This comprehensive first of its kind guidebook explores the unique challenges that thousands of families face every day raising their children in every city and state. Through extensive research and interviews, as well as years of experience working in the field, the authors cover gender variance from birth through college. What do you do when your toddler daughter's first sentence is that she's a boy? What will happen when your preschool son insists on wearing a dress to school? Is this ever just a phase? How can you explain this to your neighbors and family? How can parents advocate for their children in elementary schools? What are the current laws on the rights of transgender children? What do doctors specializing in gender variant children recommend? What do the therapists say? What advice do other families who have trans kids have? What about hormone blockers and surgery? What issues should your college-bound trans child be thinking about when selecting a school? How can I best raise my gender variant or transgender child with love and compassion, even when I barely understand the issues ahead of us? And what is gender, anyway? These questions and more are answered in this book offering a deeper understanding of gender variant and transgender children and teens.
|Publisher:||Start Publishing, LLC|
|Product dimensions:||5.50(w) x 8.40(h) x 0.90(d)|
About the Author
Stephanie A. Brill is the founder of Gender Spectrum Education and Training which provides education, resources and training to create a more gender sensitive and supportive environment for all children. She founded and runs the Children's Hospital Oakland Support Group for parents of gender variant and transgender children and teens. She also co-produces a national conference, Gender Odyssey Family, for families with gender variant and transgender children. She lives in Oakland, CA.
Rachel Pepper holds a Masters in Counseling in Community Mental Health and is currently working towards licensure as a Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in the care of the LGB, transgender and gender variant communities. Her clinical skills are in demand in both the LGBT mental health field and as an eating disorder specialist. Rachel also holds a Masters in Journalism and is the author or co-author of three previous books including The Transgender Child: A Handbook for Families and Professionals and The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians, both published by Cleis, as well as the Gay and Lesbian Guide to College Life, published by the Princeton Review. An experienced public speaker and events planner, Rachel has organized symposia, presented at conferences, and held workshops throughout the country on LGBT health and mental health related issues. She previously was the coordinator of the LGBT Studies program at Yale University.
Table of Contents
Foreword Dr. Norman Spack IX
Is My Child Transgender? 1
Family Acceptance: From Crisis to Empowerment 39
Developmental Stages and the Transgender Child 61
Start Where You Are: Moving from Damaging to Effective Parenting Practices 73
Transition Decisions: When Should I Let My Child Live as Their Preferred Gender? 113
Disclosure: Whom to Tell, How, Why, and When 125
The Educational System and Your Family 153
Medical Issues for Transgender Children 193
Legal Issues to Consider 229
Who Will Be Role Models for Our Children? 245
Sample Doctor's Letters 247
About the Authors 251
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
Stephanie Brill does an amazing job of detailing so many things that people need to know about gender variant and transgender children. This publication is an excellent tool for anyone who is the educator, medical professional, coach, grandparent, or parent of a transgender child, or for anyone who works with children.
Very well written and informative. I feel better prepared for how to move forward with this journey.