Table of Contents
Part 1 - You're Here
Chapter 1: I Understand
Chapter 2: An Invitation to Walk with Me
Chapter 3: The Me I'd Never Noticed
Chapter 4: Ignorant, Not Innocent
Chapter 5: Emotional Intelligence vs. Emotional Sobriety
Chapter 6: Emotional Belligerence
Chapter 7: Emotional Sobriety Training
Part 2 - Anatomy of Emotional Insobriety
Chapter 8: Early-Age Trauma
Chapter 9: Biochemical Addiction
Chapter 10: Trauma-Influenced Self-Beliefs
Chapter 11: Trauma Filters
Chapter 12: Emotionally-Triggered Behaviors
Chapter 13: Intoxicated (Traumatized) Identity
Chapter 14: CASE STUDIES: Trauma Filters & ETBs
Chapter 15: Finding Your ETBs
Chapter 16: What Am I Actually Feeling? What Am I Actually Doing? And Why?
Chapter 17: Anatomy of Emotional Insobriety
Part 3 - The You You've Been Being
Chapter 18: Remodeling (De)Fences
Chapter 19: Outgrowing Childishness
Chapter 20: Escaping Jealousy
Chapter 21: Freeing the Self
Chapter 22: Releasing the Critic
Chapter 23: Getting R.E.A.L.
Chapter 24: Checking Motive!
Chapter 25: CASE STUDIES: Emotions
Chapter 26: Are You Ready For Change?
Part 4 - The You You've Never Noticed
Chapter 27: Ready for Change
Chapter 28: Desire, Intention, Action
Chapter 29: R.E.A.Life Investigation
Chapter 30: A Taste of Freedom
Chapter 31: Pattern Recognition
Chapter 32: Humility: The Secret Ingredient to Your Healing
Part 5 - Choosing the New You
Chapter 33: You Have a Choice
Chapter 34: Fighting to Stay the Same
Chapter 35: Choosing Your Self
Chapter 36: Assembling Your New Identity
Part 6 - Being the New You
Chapter 37: Making Repairs
Chapter 38: Familiar Energy Crisis
Chapter 39: You Are Not Alone
Chapter 40: Merciful Lessons
Chapter 41: The You You've Never Met
Back Matter
Afterword: Evolution of Emotional Sobriety
Author's Notes
Glossary of Terms
Endnotes
Acknowledgements
About the Author