Thriving in Love and Money: 5 Game-Changing Insights about Your Relationship, Your Money, and Yourself

Thriving in Love and Money: 5 Game-Changing Insights about Your Relationship, Your Money, and Yourself

by Shaunti Feldhahn, Jeff Feldhahn

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Overview

Over 90 percent of couples experience some level of tension around money. In fact, money issues are the number one stressor in relationships. So many books try to fix the surface problems, such as how to budget and what to prioritize when it comes to finances, but the issues go much deeper than just a simple spreadsheet.

How do men and women view money differently? What do most couples fight about? How can they get on the same page? What questions should men/women ask their significant others before marriage? There are emotional and spiritual components to finances that most couples ignore. How can you agree on a budget if you disagree with each other on the basic purpose of money?

Thriving in Love and Money
is based on original research Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have conducted to get to the heart of these issues. And just as they did with their bestselling books For Women Only and For Men Only, they will use this research to provide the answers and insights you need to break the tension and provide the unity you're looking for. Let this book deepen your understanding of each other, leading to clear communication, peace as a couple, and better financial decision-making.
Also available: video curriculum and workbook.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781493423026
Publisher: Baker Publishing Group
Publication date: 03/03/2020
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: NOOK Book
Pages: 256
Sales rank: 709,011
File size: 7 MB

About the Author

Both with graduate degrees from Harvard, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn are bestselling authors, popular speakers, and internationally renowned social researchers. Their books have sold three million copies in twenty-five languages. Shaunti has worked on Wall Street and Capitol Hill. Jeff is an attorney and entrepreneur. They live in Atlanta with their two teenagers. Follow Shaunti at www.shaunti.com.
Shaunti Feldhahn (www.shaunti.com) is a best-selling author, popular speaker, and nationally-renowned social researcher. Fifteen years ago she and her husband, Jeff, stumbled over some things they just didn't "get" about each other. They have used their analytical background to help other semi-confused couples decode each other ever since. Shaunti has a graduate degree from Harvard, and she and Jeff are the authors and co-authors of many groundbreaking books, such as For Women Only and For Men Only.

As the primary researcher, Shaunti is always in the middle of her next research project. The Feldhahns have two children and live in Atlanta, Georgia.
Jeff Feldhahn is a best-selling author, popular speakers,and nationally-renowned social researcher. Fifteen years ago he and his wife, Shaunti, stumbled over some things they just didn't "get" about each other. They have used their analytical background to help other semi-confused couples decode each other ever since. Jeff has a graduate degree from Harvard, and he and Shaunti are the authors and co-authors of many groundbreaking books, such as For Women Only and For Men Only.

Jeff is an attorney-entrepreneur who is always in the middle of his next technology company start-up. The Feldhahns have two children and live in Atlanta, Georgia.

Table of Contents

1 It's Not About the Money 13

How we woke up to what really matters-and you can too

2 A Daily Problem, a Simple Solution 29

Why talk may be cheap-but is also the most valuable thing you can do

3 Can't Buy Me Love 49

Why my reasonable wants and your ridiculous wants often leave us wanting

4 Things That Go Bump in the Night 79

How we use money to fight our fears and worries-and end up spooking our partner instead

5 Show Me the Money-and Then Let Me Handle It 123

Why our tendency toward independence may not be so liberating after all

6 What We Have Here Is a Failure to Communicate 157

How different ways of thinking and listening cause conflict instead of connection

7 I'm Right, You're Wrong, What's the Problem? 189

How our knee-jerk reactions keep us from seeing the truth

8 The Best Return 221

How your investment in understanding will pay off

Acknowledgments 231

A Love and Money Conversation Model 237

Appendixes Dr. Charles Cowan, published online at shaunti.com/research:

Appendix 1 Methodology: How We Did the Research 241

Appendix 2 A First Look at What Most Prevents Money Tensions 243

Notes 245

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