Publishers Weekly
01/15/2024
“Within the boundaries we resent there is a life that is limitless,” according to this gentle and lyrical outing from Hagerty (Adore). As a strapped-for-time mom of seven, the author realized that focusing on all she couldn’t do kept her from appreciating such moments as “how the sun hits the crown of my baby girl’s head in spring” and “tasting how caramelized onions make a dish that much better.” Describing how she sought to put her trust in God that “what is within reach... is going to be good,” Hagerty invites readers to savor their own everyday blessings; embrace their fallibility (“I settle into being a mother to seven whose needs I can’t all meet... rather than resisting or building a life, a schedule, or plan against it”); and accept the presence of grief, because “what we want to erase and move past and overcome, God often wants to walk through with us.” Hagerty gracefully challenges the notion “that we can be in more than one place at once and have it all,” and readers will be especially affected by her raw insights into parenting four adopted children (“I welcome the whisper into my heart, You were never meant to be enough for them. No parent is”). This will be a balm to Christians who feel overextended. (Mar.)
Phylicia Masonheimer
'If you find yourself wishing things were like they used to be, longing for what could have been, or hoping for a change in what lies ahead, Sara's is the voice you need. She puts words to the inner cry of a burdened heart, articulating what we all know but can't accept: we are limited, and we wish we weren't. This book will lift your eyes to the goodness of the boundaries we didn't choose and show you how to live fully behind your fences.'
actress; author; producer Alexa Pena Vega
'After reading part 1 of Sara's book I sat and wept. Finallywords to feelings that I have not been able to describe. This book has been healing, eye-opening, and such a blessing to my life. We all need to read this book.'
Jeannie Cunnion
'Through masterful storytelling, Sara helps us see how a limitation is actually an invitation to experience God's presence and provision in a profound way. After reading this beautiful book, you will no longer see the constraints in your life as things that grievously hold you back but rather as gifts that graciously hold you within the boundary lines of God's best for you. Sara shows us it is truly possible to embrace our limitations and live freely and fully in God's love within them.'
Alisa Keeton
''God has a purpose in our limits.' As a woman called to share the gospel in the 'get better, faster, and stronger' world of health and fitness, I wish someone had taught me this kind of head-scratching, wonderful truth. My aging body wishes it knew then, when it was younger, what Sara is teaching us now. In this book, Sara does what she does best: give us cause to see a limitless God and His wonderous ways while feeling normal when constrained by endless piles of laundry, missing socks, and lost dreams. By the time your fingers turn the last page, you will know God's kindness in what appears to be weak and out of reach.'
Lisa Jacobson
'With a deft and discerning hand, Sara Hagerty uses beautiful prose to paint for us the landscape of our lives. Which of us can honestly say that our days are not filled with stuff we would never choose for ourselves? And yet Sara gently helps us view life's roadblocks, setbacks, heartbreaks, and hardshipsour limitationsfrom the divine perspective. No matter your challenges or season of life, I believe you'll find new hope and genuine encouragement throughout this book. It certainly deeply impacted me.'
Katie Davis Majors
'This book cracked my soul wide open and gave words to the unnamed but ever-present longings of my heart in this season. This book is for the dreamers, the fixers, the goal setters. This one is for the ever-hopeful and the cynic alike. This one is for all of us who are longing for a deeper look at His face and His heart. Sara gently asks the prodding questions that my heart needed to be drawn closer to Him. She is a wise guide on our journey deeper into His heart.'
Alyssa Bethke
'I couldn't put this book down. I found myself squeezing in a chapter or a page as often as I could throughout my days, feeling as though it were water in a desert, feeling my heart rate slow and my mind rest and my soul become renewed. Sara beautifully reflects God's heart throughout these pages, calling us to come, to be curious, to be gentle with ourselves as we learn to settle into God's pace and His goodness in our lives, no matter our story or pains. This is a must-read for any believer.'
Jodie Berndt
'What would it look like to believetruly believethat the boundary lines of your life have fallen in pleasant places? With the wisdom of a seasoned tour guide and the empathy of a trusted friend, Sara Hagerty takes us by the hand and shows us how to exchange our thoughts and ideals for God's so that, instead of being a burden, our limitations become a wondera wonder-full part of our stories. Sara is one of the most gifted writers of our day, and this is the transformational book your soul has been longing to read.'
Gary Thomas
'This book is a lyrical masterpiece. Every paragraph reads like a poem, captivating in its truth and beauty. So many books tell us we can do more and be more; Sara suggests spiritual health may be found when we accept less and perhaps even do less. Rather than seeing our limitations as something to overcome, she eloquently makes the case that our limitations aren't just gifts from God but a reflection of God in the flesh. Beautiful.'
From the Publisher
'Even before I read the first word of this book, I began recommending it, because I know Sara. Her vocabulary reminds me of my mentor and hero, Elisabeth Elliot, who also used the words surrender, loss, and gift. Like her, Sara has walked through deep waters and, by not rushing ahead, has discovered more of God in the murky darkness. This book is an invitation to live in the messiness of losses and to find there the surprising joy of Immanuel, God with you, giving you gifts in your limitations. Like Sara, this book is a rich, deep well. Be fed. Be nourished.' Barbara Rainey, author; artist; mom to six; 'Mimi' to twenty-seven 'Sarah has the rare gift of sharing, with brutal honesty, her own struggles while leading us gently into both the mystery and the surprising joy that limitations can bring into our lives. Her book brought me into a new place of resting in God's arms. I treasured every word.' Susan Alexander Yates, speaker; blogger; bestselling author, Risky Faith, The One Devotional, and Cousin Camp 'Through masterful storytelling, Sara helps us see how a limitation is actually an invitation to experience God's presence and provision in a profound way. After reading this beautiful book, you will no longer see the constraints in your life as things that grievously hold you back but rather as gifts that graciously hold you within the boundary lines of God's best for you. Sara shows us it is truly possible to embrace our limitations and live freely and fully in God's love within them.' Jeannie Cunnion, bestselling author, Mom Set Free and Don't Miss Out