Truth, Lies, and the Single Woman

Truth, Lies, and the Single Woman

by Allison K Flexer
Truth, Lies, and the Single Woman

Truth, Lies, and the Single Woman

by Allison K Flexer


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Single women are neither unloved nor forgotten.Truth, Lies, and the Single Woman: Dispelling 10 Common Myths combats the lies that destroy the joy and confidence of unmarried women.In her groundbreaking book, Allison K. Flexer dispels myths surrounding single women, including: 'Because no one has chosen me, I'm not valuable.''Why am I still single? There must be something wrong with me.''I'm not beautiful.''God has forgotten about me.''My past can't be forgiven.'The battle of replacing lies with truth is one that's common to all Christians, regardless of marital status. Allison shares her experiences from decades as a single woman and addresses 10 specific lies unmarried women may encounter. To offset lies, we can turn to God and believe his Word for truth.You'll learn why Allison says the question, 'Who am I?' is best answered by asking, 'Who is God?' Through Scripture, advice from other women, and even a survey of single men, you will be challenged to reject lies, embrace your value, and gain a deeper understanding of the character of God.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780834133631
Publisher: Beacon Hill PR
Publication date: 10/01/2014
Pages: 160
Product dimensions: 5.40(w) x 8.40(h) x 0.50(d)

About the Author

Allison K. Flexer was a contributing author to Devotional Ventures, and Fulfilled: The NIV Devotional Bible for the Single Woman, to be released by Zondervan in March 2014. Her articles can be seen in VISTA: Journal for Holy Living, on, and on She blogs about seeking God's grace in everyday moments at

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments 9

Author's Note 11

Introduction 13

Lie #1 Because no one has chosen me, I'm not valuable 15

Lie #2 God has forgotten about me 27

Lie #3 Sex outside of marriage is okay 40

Lie #4 My past can't be forgiven 53

Lie #5 I'm not beautiful 65

Lie #6 Getting married will solve all my problems 78

Lie #7 There is something wrong with me 90

Lie #8 The church values married people more than me 102

Lie #9 It's too late for me, so I should settle 114

Lie #10 My life is on hold until I find a spouse 124

Conclusion 137

Bonus Sections 139

Single Men Respond 141

A Prayer for the Single Woman 155

Notes 157

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