/father Paul initially appears as a common, well-adjusted middle class parent. would love to ask the author if he intentionally presented Paur as unfeeling, cruel, cold, violent facist who feels some persons do not deserve to live because they are weak, poor, a burden to society. Paul himself is diagnosed as mentally ill. Was he commenting on contemporary society? There is just a lot going on including family ties, genetics, societial values. I didn't see it as just a book about families and protecting children. I read this book in several days and didn't want to put it down. A very enjoyable, edgy book. The dinner setting for most of the book was interesting.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
One of best books for 2013, this one is a number 1 in the category "You can run, but you can't hide". Think of it as 'Fight Club' but then in an Amsterdam restaurant. To be read on a nice & quiet beach.
mysterygirlSC More than 1 year ago
This had to be one of the most boring books I have read in a long time. There wasn't one character that endeared themselves to me, all of them IMHO were boorish, self serving, dull and egotistical. The only one who almost redeemed himself was Serg but in the end was no better than the rest. I could have put up with the characters if the writing had not been dull as well. If I had purchased the book instead of the nook version, I would have returned it to Barnes & Noble after the 1st couple of chapters. I don't remember ever having given any book I read less than 3 stars but if I available I would have given this one a negative !
SheWhoShall More than 1 year ago
Wow. Wooooow. This book is ridiuclously well-written. Intense, rich, suspense spun continually throughout..I couldn't put it down. The content will make you shake your head a few times, and reconsider leaving the house. The beauty is in (Spolier Alert) the duality of a couple that seems so first. Wowza. Paul's brutal self-awareness and keen observation is really the key to the story. Just a scathing story.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I don't want to give too much away. But, if you liked We Need To Talk About Kevin, then you will enjoy this emotionally stirring read.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
It was so-so. Doesn't live up to the hype though. And not sure why people would even mention "the Dinner" and "Gone Girl" in the same sentence. No comparison, as the latter is a dark masterpiece.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I wish i never bought this e-book! I kept reading, hoping it would get better. It never did! Aming othet things the author would start describing somethhing, then say "I won't tell you this or that". If you don't wajt to tell us details, don't write a book! Annoying to say the least!
Dzina More than 1 year ago
Had difficulty putting this book down as I wanted to know the outcome.  I imagine there are more parents than we know dealing with the less than pleasant behavior of the child which  has then been shared with the world on social media.   This book gives one view of how a child's inappropriate behavior can have a impact on an entire family.  Certainly there are some lessons to be learned in this day of modern technology aw well as demonstrating how a child's behavior and moral compass can be a reflection of that which is seen in the parent.
SuseNJ More than 1 year ago
For the intelligent reader who appreciates subtleties.... A great psychological thriller, wonderful writing.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
The premise is enticing. How far would you go to save your child? I found the beginning quite amusing. Paul's conjectures about the people he sees are hilarious. His observations of the restaurant manager and that darn pinky made me laugh a lot. I liked his detailed descriptions of the food, felt like you were there in the restaurant with him. As the story progresses, it gets dark and serious. Suspenseful as you dont know whats going to happen! I enjoyed this book.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I bought this book after reading the premise, solve a mystery while sitting down for one 4 course dinner in a prestigious restaurant. Sounded like an interesting twist on a mystery. I was disappointed in the overall execution. The underlying story is good, but I felt the round about way the author got there was tedious. Paul Lohman is the character that narrates the story, he is a man who hates everything and at times I wanted to say 'quit whining and get on with it'.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I had a blast reading this book. It gave an insight to a life style and raised questions to serious isses. What would you have done?
Katie_CA More than 1 year ago
This book is so ordinary and then so upsetting at the same time. magnificent writing. i'm physically sick after reading it, but that is a good thing! very powerful
MaryLouH More than 1 year ago
I read this book but only finished it because, when I have the time I try to finish no matter how bad it is ... and this was bad ... i kept hoping, searching for something that would redeem the characters - any of them but in the end it didn't happen ... the whole premise of this "dinner" was fairly idiotic and unimaginable .. add on top of that the despicable personalities of the characters - and not in a good, interesting way, just made this book a HUGE disappointment and waste of time
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book was a bit slow throughout and was hard to follow at times.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This is a great story about a family facing a life changing problem. Two brothers and their wives meet for dinner to discuss the problem and how they will handle it. During the evening we get a look at the back story. The sibling riverly and the other issues that have come up with the families in the past. I have to admit for me it was a little slow and I really had to be in the mood to get into it, but it was well worth it!! Parts of the explanaition at the time seemed to drag on and was meaningless, but in the end it was all needed to fully understand the decision the adults make and the actions of their children. "Secrets didn't get in the way of happiness." This one line from the book really made me think. Can secrets get in the way of happiness in a family?  SBMorales
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I thought the framing/structure was sophisticated and novel, and the characterization believable, and the prose well-written. However, I didn't find it that suspenseful (do not be fooled by reviews referring to this as the "European Gone Girl"... it was similar to Defending Jacob in theme and plot (although Defending Jacob was better). I did not really like the book... this must be a new literary trend of using a completely unreliable narrator and making all the characters un-likable, as most books we have read lately in my book club reflect that practice! I loved Gone Girl by the way, which when I read a review of The Dinner saying it was similar to that, was what made me want to read this.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I haven't had this much trouble finishing a book in a long time. Every time I thought I couldn't take it any more, the author would thow me just enough info to get me to keep reading. Yes, the book is very thought-provoking; however, it moves very slowly. I kept wanting to scream "Just Get To The Point!!" The story line begs the question of how far would you go to protect your child. It is a hot topic, but there seemed to be no one in the story with any redeemable qualities. I disliked all of the characters (right down to the awful waiter with the horrible pointing pinky finger). The only person that wanted to do the right thing wanted to do it for all the wrong reasons. I definitely hated the ending, for no one got what they deserved. I also found it very hippocritical that what the main character felt about people and justice was excused for his son. Again, no one had any redeemable qualities in this book. As for the issue of mentally ill people? Being mentally ill does not give anyone the right to behave in this way and when they do, the worst harm you could do as a parent is to completely ignore bad behavior. So, not the best read ever. It does give you something to think about. However, it did drag quite a bit. I am not sorry I paid for it, or read it; but I don't think I will be looking for anything else by this author. This one kind of left me with a bad taste in my mouth. -- SPeeD
Aml More than 1 year ago
It is an interesting concept to have the story focused around one evening's dinner. The story line wasn't what I had expected, but ok.
Anonymous 29 days ago
I have also read another book by Koch (I can't recall the exact title, but maybe Houses with Swimming Pools -?-), which I liked more. I see that there are some negative reviews, which I suppose I am not surprised about; I imagine not everyone can appreciate the dark humor, the moral questions, or the development of characters who are not exactly *lovable* in the traditional sense. If you can appreciate those things, however, and if you like a story that makes you think, you will enjoy this book. If you saw the movie, know that the book is worth reading and has a far better ending.
Anonymous 10 months ago
Excellent read.
smg5775 11 months ago
Paul and Claire meet his brother, Serge and his wife Babette, for dinner one evening to talk about their children. Serge is running for Prime Minister and wants to do damage control. The other three have other ideas. The story is told in flashbacks of the relationships and events of Paul's life. I liked Paul but I never warmed to most of the characters. I have a lot of questions for them. This is probably a book I would never have picked up on my own had it not been for my book club. There is a lot to discuss and think about in this book. How do people make the choices they do? Very thought provoking and timely.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
The structure of the book is good -- dividing the narration into the courses of a gourmet dinner. With each course, we learn more about the 2 families who meet at a tony restaurant to discuss a family problem. What to believe? Who to trust, or even like?