Jack Moser has been working with men and the male journey for over 20 years. The essential element for men in seeking female companionship is verbal intimacy. This book takes this element and looks at it from the vantage point of various types of males, from verbal controllers to passive-aggressive men. It is set in the context of Dr. Moser's spiritual journey as he begins and ends each chapter with a page from his 18-year journal entries. Dr. Moser includes his life story from the automobile death of his first-born son to his "snatch operations" against the Viet Cong in Vietnam. This is a book that teaches, reveals by life's examples and gives us a plan of how to get to verbal intimacy as the prime factor in relationships.