The Pegging Book: A Complete Guide to Anal Sex with a Strap-On Dildo

by Cooper S. Beckett, Lyndzi Miller, Tristan Taormino (Foreword by)

Overview

In the beginning, there was no name for it. The act was lumped in with general anal sex and general strap-on sex. But perhaps seeing a hole that needed filling, an online contest was held to name the act. When the dust had settled, the word was clear and the world was changed. Pegging: A sex act in which the pegger anally penetrates the pegee with a strap-on dildo. Authors Cooper S. Beckett and Lyndzi Miller tackle all you've ever wanted to know about pegging. How do we do it? What are the right tools for the job? Does it actually feel good? I'm a straight guy, will pegging make me gay? They answer these questions and also talk about safety, male anatomy and the health benefits of being pegged. Beckett and Miller guide you through your experimentation with this most excellent act in a friendly and conversational fashion, showing you an in-depth look between the cheeks.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781778242090
Publisher:	Thornapple Press
Publication date:	10/14/2022
Pages:	216
Sales rank:	412,097
Product dimensions:	5.00(w) x 7.00(h) x 0.60(d)

About the Author

Lyndzi Miller has been a sexual educator at The Tool Shed: An Erotic Boutique since 2012, and is its current assistant manager. She established the Milwaukee Poly Group in 2008, facilitating discussion and support group meetings every month since. She also hosts the bi-weekly podcast Polyamory Uncensored, on which she interviews ethically non-monogamous folks on their polyamorous journeys. She is an avid knitter, a mother, a burlesque dancer, and a huge geek. Tristan Taormino is an award-winning author, columnist, sex educator, speaker, media maker, and podcast host. She is the author of eight books and editor or co-editor of 25 anthologies. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world, is the host and executive producer of the long running podcast Sex Out Loud, and is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program. She runs a coaching and consulting business for sexuality professionals. Queer, non-monogamous writer Cooper S. Beckett began his writing career as a podcaster as host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast and a speaker in the sexuality education community. He wrote My Life on the Swingset, a memoir of his first five years in non-monogamy, then followed that up with two novels, A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching the Swingularity. He lives in Chicago with Elle, his wife, constant, and binary star; Egon, their ghost terrier; and their black cat, Willow.

Table of Contents

Foreword: Welcome to the Revolution
Introduction: New Book, Who Dis?
Content Notes
What Is Pegging?
Why Call It Pegging?
Other Verbiage
Anatomy
An Owner’s Guide to the Male Reproductive System
The P- Spot vs. the G- Spot
Why Pegging Is Awesome
Benefits of Exploration
What If It Makes Me Gay?
Role Reversal: Understanding Different Points of View
What If I Don’t Like It?
Is Pegging a Kink?
The Prostate Orgasm
It Won’t Stop: The Epic Prostate Orgasm
Other Thoughts on Prostate Orgasms
The Leaking Prostate
But What About …?
Social Stigma
Media Representations of Pegging
Internalized Misogyny and Fragile Masculinity
The Anal Shame Effect
Physical Limitations
Easing In
Communication
External Prostate Massage
Spit Is Not Lube
On Your Back
Address the Anus
Go for Insertion
And Now…Pegging
What of the Penis?
Best Pegging Positions
Aftercare
Health Benefits
Safety and Comfort
Does It Hurt?
Hugs, Not Drugs
Do You Dig My Flare?
Shit Happens
Safer Sex
What’s in It for Me?
Beyond the Peg
Tit for Tat
Mistress Peggy
Fucking Pleasure
What If They Don’t Come?
Best Tools for the Job
Where to Buy
Harnesses/Straps
Dildos
Lubes
Positioning Aids
The Giving Revolution
Index

What People are Saying About This

sex and cultural critic - Ella Dawson

“The Pegging Book is more than a sex guide. It’s a smart and compassionate exploration of pegging as a cultural and sexual practice. Cooper and Lyndzi hold the reader’s hand through an intimidating sexual act with the kindness and tact of a cool friend. This book will reframe your entire concept of what sex should look and feel like beyond PIV penetration. It tackles every question a beginner might have: What does a prostate orgasm feel like? What kind of strap-on should I buy? And, gasp, does getting pegged make you gay? The Pegging Book is a necessary addition to every sex-positive reader’s library.”

writer, podcaster, and kink educator - Rebecca E. Blanton

“The Pegging Book is a wonderful addition to sex ed literature! As an act, pegging has gained popularity among people of all genders, sexual orientations, and ages. It is great to finally have a single resource which teaches how to peg as well as gives it cultural context and history. Beckett and Miller have done justice to a topic which goes so much deeper than a titillating headline! In addition to great content, the book is beautifully illustrated and provides readers with a solid understanding of anatomy and pleasure centers. This is a must-buy for any person looking to understand how to peg or the act’s cultural significance.”

sex educator and author of The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having - JoEllen Notte

"Cooper and Lyndzi have created the smart, fun, accessible guide to pegging that we needed. Whether you are curious or already a pegging pro, this is a worthwhile addition to your sex ed book collection."

Editorial Reviews

"A thoughtful, thorough job at exploring all the nuance and complexity (and fun) this kind of sex has to offer, in a way that’s sex-positive, holistic, and very accessible, like talking to a couple of friends who also happen to be experts." —Tristan Taormino, author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women and other books, sex educator, and creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp

"Cooper and Lyndzi have created the smart, fun, accessible guide to pegging that we needed. Whether you are curious or already a pegging pro, this is a worthwhile addition to your sex ed book collection." —JoEllen Notte, Sex educator and author of TheMonster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having

"This is a must-buy for any person looking to understand how to peg or the act's cultural significance." —Rebecca E. Blanton, Writer; podcaster; kink educator

"A smart and compassionate exploration of pegging as a cultural and sexual practice, The Pegging Book is a necessary addition to every sex-positive reader’s library."—Ella Dawson. sex and cultural critic 

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